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Men that don't or didn't like blow jobs
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But now do?
Prior to last week I'd never met a man that didn't like head, I asked him if I could and he explained that he'd never liked them so I respected his likes and dislikes and we continued having sex. After we finished we were talking and when he got hard again he asked me to suck him off, which he did enjoy and he explained he'd not had a mouth on it for over 27 years but he was surprised just how much he liked it.
So has anyone else come to enjoy it years after?
By the way I'm not claiming to be exceptional at giving head, my guess is because he's very girthy a good blow job would be a bit harder maybe??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not that I dislike them, but in my experience not all women really know how to do it well. Sometimes they can be very rough, which is uncomfortable, or they don't suck enough (they really out to be called a suckjob). |
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"It's not that I dislike them, but in my experience not all women really know how to do it well. Sometimes they can be very rough, which is uncomfortable, or they don't suck enough (they really out to be called a suckjob). "
Word. Plus: lack of saliva, lack of eye contact, lack of slurping noises and i prefer it if they would frig themselves at the same time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not that I dislike them, but in my experience not all women really know how to do it well. Sometimes they can be very rough, which is uncomfortable, or they don't suck enough (they really out to be called a suckjob).
Word. Plus: lack of saliva, lack of eye contact, lack of slurping noises and i prefer it if they would frig themselves at the same time. "
I think eye contact is crucial, and I totally get that not all women can do it well same as some men can't give oral. But I'm just glad he's enjoyed it now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been a fan of bj's, wife says I'm impatient, I have had a few lady's over the years who have a good technique and have brought me off quite quickly, but most of the time I don't bother, shes happy with that, if she wants to suck me she can, I won't ask!! But I will spend all day long kissing and caressing her pussy, and she doesn't have to ask ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couple of friends that dont give their partners oral and i really think they're missing out on a very intimate part of love making.
We all have our likes and dislikes... |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Absolutely love recieving them. Never had a bad one in my life. I very rarely cum from them but do get really close. I like them as a warmup and to switch to during sex. Same goes for giving oral of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But now do?
Prior to last week I'd never met a man that didn't like head, I asked him if I could and he explained that he'd never liked them so I respected his likes and dislikes and we continued having sex. After we finished we were talking and when he got hard again he asked me to suck him off, which he did enjoy and he explained he'd not had a mouth on it for over 27 years but he was surprised just how much he liked it.
So has anyone else come to enjoy it years after?
By the way I'm not claiming to be exceptional at giving head, my guess is because he's very girthy a good blow job would be a bit harder maybe??
Ginger"
Is bit that I dont like head. I do. But I'm very very difficult to make cum from head. I've had probably 40 women suck me off in my life and 5 made me cum.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi. Mr when we met years ago said he hates bjs. He has been cut and has lost a lot of sensation as not done well. Anyway. He really enjoys them now. I learnt how to do it well and it certainly entertains him! I think some people are better than others at it and a bad experience can put them off.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi. Mr when we met years ago said he hates bjs. He has been cut and has lost a lot of sensation as not done well. Anyway. He really enjoys them now. I learnt how to do it well and it certainly entertains him! I think some people are better than others at it and a bad experience can put them off.
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He was cut as well actually, it was certainly difficult to get my mouth round so it wouldn't surprise me if he'd had a few women put off doing it. |
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I do enjoy oral both giving and receiving. But not all blowjobs are the same. I've had a few that really were quite painful and I had to pull away or stop. I think it's probably due to over enthusiasm rather than being deliberately vigorous.
If it was a partner then it's easier to change technique over time, but on a one off meeting it just seems simpler and more polite to try something else.
No doubt I've probably given some terrible oral on some ladies we have met and they have just politely moved on too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve always loved having head, weirdly I could have head and no penetrative sex but that’s just me. I think it depends how it’s done I guess. A nice slow licking building up to full sucking in foreplay for me is amazing. I do love lots of foreplay both ways. I think it can be a mood thing as hard pounding is also a big turn on. |
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"Take it or leave it for me...... much prefer to give than to receive...."
im the same.... unless a lady takes pride in her cock sucking abilities and is really good at it I’d much rather go down on her. But then I do love a 69!!  |
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