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It’s a joint effort from us with equal input on the profile, photos and messages. But the messages we receive always assume it’s just me in control. We won’t add a friend or share face pics etc. until we’ve both caught up with the chat and decided we’re both interested. Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are the same I (fem) lead the profile though it's been written by us both
I too enjoy the chase....  "
We all like the Chace but I'm not as quick as I used to be  |
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It seems to be the women on the forums and men private message. I do wish couples would make it clear when they message who it is that is actually sending the messages because I always find myself having to ask |
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over a year ago
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We both use it equally... replying to msgs and chatting we decide together who we like the look of, and who's going in the bin... we keep nothing hidden from each other,
Tho we do find guys just presume it's M ( the female ) they are msging, and some are dam right just blatantly disrespectful..
But if they want to be that way il.have fun reeling them in and dissing them with a few harsh yet well chosen words...then it's block block block...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both run it. I dont like the chase so will often leave Mr to do the chatting. Plus I'm really bad at how I come across in messages. Far to blunt.
It's normally me on the forum though.
Cali |
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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago
Over the roundabout and then turn right. |
With us it's Mr who takes care of all things fab. Mrs has no part of it (her choice) but she will look at a profile if a meet seems likely. She will then read all messages from the profile involved and either say yay or nay.
On the other hand, it doesn't even get that far if I am not interested. It also protects her from the idiots. This system works for us. |
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
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My husband looks after the pictures
We both do the profile,
I answer all the messages
Hubby is always nearby if I get a couple of idiots.
Have a fun week fellow fabbers
it’s my birthday this week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both on and off here quite frequently but it's mostly Mrs filth that does the messaging but that's mostly because it's single guys that contact us and I'm not the one who's gonna decide who is going to stick their dick in her that's her choice.
We do however make it clear which one of us is messaging which is something we find a lot of couples don't do and usually means it's just the guy that's chatting and if that's the case the chance of us meeting them is greatly reduced.
We also get lots of messages that are aimed directly at Mrs filth which are usually along the lines of "your body is perfect I would love to fuck you hard blah blah blah" to which it's me that usually responds with a "thank you I rarely get a compliment like that I've got an hour or so before the wife gets home do you fancy a quick meet alone?" But I never get a reply back  lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems to be the women on the forums and men private message. I do wish couples would make it clear when they message who it is that is actually sending the messages because I always find myself having to ask"
I the female always put an x at end of my messages male dosnt x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems to be the women on the forums and men private message. I do wish couples would make it clear when they message who it is that is actually sending the messages because I always find myself having to askI the female always put an x at end of my messages male dosnt x"
ps I do usually say female replying but with my bad memory sometimes i forget but we both msg ppl we have single guys blocked because they dont seem to treat a couple profile like there's a male and female its all female directed x hope that makes sense x female replying x
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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago
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"It’s a joint effort from us with equal input on the profile, photos and messages. But the messages we receive always assume it’s just me in control. We won’t add a friend or share face pics etc. until we’ve both caught up with the chat and decided we’re both interested. Mrs x "
This is pretty much the same as us except on the odd occasion that L decides to surprise S. But usually joint decision especially when looking at cpls or single fems x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have my attitude... reel them in ...and flip them out with a few well chosen words...thanks for the compliment il make sure mandz knows you like me so much...she will be thrilled...
Had one at weekend saying he would get a taxi to me.. was tempted to say sure here's my address and sending miles in the wrong direction... hahaha... didn't tho but the thought was there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most couples I speak to on here, it usually feels like I’m talking to a male but he’s pretending to be a female/couple. Even on verified profiles sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With us it's Mr who takes care of all things fab. Mrs has no part of it (her choice) but she will look at a profile if a meet seems likely. She will then read all messages from the profile involved and either say yay or nay.
On the other hand, it doesn't even get that far if I am not interested. It also protects her from the idiots. This system works for us. "
Basically same for us
It's both of us posting in forum
Once in a blue moon mrs cornershop will send a message... |
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I (Risky M) run the profile.
It was writen with Frisky but day to day, I do it all.
Frisky got fed up with guy asking for a fuck, the moment they realised it was Frisky replying...
We mainly use Fab to keep in touch with people we have met at clubs.
She had a singles account but deleted it after someone pissed her off.
She has started a new one but hasn't had the time to really do much with it and as usual is full of messages from guys that aren't what she is looking for... |
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