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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?
I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!
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"Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?
I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!
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Yes, it can be nerve wracking!
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"Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?
I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!
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Tell me about it, 3 and half years and counting not even a horse nearby  the closest was asocial few months ago and they disappeared off the site after   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had sex just over a month ago but before that it had been over a year since I last had sex. It's not so much the forgetting what to do it's the desire to do it. Off the back of that shag I could easily have shagged the next week but I'm back to that can't be arsed to shave my fanny, back or feet stage again now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?
I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!
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Yup, but Im an antisocial fucker at the best of times |
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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago
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Apart from a couple of socials where I've had a peck on the cheek and/or a hug, I've not got on the horse for about 3 years (maybe longer). I genuinely have forgotten the last time as it's been so long ago.
I think I've actually got to the stage where I plan and do so much I unintentionally make sure I don't have time to do anything!
I really need to get out more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. It's much easier not to meet sometimes. The less I meet the less I want to. There usually comes a time when I'm up for it again though so I don't feel the need to force myself back into it. I thought that was fairly normal though? I think I'd burn myself out if I met too often. |
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"Does anyone else lose the will to meet when it's been a while since your last rendezvous?
I'm feeling like I've fallen off the horse and I'm struggling to get back on it, metaphorically speaking of course!
Yup, but Im an antisocial fucker at the best of times"
Yeah me too  |
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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago
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I actually do enjoy meeting someone and love a good drink and a chat for a couple of hours.
I would like to get back on the horse too,just I seem to have lost my sense of noticing the signals!
I'm. Basically a virgin again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We know just how you feel not for want of trying just to many time wasters around ,yes we got recent verses but not played this year if we remember rightly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I actually do enjoy meeting someone and love a good drink and a chat for a couple of hours.
I would like to get back on the horse too,just I seem to have lost my sense of noticing the signals!
I'm. Basically a virgin again!"
I love meeting people too, just the trawling through profiles and messaging to try and get a feel for the person (gotta be safe)and if you're attracted enough to then coordinating diaries etc, just getting a bit boring.. To then be blown out! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We know just how you feel not for want of trying just to many time wasters around ,yes we got recent verses but not played this year if we remember rightly "
Ive spoke to a couple of guys I'd like to meet but I've had to explain I'm not in the right mood for it, I don't want to waste anyone's time either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had sex just over a month ago but before that it had been over a year since I last had sex. It's not so much the forgetting what to do it's the desire to do it. Off the back of that shag I could easily have shagged the next week but I'm back to that can't be arsed to shave my fanny, back or feet stage again now. "
hahahha this made me giggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had sex just over a month ago but before that it had been over a year since I last had sex. It's not so much the forgetting what to do it's the desire to do it. Off the back of that shag I could easily have shagged the next week but I'm back to that can't be arsed to shave my fanny, back or feet stage again now. "
Why shave hun? Some guys like it. Do what makes you happy. Fuck everyone else |
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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago
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"I actually do enjoy meeting someone and love a good drink and a chat for a couple of hours.
I would like to get back on the horse too,just I seem to have lost my sense of noticing the signals!
I'm. Basically a virgin again!
I love meeting people too, just the trawling through profiles and messaging to try and get a feel for the person (gotta be safe)and if you're attracted enough to then coordinating diaries etc, just getting a bit boring.. To then be blown out! "
I've been quite lucky and every meet I've planned has turned up and been very nice,chatty and nothing but polite.
Only one stands out as a bit odd but that's a whole other story and she's UNLOS.
I've always said I'd never not turn up for an arranged meet.its just so rude imo. I'd not like it done to me so would never do it to someone.
My only problem as a single guy is getting a reply from some of the lovely ladies on here but,I'm not alone there!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had sex just over a month ago but before that it had been over a year since I last had sex. It's not so much the forgetting what to do it's the desire to do it. Off the back of that shag I could easily have shagged the next week but I'm back to that can't be arsed to shave my fanny, back or feet stage again now. "
I'm glad I'm not the only one who can't be arsed to shave their fanny haha |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Yes! For me the last time was back in March, so I am currently a bit meh to be honest, I am still trying but I think I am putting men off as I am being honest with them lol and they all go silent on me  |
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