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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None, it is a derogatory term that is insulting to black men. It implies that you the OP who is asking, is better TH the black man. Lady you are Queen of nothing. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"None, it is a derogatory term that is insulting to black men. It implies that you the OP who is asking, is better TH the black man. Lady you are Queen of nothing. "
I don't think your correct. |
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"None, it is a derogatory term that is insulting to black men. It implies that you the OP who is asking, is better TH the black man. Lady you are Queen of nothing.
I don't think your correct."
She isn't at all lol |
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"None, it is a derogatory term that is insulting to black men. It implies that you the OP who is asking, is better TH the black man. Lady you are Queen of nothing. "
Woah. Calm down,where's the fire?  . That's wrong actually hun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"None, it is a derogatory term that is insulting to black men. It implies that you the OP who is asking, is better TH the black man. Lady you are Queen of nothing. "
What ! |
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"None, it is a derogatory term that is insulting to black men. It implies that you the OP who is asking, is better TH the black man. Lady you are Queen of nothing. "
It's not insulting to me in the slightest. Just saying  |
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"None, it is a derogatory term that is insulting to black men. It implies that you the OP who is asking, is better TH the black man. Lady you are Queen of nothing.
What !"
Who,where and will end with wtf  haha |
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"None. It's a tattoo to show that you like to play with black guys and not a symbol to show how many you've slept with. Short one this   "
That's complete nonsense !
Where did you get that notion from ? |
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"None. It's a tattoo to show that you like to play with black guys and not a symbol to show how many you've slept with. Short one this
That's complete nonsense !
Where did you get that notion from ? "
Okay. If you say so. We are all allowed our opinion . I know 100% it is so... |
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"None. It's a tattoo to show that you like to play with black guys and not a symbol to show how many you've slept with. Short one this
That's complete nonsense !
Where did you get that notion from ? "
I kinda thought that was accurate. |
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"I've always taken the tattoo as showing your love for black men not in any shape or form is it derogatory. They are your king not lower than the person with the tatt"
I think she's having a bad day or something |
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"None. It's a tattoo to show that you like to play with black guys and not a symbol to show how many you've slept with. Short one this
That's complete nonsense !
Where did you get that notion from ?
I kinda thought that was accurate. "
It us spot on. They obviously aren't lookimg at it from an urban stand point. Probably think it means something to do with blackjack  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None. It's a tattoo to show that you like to play with black guys and not a symbol to show how many you've slept with. Short one this
That's complete nonsense !
Where did you get that notion from ?
I kinda thought that was accurate. "
Same here |
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"None. It's a tattoo to show that you like to play with black guys and not a symbol to show how many you've slept with. Short one this
That's complete nonsense !
Where did you get that notion from ?
I kinda thought that was accurate.
Same here "
I'm 99% sure it is. Look it up if you want the other 1% ha. She has no idea. Probably pissed that get favourite show got cancelled lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll put you out your misery...... I have one on my ass..... a black man loves to see a women with it. It stands for a woman who is involved with black guys only. It's that simple.
Miss Adventure do your homework before you comment as your comment has insulted any black man |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I'll put you out your misery...... I have one on my ass..... a black man loves to see a women with it. It stands for a woman who is involved with black guys only. It's that simple.
Miss Adventure do your homework before you comment as your comment has insulted any black man "
Your reply saying 'a black man loves it' and Mrs Adventure saying 'it's insulting to black guys' is all encompassing and no different to each other, they're both generalising and sweeping statements. Your reference to 'women who like black guys' or words to that effect then yes, fully agree and see it as simple as that.
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"I'll put you out your misery...... I have one on my ass..... a black man loves to see a women with it. It stands for a woman who is involved with black guys only. It's that simple.
Miss Adventure do your homework before you comment as your comment has insulted any black man
Your reply saying 'a black man loves it' and Mrs Adventure saying 'it's insulting to black guys' is all encompassing and no different to each other, they're both generalising and sweeping statements. Your reference to 'women who like black guys' or words to that effect then yes, fully agree and see it as simple as that.
Gorra love this place! "
totally this. It's controversial. Approach with care |
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"I'll put you out your misery...... I have one on my ass..... a black man loves to see a women with it. It stands for a woman who is involved with black guys only. It's that simple.
Miss Adventure do your homework before you comment as your comment has insulted any black man "
Thank you hun |
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"I'll put you out your misery...... I have one on my ass..... a black man loves to see a women with it. It stands for a woman who is involved with black guys only. It's that simple.
Miss Adventure do your homework before you comment as your comment has insulted any black man
Your reply saying 'a black man loves it' and Mrs Adventure saying 'it's insulting to black guys' is all encompassing and no different to each other, they're both generalising and sweeping statements. Your reference to 'women who like black guys' or words to that effect then yes, fully agree and see it as simple as that.
Gorra love this place!
totally this. It's controversial. Approach with care "
Omg. Let's keep it light and fluffy ha. It's not that deep at all |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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Surely the only people that can say if it's derogatory or not would be bbcs themselves , the trouble with all this pc correctness is it's people who it doesn't affect who seem to speak for what others may or not feel . |
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"Surely the only people that can say if it's derogatory or not would be bbcs themselves , the trouble with all this pc correctness is it's people who it doesn't affect who seem to speak for what others may or not feel ."
And that's the problem. But it's done now..no need to make it's something it's not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as a cuckold couple - with a strong preference for black gentleman, the QoS proudly adorning a certain lady's large white bottom is anything but derogatory - it is a symbol that pays respect and homage to some very special lovers ... Who in turn love the bold little tattoo and all it symbolises... |
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"Well as a cuckold couple - with a strong preference for black gentleman, the QoS proudly adorning a certain lady's large white bottom is anything but derogatory - it is a symbol that pays respect and homage to some very special lovers ... Who in turn love the bold little tattoo and all it symbolises... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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In our case we absolutely look at the person - but equally appreciating a certain look or feature is not a crime - liking black gentleman because of their look is no differntbfrom a preference between slim or curvier ladies or blue or brown eyes ..... The term spade in QoS is definitely unfortunate and dated but the meaning of the symbol in this context is wholly positive ... |
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"In our case we absolutely look at the person - but equally appreciating a certain look or feature is not a crime - liking black gentleman because of their look is no differntbfrom a preference between slim or curvier ladies or blue or brown eyes ..... The term spade in QoS is definitely unfortunate and dated but the meaning of the symbol in this context is wholly positive ..."
And that's about it really. Nothing more needs to said. What else could be used instead of spade you reckon? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In our case we absolutely look at the person - but equally appreciating a certain look or feature is not a crime - liking black gentleman because of their look is no differntbfrom a preference between slim or curvier ladies or blue or brown eyes ..... The term spade in QoS is definitely unfortunate and dated but the meaning of the symbol in this context is wholly positive ...
And that's about it really. Nothing more needs to said. What else could be used instead of spade you reckon?"
A 15 inch black rubber dong? |
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"In our case we absolutely look at the person - but equally appreciating a certain look or feature is not a crime - liking black gentleman because of their look is no differntbfrom a preference between slim or curvier ladies or blue or brown eyes ..... The term spade in QoS is definitely unfortunate and dated but the meaning of the symbol in this context is wholly positive ...
And that's about it really. Nothing more needs to said. What else could be used instead of spade you reckon?
A 15 inch black rubber dong? "
I think may a bit too much for some. Ment to be quite discreet lol. Love the idea though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hardly works as a tattoo and besides why would you want a 15 inch rubber one when you can have a 10 inch real one !!!
Ahhh. See it there. Glad i'm not a woman. "
Wondering what romelu lukaku's thought are on this one lol |
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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago
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I think each to your own about tattoos symbolising what kinda guy you go for..but I personally find it shallow that you've got be branded...if you go with only black guys why would you really need a tattoo...if the black guys was so happy why don't they Go to tattoo artist ..its only my personal opinion as a Black Guy |
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"In our case we absolutely look at the person - but equally appreciating a certain look or feature is not a crime - liking black gentleman because of their look is no differntbfrom a preference between slim or curvier ladies or blue or brown eyes ..... The term spade in QoS is definitely unfortunate and dated but the meaning of the symbol in this context is wholly positive ...
And that's about it really. Nothing more needs to said. What else could be used instead of spade you reckon?"
And that's your opinion, but you aren't speaking for all black guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How many times is this question going to be asked? It seems every few days it gets reworded and asked again, in my opinion, solely to provoke others into playing the race card? |
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"Hardly works as a tattoo and besides why would you want a 15 inch rubber one when you can have a 10 inch real one !!!
Ahhh. See it there. Glad i'm not a woman.
Wondering what romelu lukaku's thought are on this one lol"
Haha. |
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"I think each to your own about tattoos symbolising what kinda guy you go for..but I personally find it shallow that you've got be branded...if you go with only black guys why would you really need a tattoo...if the black guys was so happy why don't they Go to tattoo artist ..its only my personal opinion as a Black Guy"
Well you don't have to be branded. They choose to have it done . Tattoo is obviously a choice just like all tattoos i'd imagine  . Why would a black guy to a tattooist to get a spade tatooed in himself. Unless he's gay and only likes black men? |
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"In our case we absolutely look at the person - but equally appreciating a certain look or feature is not a crime - liking black gentleman because of their look is no differntbfrom a preference between slim or curvier ladies or blue or brown eyes ..... The term spade in QoS is definitely unfortunate and dated but the meaning of the symbol in this context is wholly positive ...
And that's about it really. Nothing more needs to said. What else could be used instead of spade you reckon?
And that's your opinion, but you aren't speaking for all black guys. "
What else would it be . Pretty obvious i'm not speaking for all wouldn't you say and neither do i remember saying i spoke for all so your point has got lost in translation |
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"How many times is this question going to be asked? It seems every few days it gets reworded and asked again, in my opinion, solely to provoke others into playing the race card?"
What race card?. It's only the small minded that would try play the race card imo. The OP asked a question to which they had got the idea of a queen of spades tattoo wrong is all. It was another post who tried to turn it into something it's clearly not. |
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"Someone please correct me f I'm wrong but do black guys actually like being called spades? And surely wouldn't a QoS actually mean she rules over them?"
Spade is deemed by most (possibly barr one ) as an offensive, racist term.
The concept of the QOS is divided. Some people think it is offensive and some aren't bothered. I personally don't think anyone is wrong on that front, it's a personal issue and down to how an individual interpretes it.
No-one has the right to dictate how others feel though |
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"Always amazes me for a site of seemingly open minded people how prudish and pc so many on here are! Blimey!!
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I hardly think a subject that some see as racist can be belittled into prudish
Crack on and try using the word if you think it's acceptable. Let me know how you get on |
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"Someone please correct me f I'm wrong but do black guys actually like being called spades? And surely wouldn't a QoS actually mean she rules over them?"
No they don't hence why in my earlier posts i asked could there be a different name for it(the tattoo). I think you're getting a bit too deep into to be honest and looking for something that clearly isn't there? |
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"Always amazes me for a site of seemingly open minded people how prudish and pc so many on here are! Blimey!!
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Some will obviously find it offensive as that's what they're looking for. I've never thought of it deep enough until now and even though i have. The term spade is offensive but i don't believe that someone who is racist towards black men would choose to have the tattoo as a racist gesture. That would be an epic fail imo |
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"It is funny how someone can ask an honest question and then some jump on it to find a racial slur in it . When it's clear that's not how the OP ment it to be "
You're really intent on running this thread aren't you  your commitment is impressive 
See while your busy jumping on the back of anyone offering a different opinion; I'm a white woman, I'm not offended, but I'm offering a different view point that some people might be. My view on the whole subject is, I don't like tattoos and this has to be one of the worst examples! Why anyone would wish to permanently disfigure themselves with something that could offend others is beyond me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's mostly a 80/90s baby boomers and earlier thing. When the taboo of having sexual relations with black men was far greater. Of course, like all things, sexual taboos often brewed extreme desires. Hence you have shit like BBC and QoS. These days the former is still somewhat acceptable but the latter is probably not. It's not really something which will garner much in the way of negative comments but you will be considered in a certain light for having one. And that light is not good. It's best to keep it strictly in swinging and probably not bother getting on at all...many of u like to wax about having relationships outside of here...and you think a none swinging partner is going to approve of a QoS tattoo then you really are as stupid as the tattoo makes u look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll put you out your misery...... I have one on my ass..... a black man loves to see a women with it. It stands for a woman who is involved with black guys only. It's that simple.
Miss Adventure do your homework before you comment as your comment has insulted any black man "
Pretty sure there was a thread on this very recently. And some black men did say they find it insulting. And some said they didn't. Think the key is to not assume one person can ever speak on behalf of an entire group of people... |
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"I'll put you out your misery...... I have one on my ass..... a black man loves to see a women with it. It stands for a woman who is involved with black guys only. It's that simple.
Miss Adventure do your homework before you comment as your comment has insulted any black man
Pretty sure there was a thread on this very recently. And some black men did say they find it insulting. And some said they didn't. Think the key is to not assume one person can ever speak on behalf of an entire group of people..."
Exactly so |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well as a cuckold couple - with a strong preference for black gentleman, the QoS proudly adorning a certain lady's large white bottom is anything but derogatory - it is a symbol that pays respect and homage to some very special lovers ... Who in turn love the bold little tattoo and all it symbolises... "
Nicely put x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Ok sorry all I was just wondering as boyfriend likes the tattoo but I was unsure as some guys said it symbols you are a black man's object were others say you have to devote to black men so I assumed it was something you get when you established that right time x |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Ok sorry all I was just wondering as boyfriend likes the tattoo but I was unsure as some guys said it symbols you are a black man's object were others say you have to devote to black men so I assumed it was something you get when you established that right time x"
You should have your bf's number on speed dial, as in 10 or 15yrs when the ink is dry it'll come in handy when you're bored of explaining what it means to people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What I'm getting from this thread is you're best off not doing it as some will be offended where as others won't. And that potential racial slurs only tend to offend when it's not regarding sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always amazes me for a site of seemingly open minded people how prudish and pc so many on here are! Blimey!!
I hardly think a subject that some see as racist can be belittled into prudish
Crack on and try using the word if you think it's acceptable. Let me know how you get on "
In the context discussed it quite obviously is not meant in a racist manner.
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