I'd say I'm more of a sub, but more and more men think that this means I have to do anything they say within the first few messages. For example 4/5th message in and I wouldn't go into the toilet at work and take a picture of my tits, so he got all huffy and told me I need to up my game or he's gone?
Sorry but what? Is he in the wrong or am I?  |
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Haha yea I get this all the time, I’m submissive with the right person but anyone that tries ordering me about within a few messages, demanding pics etc soon gets to realise I’m not submissive out the bedroom...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unless you were his son and had agreed to do what ever he sends then he is in the wrong x although cant he have some imagination.
When I get set photo tasks they are things like naked in a stream or boobs out with cars going past in the background |
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"I'd say I'm more of a sub, but more and more men think that this means I have to do anything they say within the first few messages. For example 4/5th message in and I wouldn't go into the toilet at work and take a picture of my tits, so he got all huffy and told me I need to up my game or he's gone?
Sorry but what? Is he in the wrong or am I? "
Are these men ones you have already met? If not, don’t engage in conversation, unless you want to of course, until you’ve met them for either a social or a meet.
Endless chat means endless wanking for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not how I interpret the roll of a Dom. I thought a Dom took control to give pleasure and manipulate and prolong orgasm to give a heightened sexual experience. Sounds like he just wanted to wank over a picture of your tits  |
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"I'd say I'm more of a sub, but more and more men think that this means I have to do anything they say within the first few messages. For example 4/5th message in and I wouldn't go into the toilet at work and take a picture of my tits, so he got all huffy and told me I need to up my game or he's gone?
Sorry but what? Is he in the wrong or am I? "
Tell him not to slam the door on the way out.
Seriously though, i immediately tell guys the domination does not begin before meeting. Otherwise you're simply feeding pic collectors. |
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"Haha yea I get this all the time, I’m submissive with the right person but anyone that tries ordering me about within a few messages, demanding pics etc soon gets to realise I’m not submissive out the bedroom... "
Exactly this.
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I make it very clear from the outset that I don’t submit to everyone and he/she/they have to earn my submission. My gift to give and should by no means be expected on their part. It usually s out the wannabes x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Sounds like you've bumped into the all too common variety known as dim dom who have seen some dodgy porn or read that book and think they know all there is to know - wouldn't surprise me if he used a phrase like "you're not a true sub if you won't"
I'm not Dom in any way, in fact quite the opposite when the mood takes me, but sadly there are many who think Dom means giving orders and getting what they want all the time, which couldn't be further from the truth. |
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"I make it very clear from the outset that I don’t submit to everyone and he/she/they have to earn my submission. My gift to give and should by no means be expected on their part. It usually s out the wannabes x"
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By *azsarCouple
over a year ago
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Me and my wife have a s/d relationship in the bedroom. I have the utmost respect for her and love her with every breath in me
Most men on here have no understanding of being a Dom
They think slapping your arse and calling you a slut is all it takes |
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