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The record for no shows or crying off last minute
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"
It's definately not you! i don't meet your criteria but otherwise.
Kinnnnnn eelllll
I realise this doesn't help lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a single guy. I can accommodate. I have my own house. I would love to have a regular thing with a woman i fancy. Can i find anyone?? I have been looking for years lol. |
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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"When such a stunning woman as you starts having problems with meets, the rest of us are doomed!!! 
We’re doomed I tell ya - dooomed!
(Said in the voice of whatsisface from Dad’s Army!  "
Frasier |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
Wigan |
"When such a stunning woman as you starts having problems with meets, the rest of us are doomed!!!
We’re doomed I tell ya - dooomed!
(Said in the voice of whatsisface from Dad’s Army! "
Older fellas talk sense  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"
i bet people are going to say "nothing wrong/their loss/I wouldn't do that ect"
but if it is happening 8 in a row, there are issues!
1 may be unfortunate...
2 may be a blip...
but 8.... 8 is a pattern... and you are the common denominator...
so if i had 8 in a row go wrong i would be looking at the way i went thru my process on how i am picking a choosing whom i deciding to meet...
for example... how long are you talking before meeting? are you talking to them on the phone? how are you doing your checks and balances so to speak....
what are you saying in your profile to attact these people... if something isn't working, change it!!!!
I can count the meets i have had gone bad on 1 hand after a good 8 yrs ish on the site.... because i have found a way to make this site work for me, and i feel there are certain red flags out there i won't meet or i will keep talking to them until those red flags disappear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's time to reevaluate your selection methods!"
Agreed, there are so many time wasters that you have to be really strict and out the chaff. It means maybe missing out on some but far less time wasted. Glad to know meets actually happen on here still. I kinda gave up and go to clubs instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"
Im frankly amazed you have had so many bail on you. Judging by your photos I sure as hell wouldn't.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a thought.
Good girls like bad boys, bad boys let you down.
Good boys however, reliable, passionate, attentive ... and you know what they say "it's always the quiet ones you have to watch" - kinky little fuckers! |
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"3 late cancellations in as many weeks . All thee most bullshit of reasons ...I'm hardly either that scary or revolting , or maybe I am ? So many Fantasists... "
Nope.....very nice legs, in fact very sexy legs that seem to go on forever
They all must have been jealous woman pretending to be men...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it's not you. We've had a load of let downs too! But also some good ones. So I just think it's more luck than total judgement!
Or maybe it is you and is us too? Lol"
Its neither you or the OP they prob liars who are not single and were unable to get away so many cheats on here x female replying x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Hello you two
We noticed your status update and wondered what had happened. You're going about it the way we would, especially when a hotel is booked. Updating your pics, status and posting a meet to drum up interest, fingers crossed it'll do the trick.
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"I've had one guy not turn up for a social but that's all. I went shopping instead "
Now I’m intrigued - what did you buy?
Must admit my no-show rate has decreased a lot as I’ve become older and wiser!
A lot of people are wannabe swingers but haven’t got the balls when it comes down to it - and some have no intention of ever meeting - they just want the attention!
Look out for:
Those who’ve been here ages but haven’t been verified (doesn’t take much effort to go to an organised social even if you can’t get a ‘sex meet’! ) - or just have cam verifications
Those who want to sext a lot (often all they want)
Those who ask to swap pics and videos all the time (again - often all they’re looking for!)
Also look out for pics so perfect that they may have been pinched from t’internet!
Good luck op - hope your next one turns out to be a great one! ??
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"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!
i bet people are going to say "nothing wrong/their loss/I wouldn't do that ect"
but if it is happening 8 in a row, there are issues!
1 may be unfortunate...
2 may be a blip...
but 8.... 8 is a pattern... and you are the common denominator...
so if i had 8 in a row go wrong i would be looking at the way i went thru my process on how i am picking a choosing whom i deciding to meet...
for example... how long are you talking before meeting? are you talking to them on the phone? how are you doing your checks and balances so to speak....
what are you saying in your profile to attact these people... if something isn't working, change it!!!!
I can count the meets i have had gone bad on 1 hand after a good 8 yrs ish on the site.... because i have found a way to make this site work for me, and i feel there are certain red flags out there i won't meet or i will keep talking to them until those red flags disappear"
Agree,maybe going straight to a hotel meet isnt the best way for a first meet either.
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My issue with no shows is that obviously everyone has real life but if you have committed the time x effort x expense and emotional commitment to a meet it sucks when someone lets you down last minute x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a single guy. I can accommodate. I have my own house. I would love to have a regular thing with a woman i fancy. Can i find anyone?? I have been looking for years lol."
I think I'm moving to Plymouth. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"I've had one guy not turn up for a social but that's all. I went shopping instead
Now I’m intrigued - what did you buy?
Must admit my no-show rate has decreased a lot as I’ve become older and wiser!
A lot of people are wannabe swingers but haven’t got the balls when it comes down to it - and some have no intention of ever meeting - they just want the attention!
Look out for:
Those who’ve been here ages but haven’t been verified (doesn’t take much effort to go to an organised social even if you can’t get a ‘sex meet’! ) - or just have cam verifications
Those who want to sext a lot (often all they want)
Those who ask to swap pics and videos all the time (again - often all they’re looking for!)
Also look out for pics so perfect that they may have been pinched from t’internet!
Good luck op - hope your next one turns out to be a great one! ??
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I don’t fall in to any of those  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"
I would happily be regular with you if it wasn't for that pesky distance |
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By *edgeend6Couple
over a year ago
Southampton |
Luckily it's not happened to us.....yet! But it's happened to some of our friends on here and I can see how frustrating it is! Especially if you've agreed on a mutual meeting point and then left hanging  |
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I have had people cancel before not eight in a row but a few. I have also been chatting away to people you think it’s going well and then they block you. Most of those I assume are men pretending to be couples or women. The worst was a meet I had organised and I was driving to with what seemed to be a lovely couple on the way to the meet they or he deleted their profile. I have also had a couple turn round organise a meet so when I come online see the message I would have had to drop all work and go straight there (it was an afternoon meet they wanted) and when I said I couldn’t do the meet at such short notice they blocked me and called me fake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's time to reevaluate your selection methods!"
dont think that matters at times. We organised a group session for a friend 3 of the guys we had met personally.. several a few times... on the day they all let us down.
Sometimes it just happens. Although we can't even get interest in meets these days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi the last 8 have changed there mind is there any males that would like to be regular or is it us !!!!!!!"
Can't imagine anyone standing you up, pity I'm not local |
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