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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know straight away this is not people's thing, if not... fuck off.
I am bi-c however all of my previous meets have been with females alone, with partners or a club. A few of the men suggest to play anally of which I haven't really done apart from alone with myself. It's fun, I like it.
However I really have this massive urge to fuck a cock and I don't really know where to begin. I've read loads online and just wanted to get actual real life advice really... ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As in how to domit physically or how to find someone who will do it to you? "
A bit of both. I'm more interested in others experience and how they came about doing it. Is it nice? Just overall advice thanks xx |
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Preparation x practice x
They can buy you, they can use you, but once you get that taste for cock.....theres no going back x
Try a toy like a butt plug or small dildo and just go gentle inserting it x butt plug will stay in easier if you use only a little lube x you may feel Full or slightly uncomfortable, you must accept it will feel unnatural x
Work your way up to medium size dildo and over time take your first cock x relax |
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By *nufflesCouple
over a year ago
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I agree with the pegging advice me and my wife played around with her doing stuff to me. I didn't think I would like it and only did it to please her and if I didn't like it then would know. After that she has used her toys on me so I bought a 5in strap on and we both enjoyed it. I haven't had a guy fuck me and don't want to either but who knows in future but deffo go with pegging. I'm sure you can find people at clubs willing to do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We started with butt plugs etc, then strap on working up in size.
Have to say now that there's nothing like the real thing "
Oh yes, the real thing feels amazing and toys don't quite compare ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patients and don’t rush! Don’t go to big to start with, learn to relax and plenty of lube, if you think there is too much lube then add some more!
Roxy started with small butt plugs and worked up to bigger sizes, when we started strapon play we started small and they was the smooth ones. We now use life like ones but always “prep” first with a butt plug just to open him up a bit.
We have various sizes and colours depending on the mood from flesh to black ones.
Search for a woman wanting to peg a guy and take it slowly or you’ll hurt yourself and not want to do it again.
If done right it’s a great experience!
Mrs |
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Make sure you find someone who is experienced at giving anal and tell them it's your first time beforehand. Start slowly and gently and if it feels awkward try going on top so you can control things. It's a great feeling though being bent over with a guys hands on your hips fucking you. |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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I also went down the route of buying a decent anal trainer kit.
When it comes down to it, someone who is willing to be patient and nice about it is definitely a priority, well, for me anyhoo!
Buy a bucket of lube! |
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"That's my thought... I wish a female would but that is massively unlikely. Hence I'm hoping for a mmf type of situation x"
Not as unlikely as you think - plenty of women get turned on by this.
Also, surely there's no anatomical difference between men's and women's bums. So popping an anal cherry should be no bigger deal for a man than a woman in physical terms. The only reason it worries men (including me) more is psychological - the deep cultural aversion to gay sex has infected our subconscious minds, even if we're not homophobic.
Taking anal for the first time is a significant event, and not everyone likes it. But it's not life-defining (unless you really like it). |
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