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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just putting this out here, thinking about organising a party at my place. I live in a very small cottage, cosy and snug. Want to organise a get together for couples and single ladies. Does this seem strange that I don't ask for single guys? Advice please, but no nasty comments, just constructive. Thank you. |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Just putting this out here, thinking about organising a party at my place. I live in a very small cottage, cosy and snug. Want to organise a get together for couples and single ladies. Does this seem strange that I don't ask for single guys? Advice please, but no nasty comments, just constructive. Thank you. "
Imo yes it does seem odd not to invite single males especially as you're one yourself. I suppose if you don't invite any , there's more demand for you. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Just putting this out here, thinking about organising a party at my place. I live in a very small cottage, cosy and snug. Want to organise a get together for couples and single ladies. Does this seem strange that I don't ask for single guys? Advice please, but no nasty comments, just constructive. Thank you.
Imo yes it does seem odd not to invite single males especially as you're one yourself. I suppose if you don't invite any , there's more demand for you. "
exactly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you. TBH I don't have any single male friends on the site. I am not adverse to having any either. I would want to have some at the party, but just hear stories of pushy guys. Certainly wouldn't want that at mine. Hope this makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you. TBH I don't have any single male friends on the site. I am not adverse to having any either. I would want to have some at the party, but just hear stories of pushy guys. Certainly wouldn't want that at mine. Hope this makes sense."
Do you have couples and single women as friends on here? If so, are you inviting them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just putting this out here, thinking about organising a party at my place. I live in a very small cottage, cosy and snug. Want to organise a get together for couples and single ladies. Does this seem strange that I don't ask for single guys? Advice please, but no nasty comments, just constructive. Thank you.
Imo yes it does seem odd not to invite single males especially as you're one yourself. I suppose if you don't invite any , there's more demand for you. "
just what i was thinking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah that's what I thought. Which is why I put this on the forum to get answers. I am on the site looking for a regular playmate going on to make a couple profile. Difficult but I keep soldiering on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you. TBH I don't have any single male friends on the site. I am not adverse to having any either. I would want to have some at the party, but just hear stories of pushy guys. Certainly wouldn't want that at mine. Hope this makes sense."
remember single mem arent all pushy and some couuples and single women can be too
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do have friends on my profile and some couples I have met at a club. Not organised anything yet as just want advice and answers. So far it has been great. I would like to thank everyone for their advice and comments. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you. I go to jaydees and have met many people there. Just thought it would be nice to have a get together at mine. Can't do the hot tub thing though. Not that size anyway!!!  |
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"Thank you. TBH I don't have any single male friends on the site. I am not adverse to having any either. I would want to have some at the party, but just hear stories of pushy guys. Certainly wouldn't want that at mine. Hope this makes sense."
As a single guy not inviting other single guys, it can seem like you are trying to organise your own personal perv session. If you don't want to invite them, its your choice. If you do, ask some of the couples who are attending for recommendations and / or review the verifications of those who respond.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you. I am not looking for it to be my own personal perv session, far from it. Just thought it would be good to meet new people away from the club. Will probably be making tea most of the night!!  ideally would want to make it an even number ratio. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's your house - just be very careful who you invite as if you don't know the guests (or have a good friend that can vouch for them), you leave yourself open to getting your house trashed or stuff nicked.
I went to a party a couple of years ago where 3 people had their wallets pinched by a guest, and have also seen people be less than careful about dropping red wine on the carpet if they don't personally know the host. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you. I will sort this, get a date and post it. See what happens. True to my word also, I will put you down for this sir. Can you send me a mail please? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you. This is exactly the reason why I have asked these questions. I just want to be careful, not just for me but my guests to. Not worried about the wine, house is getting stripped for refurbishment anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am gonna be offline now for 24 hours so will get back and see if I can catch up with any more advice and suggestions. Thank you all for your input. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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We personally wouldn't attend a party like this.
It comes across like you want in on the action and don't want any other single guys to take that away from you. No one should feel obliged to play with the host, and this is how it is coming across to us.
Although you will argue this point, it is a valid point. There's nothing wrong with asking single guys to attend, and you can always get recommendations from the couples and fems you invite. |
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I've just had a small party in my very small flat and each guest was invited. We all joined a KIK group to get to know each other beforehand. Soome guests knew each other, only one guest had never met any of us.
It went well but being small, there wasn't anywhere to go if someone decided they didn't want to play or wasn't feeling it.
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