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safety vs trust

By *averingcouple OP Couple over a year ago

romford

Hi there. We are starting our journey and were wondering how do you guys check or what do you do to see if it is safe to play with another swinger/s at your home? Hotel meets aren't always convenient and home meetings can be done more often! Thanks for any advice!

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

meet up for a social before taking them home. but at the end of the day- they still remain strangers from the internet. you do get a feeling for a person though fairly quickly I'd say...

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By *offee with MilkCouple over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

We prefer to meet socially in a public place first, or a club if play is likely. We don't accommodate but the friends we have made and now trust are welcome in our home.

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS over a year ago

Leicester

Always social at a safe location if they won't response or respect that request .. No further action need except a polite no thank you !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi there. We are starting our journey and were wondering how do you guys check or what do you do to see if it is safe to play with another swinger/s at your home? Hotel meets aren't always convenient and home meetings can be done more often! Thanks for any advice!

To be honest I'd keep people well away from your home. Especially if you have kids etc.

My preference is a sleazy hotel.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I'm a single woman and I meet in my home but not before arranging a social first and then meeting at a later date. If I have any doubt over meeting anyone, I wouldn't do it anywhere, let alone my home.

The fact that it's my home means my decisions have to be rock solid and so far, I've had a blast.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

Usually a social first or at least a phone call or two.

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By *wo4FemCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

Have a social with them first. You'll know within the first 5 minutes if you feel you can trust them or not.

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By *ike_CampbellMan over a year ago

Southampton

If there is any doubt at the social, don't meet them. Trust your instincts and don't override them.

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By *rightonCheekyMan over a year ago

Brighton

I host at my home more than any other kind of meet, including occasional parties. Sometimes without a social first, but only if their verifications show me they are established reliable swingers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a problem for me.

Trogladytes never get as far as meets on a far distant beach...

Slips quietly back into man cave and hugs my rock...

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