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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone have any hint on coping with showing their fatty bits?? I try to hide them in my pics. And it's putting me off meets as someone could be judgemental about my shape  |
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By *arngreyCouple
over a year ago
london |
be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I don’t like my lumps and bumps but those I play with obviously don’t mind them. Find those who accept you for who you are. You’ll become more comfortable with some guys and especially if you play with them on a regular basis.
It’s not always easy but you’ll get there. |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Just for you sweetie, I have set one of my pics to profile pic, and made public.
Some will love it, some will hate it, but.. its me. like it or lump it. Being happy in your own skin can be hard for some, devastating when some put you down... until you are happy enough to realise they are not the people you should even entertain. 
The right people will love who you are, rather than being hung up on a shape. |
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"  thank u all. I do show more in depth pics to guys im interested in so they know what to expect. But they lose interest quick that makes me worry  "
May I add a male perspective OP?
Don't change for anyone, be honest to yourself and if guys don't like it then they are not for you.
I have fabbed all your pics, they are lovely and tasteful x
Lift your head and walk tall, be confident and own it x
Have a few of my smiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers."
No need to be derogatory about any body shape! |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
West Kent (near Tonbridge) |
"be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers.
No need to be derogatory about any body shape!"
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No point trying to hide it. I'm one of the largest women on the site and I also have a disability and upfront about it. I don't give two hoots what people think. I'm happy in my own skin and that is all that matters. A lot of guys on this site like the bits women try to hide |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers."
Wow. What a moron |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone have any hint on coping with showing their fatty bits?? I try to hide them in my pics. And it's putting me off meets as someone could be judgemental about my shape "
Take no fucking notice of ppl that say nasty things about you. Iv seen your pictures and think you are beautiful xxx |
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"No point trying to hide it. I'm one of the largest women on the site and I also have a disability and upfront about it. I don't give two hoots what people think. I'm happy in my own skin and that is all that matters. A lot of guys on this site like the bits women try to hide "
Well said . You're pics are amazing.  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"be yourself....my wife has the budda belly....if you look at our pics you will see that those lumps n bumps are on show,you do need confidence to show your body off to its full potential, there are plenty of men on here that prefer a proper woman. BE YOURSELF, forget about worrying, be natural, those skinny things in pics are not real, they are just clotheshangers."
What a shallow man you are...ass hole! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
It's got nothing to do with 'real' men liking 'real' women or whatever trite old cliché gets rolled out attempting to flatter one type of womanly shape by being insulting (possibly accidentally) about another. It's simply about the fact that most straight/bi men like women for loads of reasons and in reality don't notice or really care about the bits we hate because hey, boobs or wow, face or phwoar, arse instead. I personally wince looking at my body as a whole, especially in certain positions that make what I consider my most awful bits prominent yet I have never met a guy who has seen my body the same way I do. Perspective is useful. |
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"It's got nothing to do with 'real' men liking 'real' women or whatever trite old cliché gets rolled out attempting to flatter one type of womanly shape by being insulting (possibly accidentally) about another. It's simply about the fact that most straight/bi men like women for loads of reasons and in reality don't notice or really care about the bits we hate because hey, boobs or wow, face or phwoar, arse instead. I personally wince looking at my body as a whole, especially in certain positions that make what I consider my most awful bits prominent yet I have never met a guy who has seen my body the same way I do. Perspective is useful."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone have any hint on coping with showing their fatty bits?? I try to hide them in my pics. And it's putting me off meets as someone could be judgemental about my shape "
Show the real you. At least then they know what to expect and chances are you'll meet someone who fancies you as much as you fancy them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a big, saggy stomach. On Monday, when I went to see my long term partner, he kissed down my body and all over my stomach.
Other men may be turned off by it but I don't care.
He's not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate this culture at the minute of slagging off slim women as "not real women" or "real men like a woman with a bit of meat", a woman is real no matter her size and there will be people who find her attractive, why belittle some to make others feel better  .
OP I know it's so much easier said than done, but you need to appreciate the body you have - it's the only one you'll ever get. Everyone has wobbly bits and bits that they dislike, ignore any images in the media as they are all tampered with and are unattainable - ever seen a model with moles?! It's been a slow journey for me to begin, but people really do focus on your positives and you as a whole rather than an extra inch here or there |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Oh dear, here I am, one of the females who is not a real woman, because I am slim!
And yes, not one man wants to meet me, because he is scared in case it means he is not 'a real man'
I'll just carry on being a 'cloths hanger' because none of the above has been insulting in any way or form what so ever |
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