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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?"

It might be as far in to cross dressing as they want to go.

Let people be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?"

Nope,they must try harder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think unlike the controversy often debated about the difference between cross dressers and transvestites ...

Surely guys who's proclivity extends no further than hosiery or panty wearing don't deserve the disrespect of condemnation from strangers ....

There is sufficient unfairness in this world that deserves boiling piss

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

It might be as far in to cross dressing as they want to go.

Let people be."

no issues with that but not when they claim they dress in stockings underwear heels and the lot and go out alot like it and you talk to them and all of a sudden its just stockings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ive tried to explain better above ^

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

It might be as far in to cross dressing as they want to go.

Let people be.

no issues with that but not when they claim they dress in stockings underwear heels and the lot and go out alot like it and you talk to them and all of a sudden its just stockings.

Does this happen a lot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

It might be as far in to cross dressing as they want to go.

Let people be.

no issues with that but not when they claim they dress in stockings underwear heels and the lot and go out alot like it and you talk to them and all of a sudden its just stockings.

Does this happen a lot?"

Occasionally when chatting and ask to see what they are wearing or any new recent photos.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We already have so many label and divides why not jist accept it for what it is X

Use you piss boiling energy in a more positive light, fight againts the likes of why so many men and women are proscecuted and demonised for pursuing happiness in the opposite gender. Or why the man who wants embrace or explore femininty by wearing certain fabric and materials is classed as weird or a freak when in the end of the day its only clothes.

Have a beautiful weekend x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

It might be as far in to cross dressing as they want to go.

Let people be.

no issues with that but not when they claim they dress in stockings underwear heels and the lot and go out alot like it and you talk to them and all of a sudden its just stockings.

Does this happen a lot?

Occasionally when chatting and ask to see what they are wearing or any new recent photos.

Lots of people on here exaggerate certain things to keep people chatting. We often get messages from people claiming to love bondage and spanking...it frequently transpires that they didn't even consider it until they noticed that we won't meet them unless they are

Its part and parcel of life, people want to seem to be what you want them to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

Nope,they must try harder

A lot of people try to set the supposed rules of what qualifies others to use a label the identify with.

You can certainly be into some aspect of the cuck lifestyle, and not want to be humiliated for example. Or, you may cross dress for purely sexual reasons, and keep it reserved to bedroom scenarios.

You may also find many women who are happy to play with girls, and even really enjoy sexual play with women, but who'd never have a relationship with them

More hardcore cucks will say you don't qualify

TV's will say you haven't "earned the right to call yourself a cross dresser

Lesbian and bi girls will say you're not bi (unless you're trying to say you don't want to sleep with them because you're straight, but they know about your little trysts, in which case I've seen the opposite mentality occur to guilt people)

You'll never fit everyone else's mold.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

Nope,they must try harder

A lot of people try to set the supposed rules of what qualifies others to use a label the identify with.

You can certainly be into some aspect of the cuck lifestyle, and not want to be humiliated for example. Or, you may cross dress for purely sexual reasons, and keep it reserved to bedroom scenarios.

You may also find many women who are happy to play with girls, and even really enjoy sexual play with women, but who'd never have a relationship with them

More hardcore cucks will say you don't qualify

TV's will say you haven't "earned the right to call yourself a cross dresser

You'll never fit everyone else's mold."

this is a good post and never thought of it like this. thanks for posting

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By *illie99TV/TS over a year ago

Central Scotland

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?"

Damn just had my profile change to tv, does this mean I have to change it back again!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

I do know that some people (men in this case) do have fetishes for stockings and panties ie silk.

They just love the feel of that material on them and somehow turn them on.

I think by talking to them and finding out that they're not the type you're looking for is the right thing you do OP.

Or rarely, maybe it can be defined through their well written profile.

What they categorise themselves can be slightly inaccurate due to the limited categories available.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

Damn just had my profile change to tv, does this mean I have to change it back again!"

Just change it to "lovely".

It should fit you well.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS over a year ago

Durham

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

Damn just had my profile change to tv, does this mean I have to change it back again!"

Nooo you're gorgeous hunni x

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

How do women cross dress? What do they CD as?

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By *illie99TV/TS over a year ago

Central Scotland

"How do women cross dress? What do they CD as?"

simple answer to that is male!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I do think it comes under them being a crossdressers considering they are wearing items of the opposite gender, it only annoys me when they call themselves a transvestite but have a hairy body and just wear underwear. This only annoys me because I feel that people that do that putting themselves under the same title I'm under undermines the effort that I put in. This is just my opinion and not law before people get their claws out and attack me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This subject has always bothered me, I've always enjoyed dressing in female underwear, tights and stockings and enjoy wearing dresses and skirts, but it's always been about the feelings I get when dressed that way, plus I enjoy having sex whilst dressed that way, but I don't wear a wig or makeup, I always make that quite clear when I'm arranging a meeting, I tell them what you see in my pictures is what you get, I class my self as a cross dresser because that's what I feel I do, if that's wrong then maybe FS should come up with other categories to search for guys like me

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By *fcdTV/TS over a year ago

Southend

If I had to choose, I'd call myself a crossdresser, which is exactly what I do, I sometimes dress in female clothes. No interest at all in the other stuff, wigs, makeup etc. to me those that try to emulate a woman are more transvestite but everyone has their own take TBH.

Personally, I'd be much happier if we just called each other people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

you can see the question i have raised x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you tried forcing them?

Held their cat to ransom?

Taken compromising pictures and said you'll make them public?

Hidden their tea caddy?

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

I still don't get it. women already wear trousers, suits in everyday life, is that considered cross dressing?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"I still don't get it. women already wear trousers, suits in everyday life, is that considered cross dressing?"

They wear women equivalent of suits day to day yes. Women crossdressers are much rarer than male ones but it's the same situation, you dress in the other sexes proper clothes and attempt to adopt their mannerisms and attitude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?"

Yep .. I can see that's annoying. I could meet you wearing everything in my (hidden) pics if you were into that xx bullshit is irritating whatever the subject matter, and I think I have understood that to be your point ..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you tried forcing them?

Held their cat to ransom?

Taken compromising pictures and said you'll make them public?

Hidden their tea caddy?

pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I still don't get it. women already wear trousers, suits in everyday life, is that considered cross dressing?"

Some women who cross dress will tape the breasts down flatten the hair and slick it back and also wear something in the boxers to pull off the cock line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

yeah thats the essence, and no i didn't meet them as they was dishonest but the point im trying to make is be honest and upfront and maybe i may have met them

hope you are well BTW x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So if you say you are a fisherman and only go fishing once a year does that mean you are not really a fisherman but only pretending to be one, OP ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So if you say you are a fisherman and only go fishing once a year does that mean you are not really a fisherman but only pretending to be one, OP ?"

god no,

im just trying to say be honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

yeah thats the essence, and no i didn't meet them as they was dishonest but the point im trying to make is be honest and upfront and maybe i may have met them

hope you are well BTW x "

I'm honest - meet me, you're hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

yeah thats the essence, and no i didn't meet them as they was dishonest but the point im trying to make is be honest and upfront and maybe i may have met them

hope you are well BTW x

I'm honest - meet me, you're hot

u haven never saw my face :P x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

yeah thats the essence, and no i didn't meet them as they was dishonest but the point im trying to make is be honest and upfront and maybe i may have met them

hope you are well BTW x

I'm honest - meet me, you're hot

u haven never saw my face :P x

It's not all about the face. The breasts, thighs and attitude are there for all to see xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

yeah thats the essence, and no i didn't meet them as they was dishonest but the point im trying to make is be honest and upfront and maybe i may have met them

hope you are well BTW x

I'm honest - meet me, you're hot

u haven never saw my face :P x

It's not all about the face. The breasts, thighs and attitude are there for all to see xxx"

thanks i feel so special

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

yeah thats the essence, and no i didn't meet them as they was dishonest but the point im trying to make is be honest and upfront and maybe i may have met them

hope you are well BTW x

I'm honest - meet me, you're hot

u haven never saw my face :P x

It's not all about the face. The breasts, thighs and attitude are there for all to see xxx

thanks i feel so special

I do wish I could tell whether that was sarcastic or not .....

I was being sincere, for the record;)

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?"

well they'd certainly be cross if they laddered there only pair of hold ups

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

well they'd certainly be cross if they laddered there only pair of hold ups

i properly spat coffee allover my keyboard then

ha ha thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

yeah thats the essence, and no i didn't meet them as they was dishonest but the point im trying to make is be honest and upfront and maybe i may have met them

hope you are well BTW x

I'm honest - meet me, you're hot

u haven never saw my face :P x

It's not all about the face. The breasts, thighs and attitude are there for all to see xxx

thanks i feel so special

I do wish I could tell whether that was sarcastic or not .....

I was being sincere, for the record;) "

was scarcastic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not happy when anybody boils piss, it fecking stinks!....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?

yeah thats the essence, and no i didn't meet them as they was dishonest but the point im trying to make is be honest and upfront and maybe i may have met them

hope you are well BTW x

I'm honest - meet me, you're hot

u haven never saw my face :P x

It's not all about the face. The breasts, thighs and attitude are there for all to see xxx

thanks i feel so special

I do wish I could tell whether that was sarcastic or not .....

I was being sincere, for the record;)

was scarcastic "

Ok! The attitude is a plus, not a negative

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

Everyone has a limit, that might that persons particular limit.

It is crossdressing as well, the person is after all wearing items of clothing of the opposite sex.

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS over a year ago

edinburgh

It's maybe not true crossdressing but I have to confess that I have a weakness for a cock in stockings....and in panties too is a bonus.

XXX

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

My interests or fetishes if you like have expanded since joining fab. Perhaps the people just wearing stockings or whatever have just discovered that they enjoy it. May build up to wearing a full outfit and maybe venturing out in public. Or maybe not. Their choice.

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By *rownsugarandlegsmanCouple over a year ago

Bournemouth and Seychelles

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By *ommenhimCouple over a year ago

wigan

"I am ok with men or women cross dressng but what boils my piss is when they claim they are into it and have one or two pairs of hold ups,

i dont class that as cross dressing do you?"

No.... damned amateurs!!

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