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over a year ago
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"...to 'make' you cum.
Are you?
Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"
Nah not me  |
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over a year ago
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Yes, I rely on the man to make me cum if I meet them for sex.
Otherwise I’d stay at home on my own and use my rabbit to achieve an orgasm.
I also think it’s my responsibility to make the man cum.
Why bother meeting up for sex if you’re not going to at least try?
May as well just stay at home alone. |
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"Yes, I rely on the man to make me cum if I meet them for sex.
Otherwise I’d stay at home on my own and use my rabbit to achieve an orgasm.
I also think it’s my responsibility to make the man cum.
Why bother meeting up for sex if you’re not going to at least try?
May as well just stay at home alone."
So is sex just about orgasm for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I rely on the man to make me cum if I meet them for sex.
Otherwise I’d stay at home on my own and use my rabbit to achieve an orgasm.
I also think it’s my responsibility to make the man cum.
Why bother meeting up for sex if you’re not going to at least try?
May as well just stay at home alone.
So is sex just about orgasm for you?"
No, because I rarely orgasm
I like the whole thing, the kissing, the touching, getting the giggles.
But I would feel I hadn’t turned the man on if he didn’t cum which I know is hypocritical because I don’t cum very often. |
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"...to 'make' you cum.
Are you?
Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility? Nah not me "
Long time no see! |
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"...to 'make' you cum.
Are you?
Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"
Why would I keep a dog and bark??   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...to 'make' you cum.
Are you?
Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"
with a meet I dont expect to have one at all.. it's not what I meet for. |
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It's alway's good if a man can make me cum,but it's not particularly his responsiblity. It's not the be all and end all,but nice.
I've only had one relationship where he could make me cum everytime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I rely on the man to make me cum if I meet them for sex.
Otherwise I’d stay at home on my own and use my rabbit to achieve an orgasm.
I also think it’s my responsibility to make the man cum.
Why bother meeting up for sex if you’re not going to at least try?
May as well just stay at home alone.
So is sex just about orgasm for you?
No, because I rarely orgasm
I like the whole thing, the kissing, the touching, getting the giggles.
But I would feel I hadn’t turned the man on if he didn’t cum which I know is hypocritical because I don’t cum very often."
Hahaha I am exactly the same. Get quite upset and grumpy if a guy doesn't. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.
Wait till you need a jar opening lol x
I'd rather go without. If the jar wants to play games, I'll smash the fucker. "
Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.
Wait till you need a jar opening lol x
Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago  "
That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again |
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"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.
Wait till you need a jar opening lol x
Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago
That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again "
Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.
Wait till you need a jar opening lol x
Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago
And without us you would have nothing to moan about lol x
That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again
Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.
Wait till you need a jar opening lol x
Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago
And without us you would have nothing to moan about lol x
That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again
Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.
Wait till you need a jar opening lol x
Nar I have a jar opening appliance that my dad bought me 30 year's ago
And without us you will have nothing to moan about lol x
And without us you would have nothing to moan about lol x
That hooky thing on a tin opener poked in the jar rim. Never need a man for a stiff lid again
Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though "
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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Really depends now you reach climax I suppose. I do know some who can only climax via masturbation. I know some who climax frequently and hard, it seems to be quite varying. I don't see that it should be expected or relied upon.
Although, orgasms are awesome to watch unfold |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.
Wait till you need a jar opening lol x
I'd rather go without. If the jar wants to play games, I'll smash the fucker. "
Nice answer, but what about if there's a spider or mouse that needs getting rid of???
Better call the RSPCA as I don't see this ending well!
(and yes I forgot to use quote so I've had to do a re-write!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...to 'make' you cum.
Are you?
Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"
I take mine. Every time. But if he beats me to it he's in the Good Books for eternity! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will never rely on a bloke for anything, ever.
Wait till you need a jar opening lol x
I'd rather go without. If the jar wants to play games, I'll smash the fucker.
Nice answer, but what about if there's a spider or mouse that needs getting rid of???
Better call the RSPCA as I don't see this ending well!
(and yes I forgot to use quote so I've had to do a re-write!)"
so all women are afraid of spiders or mice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though "
And I do that too, did last night.
I also set the spiders free outside.
Gender is dead, be modern! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...to 'make' you cum.
Are you?
Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"
I get more orgasms alone so I definitely belong to the latter |
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"...to 'make' you cum.
Are you?
Or are you enjoying the whole experience and know that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all and if you want one, it's your responsibility?"
For me it’s absolutely the whole experience. Don’t get off when a guy is just trying to ‘make’ me cum. Much better when you don’t have a set goal and can lose youselves in the passion of it all.
I’m not a fuck and go kind of girl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok maybe I'm wired completely differently to every other female on here but to me orgasms are a natural by product of sex. I love experiencing an orgasm that is a result of something my partner has been doing. No, orgasms aren't the be all and end all but for me they are a bloody enjoyable part and they are so much better when mutually achieved. So although I don't rely on someone "giving me an orgasm" I much prefer that they do! To me, if I don't orgasm then that tells me that I was completely wrong in my partner selection and the sexual chemistry just isn't there.
Yep I've thought about it a bit more. Orgasms when with someone else aren't something that you rely on the other person for, they are a result of mutual simulation. |
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Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though
And I do that too, did last night.
I also set the spiders free outside.
Gender is dead, be modern! "
Due to the absence of a man in the house I do all that as well |
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"Ok maybe I'm wired completely differently to every other female on here but to me orgasms are a natural by product of sex. I love experiencing an orgasm that is a result of something my partner has been doing. No, orgasms aren't the be all and end all but for me they are a bloody enjoyable part and they are so much better when mutually achieved. So although I don't rely on someone "giving me an orgasm" I much prefer that they do! To me, if I don't orgasm then that tells me that I was completely wrong in my partner selection and the sexual chemistry just isn't there.
Yep I've thought about it a bit more. Orgasms when with someone else aren't something that you rely on the other person for, they are a result of mutual simulation. "
I don't entirely agree. I had an ex who could make me cum everytime we had sex,we still weren't completely compatible in the bedroom though.
Actually let me think about that some more...think I just got bored in the end,it was all predictable. My fault as well I suppose. |
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Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though
And I do that too, did last night.
I also set the spiders free outside.
Gender is dead, be modern!
Due to the absence of a man in the house I do all that as well "
Damn, so you don't need a man for anything?  |
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Nope,we still need them to stick the bin's out though
And I do that too, did last night.
I also set the spiders free outside.
Gender is dead, be modern!
Due to the absence of a man in the house I do all that as well
Damn, so you don't need a man for anything? "
Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want to experience an orgasm with the person I'm with.
I don't see it as a responsibility I see it as a mutual experience, the result of being sexually compatible.
If for any reason I don't think it's going to happen then I would take the lead to ensure that it does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont rely on one man but always find one or more of them at a meet make me cum. The others seem to try harder after the first guy has done it so i get plenty of orgasms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really
Which half, the left or the right?
Top half smarty knickers "
Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok maybe I'm wired completely differently to every other female on here but to me orgasms are a natural by product of sex. I love experiencing an orgasm that is a result of something my partner has been doing. No, orgasms aren't the be all and end all but for me they are a bloody enjoyable part and they are so much better when mutually achieved. So although I don't rely on someone "giving me an orgasm" I much prefer that they do! To me, if I don't orgasm then that tells me that I was completely wrong in my partner selection and the sexual chemistry just isn't there.
Yep I've thought about it a bit more. Orgasms when with someone else aren't something that you rely on the other person for, they are a result of mutual simulation. "
Couldn't agree more so you are not alone! I find it quite selfish if a man cums but doesn't at least help you, all I need is a finger a tongue and 5 minutes  |
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Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really
Which half, the left or the right?
Top half smarty knickers
Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down"
The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really
Which half, the left or the right?
Top half smarty knickers
Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down
The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there "
Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?  |
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Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really
Which half, the left or the right?
Top half smarty knickers
Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down
The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there
Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here? "
I have an outside window sill where some of the cement has blown! |
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By *edgeend6Couple
over a year ago
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I don't expect to cum through clit stimulation on a meet but I do love a guy to make me cum through finger fucking and finding my sweet spot. But most of the time the sex is so intense nothing else is needed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really
Which half, the left or the right?
Top half smarty knickers
Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down
The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there
Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?
I have an outside window sill where some of the cement has blown!"
Ground floor or first floor? Just I'll need some ladders... Sounds like I might need to stay over |
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"Ok maybe I'm wired completely differently to every other female on here but to me orgasms are a natural by product of sex. I love experiencing an orgasm that is a result of something my partner has been doing. No, orgasms aren't the be all and end all but for me they are a bloody enjoyable part and they are so much better when mutually achieved. So although I don't rely on someone "giving me an orgasm" I much prefer that they do! To me, if I don't orgasm then that tells me that I was completely wrong in my partner selection and the sexual chemistry just isn't there.
Yep I've thought about it a bit more. Orgasms when with someone else aren't something that you rely on the other person for, they are a result of mutual simulation. "
Yup, I agree. I'm not 'responsible' for theirs, nor vice versa, but I expect to have some, and expect them to as well, it's not an issue unless something is seriously wrong thank goodness. |
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Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really
Which half, the left or the right?
Top half smarty knickers
Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down
The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there
Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?
I have an outside window sill where some of the cement has blown!
Ground floor or first floor? Just I'll need some ladders... Sounds like I might need to stay over"
Ground floor no ladders needed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I could do with one to break up half a concrete path,apart from that not really
Which half, the left or the right?
Top half smarty knickers
Just checking...as long as it's still wide enough for me to get the bins down
The bin's are at the side of the house in the front,the path is in the back garden so yea no problem there
Any other jobs need doing whilst I'm here?
I have an outside window sill where some of the cement has blown!
Ground floor or first floor? Just I'll need some ladders... Sounds like I might need to stay over
Ground floor no ladders needed!"
Still need to stay over...to check the cement has dried okay |
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