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Cleanliness

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is it wrong to suggest or ask for a person to be clean downstairs? Following a recent one-off hook-up with a very smelly woman I now know that cleanliness is a must (there is no way of a second meet with her). Ladies would you be offended and do you think that some words are best left unsaid?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would think that being clean is standard but having been in the same position as you, asking people to be clean is a reasonable request

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

Even if you stipulate it I'm not sure how you would ensure it before you met :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Even if you stipulate it I'm not sure how you would ensure it before you met :/

You could bring up the point in coversation then the woman might want to shower or wash before any intimacy or fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I met anyone and they weren't clean or were smelly I would quite happily tell them. If people aren't told they will never do anything about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" If I met anyone and they weren't clean or were smelly I would quite happily tell them. If people aren't told they will never do anything about it"

Good point but what about people who might be offended. It could be a deal breaker?

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

" If I met anyone and they weren't clean or were smelly I would quite happily tell them. If people aren't told they will never do anything about it

Good point but what about people who might be offended. It could be a deal breaker?

Suggest a shower together?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" If I met anyone and they weren't clean or were smelly I would quite happily tell them. If people aren't told they will never do anything about it

Good point but what about people who might be offended. It could be a deal breaker?

Suggest a shower together?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You shouldn't have to ask, but some people bathe and smell because they have bv-which isn't caused by not bathing- or have strong, natural body smells.

There's a difference between unclean and natural smell.

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By *londieddWoman over a year ago

fife

if someone thought they had to tell me to shower they would not get any further

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" If I met anyone and they weren't clean or were smelly I would quite happily tell them. If people aren't told they will never do anything about it

Good point but what about people who might be offended. It could be a deal breaker?

For me it would be a complete deal breaker.

You have choices too OP...you can always walk away. No one forces anyone..i hope... on here to do what they are not comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personal hygenie is the top of my list and if someone hasn't had a shower that's a deal breaker for me.

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By *IA1981Man over a year ago

bath

I once suggested it in the nicest possible way to a woman that I would expect a high standard of cleanliness and she was most put out !!

As was I as the meet was cancelled and I was left to skinny dip all on my own !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" If I met anyone and they weren't clean or were smelly I would quite happily tell them. If people aren't told they will never do anything about it

Good point but what about people who might be offended. It could be a deal breaker?

Fortunately I have never been in this position but if they were that smelly I'd be offended by that so I wouldn't really care what they thought if I pointed it out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You shouldn't have to ask, but some people bathe and smell because they have bv-which isn't caused by not bathing- or have strong, natural body smells.

There's a difference between unclean and natural smell.

This would be hard to establish though, so the meeting might end there. And, also it might be when you have started the foreplay that you realise it is too late to request the shower.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You shouldn't have to ask, but some people bathe and smell because they have bv-which isn't caused by not bathing- or have strong, natural body smells.

There's a difference between unclean and natural smell.

This!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it wrong to suggest or ask for a person to be clean downstairs? Following a recent one-off hook-up with a very smelly woman I now know that cleanliness is a must (there is no way of a second meet with her). Ladies would you be offended and do you think that some words are best left unsaid?

Im guessing it didnt stop you from finishing?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I would make my excuses and leave. No I wouldn't tell them as that would be incredibly humiliating for someone and maybe they can't help it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Im guessing it didnt stop you from finishing?

We went upstairs and started the play, and more or less straight to penetration. She then requested a fisting (I don't like that too much). It was then that I was confronted with the vile smell

I then manoeuvred round for a blow job and ensured that she finished me off

I then suggested we go as she was seeing someone else that evening. She looked rather surprised, but I hoped she didn't want oral in return.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would expect anyone I meet to be shower fresh and smelling lovely if that wasn't the case I'd be completely turned off and out of the door asap!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would expect anyone I meet to be shower fresh and smelling lovely if that wasn't the case I'd be completely turned off and out of the door asap!!"

I was shocked that she didn't request the bathroom to freshen up as we had just been out for an afternoon meal. It was sort of too late to raise the point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" If I met anyone and they weren't clean or were smelly I would quite happily tell them. If people aren't told they will never do anything about it

Good point but what about people who might be offended. It could be a deal breaker?

Suggest a shower together?"

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I would expect anyone I meet to be shower fresh and smelling lovely if that wasn't the case I'd be completely turned off and out of the door asap!!"

This.

It's an absolute must for us, squeaky clean please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say that if you noticed it when penetrating, it could be bacterial vaginosis. This isn't caused by being unclean.

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By *IA1981Man over a year ago

bath

"I would expect anyone I meet to be shower fresh and smelling lovely if that wasn't the case I'd be completely turned off and out of the door asap!!

This.

It's an absolute must for us, squeaky clean please. "

You look more than squeaky clean. Good enough to eat may I say !! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bet you still shagged her

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Bet you still shagged her

Please read further up the post for the outcome.

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By *IA1981Man over a year ago

bath

Bet you still shagged her

Sooooooo ??!!?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would say that if you noticed it when penetrating, it could be bacterial vaginosis. This isn't caused by being unclean. "

Still a bad experience, if that was the case then a wash might have helped and a refusal of oral from her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bet you still shagged her

Please read further up the post for the outcome.

But even after she asked you to fist her and you smelt her you still had a blow job!

Sorry but how do you know she's not on the forums and reads this! Maybe approach her in private before putting it on the whole of fab forum to see!

Typical!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If anyone I meet smelled they will be through the door, it is a total turn off with a stanger. I am happy to have some (like one-day) scent with a lover as I know their scent and love it, same with perspiration.

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

"Even if you stipulate it I'm not sure how you would ensure it before you met :/

You could bring up the point in coversation then the woman might want to shower or wash before any intimacy or fun.

If you "reminded" me I needed to be clean that would end the conversation very quickly!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Bet you still shagged her

Please read further up the post for the outcome.

But even after she asked you to fist her and you smelt her you still had a blow job!

Sorry but how do you know she's not on the forums and reads this! Maybe approach her in private before putting it on the whole of fab forum to see!

Typical! "

She is not on here and it was a year ago from another site. She wouldn't recognise me anyway as no face pics.

Luckily her breath did not smell so a blow job was a conciliation for the previous punishment.

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I would expect anyone I meet to be shower fresh and smelling lovely if that wasn't the case I'd be completely turned off and out of the door asap!!

This.

It's an absolute must for us, squeaky clean please.

You look more than squeaky clean. Good enough to eat may I say !! X"

Well with our pic it's, definitely 'out there', it's a compliment so we're gonna take it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bet you still shagged her

Please read further up the post for the outcome.

But even after she asked you to fist her and you smelt her you still had a blow job!

Sorry but how do you know she's not on the forums and reads this! Maybe approach her in private before putting it on the whole of fab forum to see!

Typical!

She is not on here and it was a year ago from another site. She wouldn't recognise me anyway as no face pics.

Luckily her breath did not smell so a blow job was a conciliation for the previous punishment.

That's Made me laugh

thanks OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Bet you still shagged her

Please read further up the post for the outcome.

But even after she asked you to fist her and you smelt her you still had a blow job!

Sorry but how do you know she's not on the forums and reads this! Maybe approach her in private before putting it on the whole of fab forum to see!

Typical!

She is not on here and it was a year ago from another site. She wouldn't recognise me anyway as no face pics.

Luckily her breath did not smell so a blow job was a conciliation for the previous punishment.

That's Made me laugh

thanks OP "

It's a pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would just refuse to play with anyone with hygiene problems.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Life on here never ceases to suprise sadly.

You would think that cleanliness was a basic minimum standard that EVERYONE lived their life by...we don't live in the bloody Dark Ages...!!!

There's NO excuse for not being clean unless you're lost in the jungle for a week with Bear Grylls...!!!

Eeeeuuuoooogh!!!!! Makes me think that perhaps its time to call a halt to meeting new people.

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