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Do winks work for women/couples?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, I am fairly new to this site (couple of months) and I was just wondering, do women and couples actually looked at their winks/wink back?
You all must get inundated with winks and fabs every single day from thousands of guys, but do you actually look at them/wink back/message because of this.
Would you say this works? Or do you just prefer to be messaged by a guy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ignore winks - I get enough messages to keep me entertained and if someone wants to get my attention they can send me a message. Most men have empty profiles with no details or decent pics so there's not anything to capture my interest anyways if I did look at them when they winked me, A well written message with some nice (not penis) photos attached is the way forward!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t normally look at winks as most are off picture less profiles or profiles with very little on them. If someone likes our profiles we much prefer a message with a clear face pic if there isn’t one public. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought that would be the case for both of you haha. Seems as though women and couples get winks so often from a lot of pictureless profiles. Best way to do it is a good personal message, and I'll keep in mind defo no cock pics haha???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We will have a look at a wink, its a harmless way of other people showing an interest and draws our attention to someone we might not have seen.
Most of the time we will either wink back if there is some compatibility, if not just ignore it. Winks from single men who clearly haven't read our prolife will be deleted and the sender blocked
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We will have a look at a wink, its a harmless way of other people showing an interest and draws our attention to someone we might not have seen.
Most of the time we will either wink back if there is some compatibility, if not just ignore it. Winks from single men who clearly haven't read our prolife will be deleted and the sender blocked
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We do exactly the same as this. So essentially a wink can work, but a well crafted message tailored to the profile you're interested in is always better. |
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Winks do work for us from time to time. We prefer a message though. It’s a sign of confidence more than anything. If you’re too shy to message, then god only knows what an actual meet may be like. If you don’t ask, you don’t get. We don’t bite, much Horses for courses etc
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"Hi, I am fairly new to this site (couple of months) and I was just wondering, do women and couples actually looked at their winks/wink back?
You all must get inundated with winks and fabs every single day from thousands of guys, but do you actually look at them/wink back/message because of this.
Would you say this works? Or do you just prefer to be messaged by a guy?"
Hi cutie!
I’ve got nearly 900 messages at the moment - most of which I won’t get to read - so no way on earth will I ever get round to looking at winks!
You’ve got an attractive face pic as your profile pic anyway (I’d open a message from you if I saw it anyway) so, as long as your opening message isn’t ‘wanna fuck babe?’ You should do pretty well!
Good luck op! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought that would be the case for both of you haha. Seems as though women and couples get winks so often from a lot of pictureless profiles. Best way to do it is a good personal message, and I'll keep in mind defo no cock pics haha????"
We not bothered about cock pics if the person messaging sends a good message with a clear face pic it’s good enough but at the same time if they send a face pic and a cock pic fair enough. But if it’s like 6 pics of a cock and unclear face pic we tend to not respond. There’s more to a person than his cock |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha thanks for all the messages it seems as though a wink can work sometimes, but best way to do it is definitely with a crafted message to get your attention!! |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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For me I personally ignore all winks and bulk delete. 9 times out of 10 they are from a blank profile with either no pics or just a cock on show.
A well worded message will get you far |
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"I thought that would be the case for both of you haha. Seems as though women and couples get winks so often from a lot of pictureless profiles. Best way to do it is a good personal message, and I'll keep in mind defo no cock pics haha????"
We also ignore winks x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I don't wink anyone. If a profile catches my eye, i'd much rather put some effort into a well crafted message and a couple of facial pics. The odds of success are much better I believe. I receive winks and always look at them. If the profile interests me, then I that case I back and send a message with pics as well. Very successful that way |
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We ignore winks and would never send one because we feel it'd be lazy. Like most females/couples here we get more than enough messages and our profile states we won't respond to winks or friend request so if people ignore that we don't feel the need to do more. |
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"I don't wink anyone. If a profile catches my eye, i'd much rather put some effort into a well crafted message and a couple of facial pics. The odds of success are much better I believe. I receive winks and always look at them. If the profile interests me, then I that case I back and send a message with pics as well. Very successful that way "
This should be posted in every thread started by a guy who can't understand why nobody seems to be interested in them. It's usually down to a lack of effort in their profile and approach to making contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi, I am fairly new to this site (couple of months) and I was just wondering, do women and couples actually looked at their winks/wink back?
You all must get inundated with winks and fabs every single day from thousands of guys, but do you actually look at them/wink back/message because of this.
Would you say this works? Or do you just prefer to be messaged by a guy?"
From my experience many years ago as a singleton even messages do not work.
You either get bulk deleted or so far down the list you vanish into the ether.
Not only that you have to craft the most personal and exquisite message it has to be accompanied by some photos resembling the front cover of a fitness magazine.
Then after all that they may read your message and then bottle a return reply based on whether they value their Fabitis and go for it or realise that shit just got real and question whether you are in the same league and then not reply.
I shall now take the tongue out of my cheek.  . Mr L. |
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"Hi, I am fairly new to this site (couple of months) and I was just wondering, do women and couples actually looked at their winks/wink back?
You all must get inundated with winks and fabs every single day from thousands of guys, but do you actually look at them/wink back/message because of this.
Would you say this works? Or do you just prefer to be messaged by a guy?"
Some do, some don’t. |
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