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More interest from males than females
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am straight, I've indicated this in my profile, yet I still manage to get more contact/fabs from men.
Is this the same for everyone? Or am I just particularly attractive to gay men?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here. Especially when I posted a load of cross dressing pictures. I've hidden those now and ladies look too, but still mostly men.
I don't mind a bit xx |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
You've got three cock pics which are always going to attract the attentions of bi/gay men (as well as any women) into cock pics - doesn't mean you appear bi/gay yourself and to be honest I'd be interested to know how you think someone would think that based on three disembodied cock pics.
Perhaps make it clear in your profile blurb that you're not "Fab straight"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am straight, I've indicated this in my profile, yet I still manage to get more contact/fabs from men.
Is this the same for everyone? Or am I just particularly attractive to gay men? "
I do too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so why not block males from messaging you? and maybe consider having something a bit more interesting to women than a cock pic.."
I have now! I don't actually mind getting contact from men, but I'm looking for women. I would have a face pic, but have to stay discreet because of job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so why not block males from messaging you? and maybe consider having something a bit more interesting to women than a cock pic..
I have now! I don't actually mind getting contact from men, but I'm looking for women. I would have a face pic, but have to stay discreet because of job."
i didnt mean face pics necessarily...and also bear in mind that on the whole, men dont read profiles, but women do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've got three cock pics which are always going to attract the attentions of bi/gay men (as well as any women) into cock pics - doesn't mean you appear bi/gay yourself and to be honest I'd be interested to know how you think someone would think that based on three disembodied cock pics.
Perhaps make it clear in your profile blurb that you're not "Fab straight" "
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"That is a good point. I must admit I rushed my profile, thinking that nobody really reads them.
I will put some more effort into it, thanks."
Women read profiles and messages but don't reply.
Men don't read profiles but do read messages and reply.
Tongue in cheek before anyone gets the hump |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"That is a good point. I must admit I rushed my profile, thinking that nobody really reads them.
I will put some more effort into it, thanks."
Rushed it? I think you did it faster than Usain Bolt takes to run 100 metres to be honest!! 
As for not showing face pics, that's fine a lot of people don't but you can take tasteful pics of your body without showing your cock and still retain discretion
P.S. Using the "Reply and Quote" button makes it clear who you're replying to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That is a good point. I must admit I rushed my profile, thinking that nobody really reads them.
I will put some more effort into it, thanks.
Women read profiles and messages but don't reply.
Men don't read profiles but do read messages and reply.
Tongue in cheek before anyone gets the hump "
It's definitely true.. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That is a good point. I must admit I rushed my profile, thinking that nobody really reads them.
I will put some more effort into it, thanks.
Rushed it? I think you did it faster than Usain Bolt takes to run 100 metres to be honest!!
As for not showing face pics, that's fine a lot of people don't but you can take tasteful pics of your body without showing your cock and still retain discretion
P.S. Using the "Reply and Quote" button makes it clear who you're replying to"
Thanks, I appreciate your words of wisdom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless you actually only do have a face and a cock, there are options for alternative subject matter in pictures. Take a look at the profiles of successful guys for inspiration (note inspiration not direct copies as that is deeply naff).
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Unless you actually only do have a face and a cock, there are options for alternative subject matter in pictures. Take a look at the profiles of successful guys for inspiration (note inspiration not direct copies as that is deeply naff).
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Thanks again for advice.  |
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