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On the face of it no I wouldn't be open to it.
All else aside a week or however long is a long time to spend with a loved one alone, so spending it with a relative stranger in new surroundings would be stressful for me.
Add in to that the pressure of knowing that you're beholden financially to your companion and it's a no from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive seen a couple of these offers in the past...erm, no. It seems a really strange thing to do..i'm going on holiday next month by myself, cannot wait for the chance of a bit of peace!
cant think of anything worse than being with stranger, and beholden to them,that i may not even like!..
goes both ways though..what happens if she's fine with it, drop dead gorgeous, happy to fuck you etc, (because like it or not, thats what you mean)..delighted to spend all day every day with you......but, within minutes of getting on the plane you realise you actually want to put a pillow over her face to shut her up! what happens then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing expected. Just good company and a good time. If we feel we want to play then we shall. If not, no problem. "
So would it be all inclusive?
Would it be seperate rooms, a twin room or a double?
What would happen if the person joins you on the plane then basically does their own thing for the week?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing expected. Just good company and a good time. If we feel we want to play then we shall. If not, no problem.
So would it be all inclusive?
Would it be seperate rooms, a twin room or a double?
What would happen if the person joins you on the plane then basically does their own thing for the week?
Asking for a friend "
very good point...seperate, double, room, all inclusive, no contact required physically or otherwise, and i take back everything i said..where were you thinking of?...i don't like it too hot! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think a few meets before hand would be needed. It would just be I'll see you at the airport. Thanks for the input, I was curious as I do have a spare place, but maybe I'll just go on my own (yes all inclusive) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing expected. Just good company and a good time. If we feel we want to play then we shall. If not, no problem. "
yes, but can you not see it would be a problem?..not really conducive to a relaxed atmosphere if one person turned down the other...where do you go from there, trapped somewhere together? and how do you know instantly if a person is good company or not....loads of relationships break up after summer holidays, like at xmas, because people who've actually been in a relationship cant stand the sight of each other 2/7 for a couple of weeks! |
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"Nothing expected. Just good company and a good time. If we feel we want to play then we shall. If not, no problem. "
The idea is fine on paper but I can see all sorts of potential problems which is why I said earlier I wouldn't do it.
However life is very short and younger me would wonder if it was worth taking a chance. All I would say is for both sides proceed with extreme caution. |
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"It's 4 days. But I get your point. As I said, just curious to see if this would be something people consider. I don't mind going on my own."
Strangers team up on holidays but I think if sex or the suggestion of it is added to the mix it makes it more difficult.
Is the area you're going to within the scope of fab? Could you advertise for some local company or to meet other holiday makers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a stranger whilst I was abroad and ended up going on a holiday (week with their family in Malaysia) with them after just 2 days of knowing each other, and it was one of the best experiences of my life.
We’re still really close friends now.
If you hadn’t have asked on a sex site I would’ve told the ladies to go for it and take a chance. It could be amazing.... However, since this is clearly a chance to pay for sex then nawww. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree with all comments made. Although this is a swingers site and not just a sex site. I do live the social side too. It does make me laugh a little of how many messages I've had, even from people that have replied no thanks to a social meet before. |
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"I agree with all comments made. Although this is a swingers site and not just a sex site. I do live the social side too. It does make me laugh a little of how many messages I've had, even from people that have replied no thanks to a social meet before. "
Why does it make you laugh? You asked if anyone would be interested, I guess you're getting messages from people who are. Wasn't that the point of your post? You can just ignore the ones from people who have previously turned you down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who the single man is. Now, Tom Hardy, Idris Elba, Daniel Craig, Dan Snow (none of whom are 'technically' single I know), I might consider it. Sadly I suspect this little day dream may not come to fruition. Heh Ho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meant laughing at previous rejections"
So, you are saying that you are getting msgs from people who have previously turned you down?
Because you've offered a free holiday?
Why is that making you laugh? I would have thought that was a good thing? The chance to go with someone you were previously attracted to? |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"Just gaging whether single females or females in a couple would be open to a holiday with a single man all expenses paid for?"
If it's not in exchange for sex, why not open the offer to males?
We can be good fun too. In fact I'm much more fun than the missus, she's tee-total and quite the bore on holiday (likes reading).
And to be honest I could do with a few days away from her and the kids.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meant laughing at previous rejections
So, you are saying that you are getting msgs from people who have previously turned you down?
Because you've offered a free holiday?
Why is that making you laugh? I would have thought that was a good thing? The chance to go with someone you were previously attracted to?"
why would I want to take someone on holiday that wouldn't even want a social before I suggested the holiday. If they don't think they can socialise over a few drinks on a night why would they think they could socialise with me for 4 days? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meant laughing at previous rejections
So, you are saying that you are getting msgs from people who have previously turned you down?
Because you've offered a free holiday?
Why is that making you laugh? I would have thought that was a good thing? The chance to go with someone you were previously attracted to?
why would I want to take someone on holiday that wouldn't even want a social before I suggested the holiday. If they don't think they can socialise over a few drinks on a night why would they think they could socialise with me for 4 days?"
I was, perhaps, being a little facetious. Maybe
I'm extremely cynical.' specially when things dont add up for me
Its my age. Just ignore me |
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Would you not better asking a family member or someone who knows you.
A "free" holiday does sound very tempting (and yes I know you were asking women)
As most have commented "nothing is free"
And offering a holiday to a stranger etc.
I know I'd rather as a family member or friend tbh.
I know a few MAY jump at the chance of a "free" holiday. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think OP needs to ask himself the question,would you go on holiday with a stranger,as a single lady unlikely if you think about your own safety "
The op has stated the only terms are to meet at least a few times before the holiday whether that be with said woman's husband or partner or if a single woman in public to feel safe. But same can be said when me arranging a meet as a single woman. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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However, again thanks for all replies. Everything taken on board and I think from all the negativity and reluctance it would be easier to go on my own instead of trying to arrange meets beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The OP has replied to me
But has addressed very few of the other points/concerns raised
Why is that OP?"
If anyone is interested then I'll address all concerns privately instead of constant replies on the forum. |
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"However, again thanks for all replies. Everything taken on board and I think from all the negativity and reluctance it would be easier to go on my own instead of trying to arrange meets beforehand."
If you have no expectations then it doesn't sound much different than when I went away for a week with my ex husband
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"However, again thanks for all replies. Everything taken on board and I think from all the negativity and reluctance it would be easier to go on my own instead of trying to arrange meets beforehand."
Negativity and reluctance?
You havent answered any of the questions put to you!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"However, again thanks for all replies. Everything taken on board and I think from all the negativity and reluctance it would be easier to go on my own instead of trying to arrange meets beforehand.
Negativity and reluctance?
You havent answered any of the questions put to you!!"
Again, any real and genuine interest can ask all the questions privately. Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"However, again thanks for all replies. Everything taken on board and I think from all the negativity and reluctance it would be easier to go on my own instead of trying to arrange meets beforehand.
Negativity and reluctance?
You havent answered any of the questions put to you!!
Again, any real and genuine interest can ask all the questions privately. Thanks."
I said I'd go but alas, no response  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"However, again thanks for all replies. Everything taken on board and I think from all the negativity and reluctance it would be easier to go on my own instead of trying to arrange meets beforehand.
Negativity and reluctance?
You havent answered any of the questions put to you!!
Again, any real and genuine interest can ask all the questions privately. Thanks.
I said I'd go but alas, no response "
Pixie,it still won't let me message you. I can read it but saying I can't reply to someone that previously had a higher age limit?? It still says I have one unread message but I've read it?? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"The OP has replied to me
But has addressed very few of the other points/concerns raised
Why is that OP?
If anyone is interested then I'll address all concerns privately instead of constant replies on the forum."
Why can't you answer the questions on an open forum? Surely then we would all know what the situation is the rooms etc? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The OP has replied to me
But has addressed very few of the other points/concerns raised
Why is that OP?
If anyone is interested then I'll address all concerns privately instead of constant replies on the forum.
Why can't you answer the questions on an open forum? Surely then we would all know what the situation is the rooms etc?"
Because he wants all the dets to be a surprise.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"However, again thanks for all replies. Everything taken on board and I think from all the negativity and reluctance it would be easier to go on my own instead of trying to arrange meets beforehand.
Negativity and reluctance?
You havent answered any of the questions put to you!!
Again, any real and genuine interest can ask all the questions privately. Thanks.
I said I'd go but alas, no response
Pixie,it still won't let me message you. I can read it but saying I can't reply to someone that previously had a higher age limit?? It still says I have one unread message but I've read it??"
Very strange!
Never caused an issue before when I've started the messaging.
Never mind! Happy holidaying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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", within minutes of getting on the plane you realise you actually want to put a pillow over her face to shut her up! what happens then?"
Have had a crap day today....this comment has just brightened it up totally |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"The OP has replied to me
But has addressed very few of the other points/concerns raised
Why is that OP?
If anyone is interested then I'll address all concerns privately instead of constant replies on the forum.
Why can't you answer the questions on an open forum? Surely then we would all know what the situation is the rooms etc?
Because he wants all the dets to be a surprise.
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oh well if i can't find out on this thread I'm not interested in message ping pong |
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