As a young single woman ,into the things your profile mentions,I would say "safety first"..strange blokes in a dark car park could lead to all sorts of things going wrong! Not that they will, but better safe than sorry. So maybe take a mate along, at the least tell people where you are and take a fully charged mobile!Maybe just go the 1st time as anobserver,chat to people there, make sure youre happy in that place.
Then if you want people to watch then just flick on your interior light, and play away.If you want people to join in make sure that they are respectful & aware of any of *your* rules
and enjoy yourself! Im sure from those pictures the guys there will enjoy anything(although yu might struggle in some places to get anyone under 35 as you want) |
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Yep id never risk myself with a situation like dogging, there is no way in hell id go on my own anyway! Im not telling myself that the first time i go i need to get sex out of it, im just gonna go open minded and see what happens and go at my own pace, if i dont like the people there or the situation ill leave.
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"Yep id never risk myself with a situation like dogging, there is no way in hell id go on my own anyway! Im not telling myself that the first time i go i need to get sex out of it, im just gonna go open minded and see what happens and go at my own pace, if i dont like the people there or the situation ill leave.
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Thats all you need to do,take it at *your* own pace & never be afraid to say no..the real doggers will accept that.
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"Looking to go dogging for the first time this week or next week. Any tips?!  "
Make sure that you go to a car park that has some proper doggers present. Seems stupid, but if the car park is empty, then what is there to see? For that reason, have one or two locations marked on your map (help available if you need it - via PM only though, not in public)
Have "an alibi" ready in case Plod turns up and asks what a nice lady like you is doing so far from home in a dark secluded car park.
Make sure your phone battery / credit is not about to run out.
Take a flask of tea or coffee.
Take a packet of cigarettes. Even if you don't smoke, virtually every other dogger does. As a non-smoker (to be different) I notice these things.
Take condoms. You might fancy the pants off someone, and I bet you they will have come without.
Leave high hopes and expectations at home, and play it all by ear. No expectations means no disappointments if things don't work out.
Avoid cars with youngsters in. Tempting though young fit male specimens may be, these are the "boy racers" that everyone complains about. Until you meet people that are the exception to the rule, stick to mixing with people over 30 and you should be a lot safer.
You'll find that a group of doggers will make for safe company, just the same in a car park as they would be in a pub.
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