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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so before we offend anyone we have met this is in response to a scenario we were discussing the other night whilst admiring other couples in a club.
How do you politely say no to someone you have played with that obviously wants to play with you again when you don’t....?
Say if you get along great but the play was just not as good as you expected
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's awkward but honesty is the best policy...saying the chemistry/spark isn't right is much kinder"
Or just tell them sorry but you are looking for new experiences |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"(A) be kind....tell them you're tired/have a headache etc.
(B) be honest....tell them they're a shit shag!"
Two great answers there from Colon of the watch ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's awkward but honesty is the best policy...saying the chemistry/spark isn't right is much kinder
Or just tell them sorry but you are looking for new experiences"
Thanks
We presume it wouldn’t be easy having this conversation in a club environment so we were thinking along these lines that way we would keep a friendship hopefully anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's awkward but honesty is the best policy...saying the chemistry/spark isn't right is much kinder
Or just tell them sorry but you are looking for new experiences"
That's a good one.  |
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"It's awkward but honesty is the best policy...saying the chemistry/spark isn't right is much kinder
Or just tell them sorry but you are looking for new experiences
That's a good one. "
Probably the best way forward, that way you're not left feeling guilty if you go with someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so before we offend anyone we have met this is in response to a scenario we were discussing the other night whilst admiring other couples in a club.
How do you politely say no to someone you have played with that obviously wants to play with you again when you don’t....?
Say if you get along great but the play was just not as good as you expected
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we just always make excuses... or if they get really make a fuss then we tell them we dont really do repeat meets x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How would you like to be let down? We would appreciate honesty and therefore always let people down the same way.
A xx"
Totally agree, honesty is always easier in the long run  |
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Be honest to at least the extent that you don't wish to play with them on that night. Perhaps by saying you are looking for a new experience that night, or don't play multiple times with the same person (even if not strictly true).
Otherwise they will probably try time and time again.
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"Ok so before we offend anyone we have met this is in response to a scenario we were discussing the other night whilst admiring other couples in a club.
How do you politely say no to someone you have played with that obviously wants to play with you again when you don’t....?
Say if you get along great but the play was just not as good as you expected
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Think about how you would like some one to tell you? It's never an easy conversation but it's certainly better to be honest |
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By *adrMan
over a year ago
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"Just be polite n say no . You dont have to give a reson. Just be truthful cos 1 day it could be you in their shoes "
BUT it always seems better to be given a reason, even if it's not (exactly) true. Otherwise you assume it is your fault they turned you down.
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