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over a year ago
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"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.
Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
I love Fab, you just never know  "
How very dare you  |
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over a year ago
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"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.
Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
I love Fab, you just never know "
Oh dear. I sympathise as I’ve had this many times too. That block button is a great feature  |
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"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.
Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
I love Fab, you just never know
Oh dear. I sympathise as I’ve had this many times too. That block button is a great feature "
He was mad because I replied to him and told me I should have just deleted his message without replying. |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.
Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
I love Fab, you just never know "
I get this all the time !
Makes me so angry that I go out of my way to say sorry not my type
To then get a tirade of disgusting abuse
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.
Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
I love Fab, you just never know
Oh dear. I sympathise as I’ve had this many times too. That block button is a great feature
He was mad because I replied to him and told me I should have just deleted his message without replying."
We can’t win !
Get abused for that too |
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over a year ago
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I'm indifferent to a reply saying "no thanks".
Though I don't know why someone would bother doing so. You can simply delete the message and they'll get the drift. |
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"I'm indifferent to a reply saying "no thanks".
Though I don't know why someone would bother doing so. You can simply delete the message and they'll get the drift. "
Have you actually read the threads where we are all called ignorant, up ourselves and rude for doing just that? |
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"Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!"
You can please some of the people all of the time.
You can please all of the people some of the time.
You cannot please all of the people all of the time. |
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"Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
You can please some of the people all of the time.
You can please all of the people some of the time.
You cannot please all of the people all of the time."
Ain’t that the truth! |
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"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.
Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
I love Fab, you just never know "
aye well fuck you topsy..I only asked for anal on our first date.... |
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"Why would you listen to the opinions of a vindictive, spiteful child?
I wouldn't. Delete and move on. "
I was simply pointing out the irony of it, I’m quite used to what happens here and I have a healthy block list. He didn’t like the fact I replied with a no thanks and said I should have ignored him and not replied.
Not fucked if you do, not fucked if you don’t. |
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"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.
Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
I love Fab, you just never know
aye well fuck you topsy..I only asked for anal on our first date...."
I ignored you beautifully, didn’t I. |
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I usually ignore but last week I had a spare 10 minutes so I decided to answer a few some had messaged three times so I sent a polite thank you but no thank you I got one back to say thank you for your reply another said I had changed my mind anyway you are awful another Said your loss ugly whore so I am now going back 2 deleting and blocking all unsuitable matches |
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"I'm indifferent to a reply saying "no thanks".
Though I don't know why someone would bother doing so. You can simply delete the message and they'll get the drift.
Have you actually read the threads where we are all called ignorant, up ourselves and rude for doing just that?"
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"Manners don't cost anything . I'm glad you replied as personally I find it wrong if you don't. I understand women get 100s of messages it's just my way. Goid for you n as for him well his loss "
But it did cost her...it cost her time, effort and being exposed to unwarranted abuse... |
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"Manners don't cost anything . I'm glad you replied as personally I find it wrong if you don't. I understand women get 100s of messages it's just my way. Goid for you n as for him well his loss "
Its your way? Jeez.
Nobody has to reply. Nobody. Once you have sent your message it no longer belongs to you, nor do you have control over what happens to it.
Most of us agree that if someone has read our profiles and constructed a nice message, we reply. The rest get ignored, which is everybodys prerogative.
That twat gave me abuse because he thinks I should have ignored him. |
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"Manners don't cost anything . I'm glad you replied as personally I find it wrong if you don't. I understand women get 100s of messages it's just my way. Goid for you n as for him well his loss "
I hate that expression 'manners cost nothing'. Why don't single guys understand that manners cost time at the very least? Even the queen doesn't personally reply to all her mail - she has to hire a team to do that for her.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't abuse someone for saying 'thanks, but no thanks', but I too would prefer a delete than a reply if I'm not their type. Have no desire for an in box full of rejection letters. So seeing as different people prefer different responses, what is actually rude? What gives people the right to decide what the correct etiquette everybody is different?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A number of jobs I've applied for in the past state that if the applicants hear nothing within 2 weeks then the applicant has not been shortlisted for an interview. Were they rude not to waste valuable resources on sending formal rejection letters to hundreds of applicants?
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"I just got abuse for sending a ‘no thanks’ to a polite message.
Apparently, it’s not nice and I should have just ignored him!
I love Fab, you just never know
aye well fuck you topsy..I only asked for anal on our first date....
I ignored you beautifully, didn’t I."
Aye but dont deny ya fingered yer pie  |
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