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femail verison of cuckhold?
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
I was wondering what it is called when a woman is into this, I love the thought of my OH having a meet with a bi lady and me being made to sit and play with myself and watch. Maybe its because im Sub and love the thought of being treated like this, Have my head held down on a womans pussy as my Oh and her snogged etc etc, you get the jist. Does this mae me a woman cuckhold? or just a very kinky Sub?
If there are any ladys out there who would like to help us fill this fantasy please message us lol.
But was just wondering if there was a term for this or just im a slutty subbie.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know what its called but its a very hot idea.. I love knowing when my Master has been to another woman..and I do like the idea of being made to just watch...
Master knows I hate the thought of his cum going to anyone else...
Good luck with your search.
cali |
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
We dont play like this all the time, my OH is my partner not my master. But i DO need my Fix of bondage from time to time. We like sensual meets too and im not really into girl on girl, mostly like the girl on girl play in a bondage situation. Ohh god im tingerling and horny now, thinking about this fantasy, love the thought of my OH fucking and me being denied till much later once we are home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would like an opportunity to watch my OH without being touched by anyone else, as if we play with couples I don't get to sit and watch as the guy of the other couple tends to be doing things to me.
But I would hate the idea of being a female cuckold to my OH and another woman. If it was a role play situation whereby they were mocking me by saying 'look how much we're enjoying each other, bet you wish you could join in but you can't' then I'd last about 2 minutes being erupting into a temper tantrum and ripping both their heads off.
I couldn't be a sub to another woman. I could be slightly submissive to a guy in that I like to be commandeered into different positions etc but I couldn't ever call a man (or anyone for that matter) master. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iconic I could not be submissive to another woman.. and to me its not humiliating. its just enjoying watching another woman appreciate what I get on a day to day basis.. 
Master loves to watch another man/men pleasure me... so I dont think there is anything wrong with me wanting to..
We do have one thing though that Master knows would have me ripping the other females hair out.. I am not a jealous person.. but I have a trigger that Master does love to use when we talk about things... and he totally enjoys the response.. I hate it as I have no control..
I am not sure even my Master is sadistic enough to actually risk that in a real situation.. lol I dont do violence.. but that could tempt me..
(even writing this I have shivers and I know I have a frown on my face)
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"I would like an opportunity to watch my OH without being touched by anyone else, as if we play with couples I don't get to sit and watch as the guy of the other couple tends to be doing things to me.
But I would hate the idea of being a female cuckold to my OH and another woman. If it was a role play situation whereby they were mocking me by saying 'look how much we're enjoying each other, bet you wish you could join in but you can't' then I'd last about 2 minutes being erupting into a temper tantrum and ripping both their heads off.
I couldn't be a sub to another woman. I could be slightly submissive to a guy in that I like to be commandeered into different positions etc but I couldn't ever call a man (or anyone for that matter) master. "
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
Ahh thanks soapy.
Like i say dont play like that all the time. Just have to have Bondage now and then. Lots of ppl cant get their head around the humiliation side, but i love it, maybe cause im very outgoing, confident in everyday life? Love the thought of being Sub to my Oh and a woman at the same time. Not sure how long i would last, but i would try my best. Often think of that sinario when i masterbate, gets me there very quickly. Also like the thought of being in a cage for all to see, while OH is off playing. Most of the time i only like to think about girl on girl, of my OH playing without me in a sub bondage situation. Couldnt cope with it in a sensual situation. Playing seperate yes but with me just watching no, would have to be with me in sub mode.
Guess i can be a cuckhold woman then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iconic I could not be submissive to another woman.. and to me its not humiliating. its just enjoying watching another woman appreciate what I get on a day to day basis..
Master loves to watch another man/men pleasure me... so I dont think there is anything wrong with me wanting to..
We do have one thing though that Master knows would have me ripping the other females hair out.. I am not a jealous person.. but I have a trigger that Master does love to use when we talk about things... and he totally enjoys the response.. I hate it as I have no control..
I am not sure even my Master is sadistic enough to actually risk that in a real situation.. lol I dont do violence.. but that could tempt me..
(even writing this I have shivers and I know I have a frown on my face)
Cali "
I have a lot of respect for you Cali because even though you have quite a lot of negativity thrown at you at times on this forum, and there are things that I dont understand in relation to your lifestyle, or the views you have at times, but you dont ever change those views to suit others or make yourself more popular. I do admire that.
Anyone who has a master / slave type relationship and are happy within that is completely acceptable. Like I said in my post earlier, I am passive sexually in that I dont take the lead in my sexual relationshp with my OH and even swinging with single guys, I am happy for them to put me in any position they like. My partner knows what I like and he tends to instruct guys on what works for me. I will of course tell them if they are doing something that I dont like.
But I could never be submissive to a woman, especially one who is fucking my partner. She does that on my terms because I allow her to. So I wouldnt be submissive.
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
Well in a way, im am also letting her as without my say so, she wouldnt get to play with him. So it is with my say so, its just once the play starts then i will take my submissive role, once play stops the submissive side of me stops. As i have said this is not a lifesyle for us, Just a case of me likeing Bondage now and then. Its a Fantasy a role play kind of situation, somthing i have fantasized about for ages and now would like to make it a reality and not something that would happen on a regular basis.
I know this type of thing aint for everyone and each to their own. we like veriety in our play situations, me more into the bondage than my OH, although he likes it too just once every now and then. And your right no-one should change to please anyone and think some one here dont understand the master/slave/Sub lifestyle. |
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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago
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Cuckolding is where the male (typically) watches their spouse engage with other(s).
It does not at any point entail participation.
So the fact that the OP wishes to be 'pushed' or 'forced' into a sexual act means that she's seeking a more controlled experience. (Not necessarily Dom/Sub ... I like to be controlled and directed too!)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuckquean is the name given to it I think a fascinating topic i think, very little about it that I can find. If any one fines any site about it please pm me. |
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
Think its more the sub side of me and the fact i like a little humiliation. the being forced bit, really is about being TOLD ( not forced) to do stuff. behave or be Punished. But i love the idea of watching my OH with a woman while im told to sit and watch , join in only when asked, and be humiliated. |
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From what I can gather the cuckold thing is a pretty broad church. But in most cuckold material there is some form of humiliation.
The form that takes is usually down to what the couple find huniliating enough. So for some just watching is humiliating enough for others there is a need to have humiliating expressions aired.
ie I love the way you fuck me, you fuck me better than him, you have a bigger dick etc.
The role reversal is kinda unusual in that to insult a woman over body type or sexual prowess is shall we say done in less respectful relationships where it is not a kinky act but a real insult. So I'm not sure many loving men would be comfortable insulting their wives, just as I'm not sure many wives would find it kinky to be insulted and not go away with hang ups from the situation.
I'm sure it's possible just not very likely.
My wife has said more recently she would like to watch me, but I don't think she wants me to tell her that she can't hold a candle to the other woman sexually.
Like I say it's a braod church and as with all things your own interpretation is really the only important one. |
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
"From what I can gather the cuckold thing is a pretty broad church. But in most cuckold material there is some form of humiliation.
The form that takes is usually down to what the couple find humiliating enough. So for some just watching is humiliating enough for others there is a need to have humiliating expressions aired.
ie I love the way you fuck me, you fuck me better than him, you have a bigger dick etc.
The role reversal is kinda unusual in that to insult a woman over body type or sexual prowess is shall we say done in less respectful relationships where it is not a kinky act but a real insult. So I'm not sure many loving men would be comfortable insulting their wives, just as I'm not sure many wives would find it kinky to be insulted and not go away with hang ups from the situation.
I'm sure it's possible just not very likely.
My wife has said more recently she would like to watch me, but I don't think she wants me to tell her that she can't hold a candle to the other woman sexually.
Like I say it's a braod church and as with all things your own interpretation is really the only important one."
Hell no he would never say that, it would be more of a case of get over here bitch and lick her pussy type of comments. And i can assure you we have a very very loving respectful relationship, and are very secure. Bondage ain't something we do often, but i like it now and then. My OH is still getting to grips with it and sometimes worries about going too far, he could never do that as i know its all part of the play at the time. He would never say or i'm sure never feel that anyone can match the sex we have and visa versa, that would be the day to give up swinging. Guess you have to be into this sort of bondage play to understand, things that are said in this type of play are just that things that are said with no meaning after play has stopped. Well that's how it works for us anyhow. Its like some of the fantasy i have, they will only ever stay in my head, Role play , Bondage things can be done or said, you wouldn't do in your everyday life. |
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
Would like to just add, how anyone can judge our relationship and say its not respectfull, on the topic of one post. I am sure couples who are into the Bondage lifestyle or Bondage play, understand this sort of play, and the things that are said are part of the PLAY. Infact its made me giggle on how quick ppl Judge and think they know someone, ppl comment on how secure we are etc etc, think you have to be to swing and do humiliation type of bondage. A part of play i like is to be ignored when im sucking his cock, or stuff like that. Does this mean he dont care???? does this mean im crap at it? lol, I think not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was wondering what it is called when a woman is into this, I love the thought of my OH having a meet with a bi lady and me being made to sit and play with myself and watch. Maybe its because im Sub and love the thought of being treated like this, Have my head held down on a womans pussy as my Oh and her snogged etc etc, you get the jist. Does this mae me a woman cuckhold? or just a very kinky Sub?
If there are any ladys out there who would like to help us fill this fantasy please message us lol.
But was just wondering if there was a term for this or just im a slutty subbie.
xxx"
If you ever want to come to Daventry and dont mind me filming the meet we could happily fullfill this one for you  |
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