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I am not desperate for sex... I get plenty.. But I really wanted to try, this fab scene... But up until now no takers??
And it seems there are clicks and groups that forum... How does one get in one... 
Come on.. Someone tell me the secret??
And if anyone wants to take my fab virginity... Drop me a line |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"O no Hun .... I met them at a club...
I am talking about... Meeting people off the site...
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There's a huge difference between meeting people at a club and getting to know them/meet them directly through Fab...one is reliant on your personality and charm shining through in person...the other is reliant on your profile and pics reflecting that personality and charm...
....and that in itself should tell you why you're asking why you're not having much success OP |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"In short, my profile is crap!!??
Any ideas on how it can be improved "
Try a search of the forums for the many Profile Advice threads or check out other single male profiles that appear to be successful for ideas - but basically you need to reflect your personality and likes/wants/desires as well as what you think you can offer alongside a decent set of pics that show off your body and not your cock |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Effort in = more chance of better results.
Are you making the most effort to "sell" yourself? From what I can see I'd say no.
You have hundreds of other men competing with you to attract women, have you put as much effort in as the successful ones?
Take a look at the many of posts asking for advice and take another look at what you have done so far, and take a look at other men's profiles, especially those with lots of verifications, what are the differences between their profiles and yours? Is your first impression good enough? |
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Well do...
But what about this group thing...
Doesn't seem... That there are groups are formed
And once u get in good with one person in that circle you pretty much got access to the rest
Or am I reading it wrong? |
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"In short, my profile is crap!!??
Any ideas on how it can be improved "
You could write quite a lot more. No need for War and Peace but just describe yourself more fully and write a little of what you have to offer.
If you're expecting that most people are here just for sex you're mistaken, some are but many more like to know a bit about people and enjoy the social aspect.
Good luck |
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"I know...
Well, at least I am trying to improve my standing, by putting this to the forum
That should be able to get me some brownie points, right?????"
By the way if you click on reply+quote directly under the post you're responding to we can see who your reply is meant for. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
It would help if you used the "Reply + quote" button so that it is clear who you are replying to 
When it comes to the forums, just get involved with the many conversations, people will soon get to know you. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Well do...
But what about this group thing...
Doesn't seem... That there are groups are formed
And once u get in good with one person in that circle you pretty much got access to the rest
Or am I reading it wrong?"
I think you're reading it totally wrong to be honest - sure there are groups that gravitate towards one another because they've met at social events or just get on well on the forums but it most definitely doesn't mean they're all having sex together nor does it mean if you get in with one of those groups it's an immediate golden ticket to anything |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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Oh, and if it's any help, a lot of women ignore/delete messages from shadows. So you could have written an amazing message but with no profile pic they might not even open it or check out your profile to find out.
Effort in = more chances of results. Make the effort to use the tools you already have and you'll give yourself a better chance to stand out from all the other guys. |
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"It would help if you used the "Reply + quote" button so that it is clear who you are replying to
When it comes to the forums, just get involved with the many conversations, people will soon get to know you."
Sorry ....?? Trying text under the desk is a task |
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"Well do...
But what about this group thing...
Doesn't seem... That there are groups are formed
And once u get in good with one person in that circle you pretty much got access to the rest
Or am I reading it wrong?"
Entirely wrong. I think you might have the wrong impression of swinging altogether actually.
People won't have sex with you just because you know their friend.
By all means try and get in with a group but you will find that these groups shift and change and are never formed of the same people.
Be your own man, avoid being a sycophant (I think you might be seeing a lot of that and assuming that it works), chat to everyone on the forum and try and attend a social if there's one near you |
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"Well do...
But what about this group thing...
Doesn't seem... That there are groups are formed
And once u get in good with one person in that circle you pretty much got access to the rest
Or am I reading it wrong?
Entirely wrong. I think you might have the wrong impression of swinging altogether actually.
People won't have sex with you just because you know their friend.
By all means try and get in with a group but you will find that these groups shift and change and are never formed of the same people.
Be your own man, avoid being a sycophant (I think you might be seeing a lot of that and assuming that it works), chat to everyone on the forum and try and attend a social if there's one near you"
Nono... Don't get me wrong .. Of course your right...
But once you meet someone in person and they find out how great a person you are...
It might be easier for that persons circle to approach you...
Of course it's not all about sex...
But the human nature or behaviour doesn't change much, but circumstances do...
Maybe j am not saying right...
But this the best I can do, when texting and working ?? |
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"Well do...
But what about this group thing...
Doesn't seem... That there are groups are formed
And once u get in good with one person in that circle you pretty much got access to the rest
Or am I reading it wrong?
Entirely wrong. I think you might have the wrong impression of swinging altogether actually.
People won't have sex with you just because you know their friend.
By all means try and get in with a group but you will find that these groups shift and change and are never formed of the same people.
Be your own man, avoid being a sycophant (I think you might be seeing a lot of that and assuming that it works), chat to everyone on the forum and try and attend a social if there's one near you
Nono... Don't get me wrong .. Of course your right...
But once you meet someone in person and they find out how great a person you are...
It might be easier for that persons circle to approach you...
Of course it's not all about sex...
But the human nature or behaviour doesn't change much, but circumstances do...
Maybe j am not saying right...
But this the best I can do, when texting and working ??"
I see what you're saying.
The groups that we have come across socially and at clubs haven't been terribly welcoming to people outside their age range or type. Of course that's only our experience and we don't fit the popular age and type criteria you might find it different.
My personal opinion is that you as a single man would do better mixing generally. |
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"Well do...
But what about this group thing...
Doesn't seem... That there are groups are formed
And once u get in good with one person in that circle you pretty much got access to the rest
Or am I reading it wrong?
Entirely wrong. I think you might have the wrong impression of swinging altogether actually.
People won't have sex with you just because you know their friend.
By all means try and get in with a group but you will find that these groups shift and change and are never formed of the same people.
Be your own man, avoid being a sycophant (I think you might be seeing a lot of that and assuming that it works), chat to everyone on the forum and try and attend a social if there's one near you
Nono... Don't get me wrong .. Of course your right...
But once you meet someone in person and they find out how great a person you are...
It might be easier for that persons circle to approach you...
Of course it's not all about sex...
But the human nature or behaviour doesn't change much, but circumstances do...
Maybe j am not saying right...
But this the best I can do, when texting and working ??
I see what you're saying.
The groups that we have come across socially and at clubs haven't been terribly welcoming to people outside their age range or type. Of course that's only our experience and we don't fit the popular age and type criteria you might find it different.
My personal opinion is that you as a single man would do better mixing generally."
Yes!!?? That is what I mean...
The groups get comfortable with each other..
Making it hard for anyone from outside to penetrate...
This happens even, if you are a fit for the group
But as u said, it's especially hard, when your not their type.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be yourself.
Trying to appeal to all will dilute the real you and will lessen your appeal to the sort of people you do want to meet.
Getting "in" with the in crowd may well improve your chances with that crowd, but may well exclude you from everywhere else.
Look at the advice threads, there are plenty about, and take on board what is said.
As Shagtonight would say....
Patience is the key.
As I always say, if you can't stand out, stand proud. Someone will like what they see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know...
Well, at least I am trying to improve my standing, by putting this to the forum
That should be able to get me some brownie points, right?????"
why?
If i get a message, i immediatly, like most women, look at the profile first...if there is nothing there, there is no point in even opening the message..why would i? i would imagine only a tint % of people on here ever even look at the forums.You'll certainly get to know people through the forums, but if you are intending to message woman who never look at it, then you need something to entice them to open your message in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?  "
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either |
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I see what you're saying.
The groups that we have come across socially and at clubs haven't been terribly welcoming to people outside their age range or type. Of course that's only our experience and we don't fit the popular age and type criteria you might find it different.
My personal opinion is that you as a single man would do better mixing generally.
Yes!!?? That is what I mean...
The groups get comfortable with each other..
Making it hard for anyone from outside to penetrate...
This happens even, if you are a fit for the group
But as u said, it's especially hard, when your not their type.."
Its human nature and you won't change that. People will split off in to groups that exclude others.
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ? "
Ok... I think I need to do this at the comfort of home... Because, my text are not getting read clearly... And I'll take responsibility for that ...
To your point...
I am not only interested in the sex only, I want to meet like minded people.. And websites are purpose built to do this....
I want to fulfill fantasies and answer curiosities... Again, websites such as these are built for that
Having said that, has anyone ever told you, you gave a great ass!!.. And if yes, was it someone in this site...?
See this'll site also helps when you want I be free, to show that hot ass!?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well do...
But what about this group thing...
Doesn't seem... That there are groups are formed
And once u get in good with one person in that circle you pretty much got access to the rest
Or am I reading it wrong?"
Oh so so very wrong, hugely so. I am part of a group of gal pals who got to know each other initially through Fab and an all girl party. I have lost count of the number of chaps who seem to think that meeting one of us is an automatic golden ticket to every one of us regardless of our own preferences, play styles and situations.
We are all fiercely independent ladies with a strong bond. There are few things more insulting than people thinking it's like collecting football stickers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either"
My life outside of fab i keep private  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either"
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my profile as blocked you ages ago.   |
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either"
How do you know what she gets outside of fab ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either How do you know what she gets outside of fab ? "
her original comment basically points you towards my answer.. anyway whats it to you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my profile as blocked you ages ago. "
I didn't attempt to look at your profile. |
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"Well do...
But what about this group thing...
Doesn't seem... That there are groups are formed
And once u get in good with one person in that circle you pretty much got access to the rest
Or am I reading it wrong?
Oh so so very wrong, hugely so. I am part of a group of gal pals who got to know each other initially through Fab and an all girl party. I have lost count of the number of chaps who seem to think that meeting one of us is an automatic golden ticket to every one of us regardless of our own preferences, play styles and situations.
We are all fiercely independent ladies with a strong bond. There are few things more insulting than people thinking it's like collecting football stickers. "
I explained it up top.. I wasn't trying to say you get a second pass to everyon ... I was talking about a social pass.. Like networking...
But I agree with all you said...
I am a believer that sex.. Is best when it is between two people who click.. ?? |
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either How do you know what she gets outside of fab ?
her original comment basically points you towards my answer.. anyway whats it to you?"
Its a forum im aloud to coment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my
profile as blocked you ages ago.
I didn't attempt to look at your profile."
So why do you presume I don't have sex outside of fab ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either How do you know what she gets outside of fab ?
her original comment basically points you towards my answer.. anyway whats it to you? Its a forum im aloud to coment "
you are allowed yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either How do you know what she gets outside of fab ?
her original comment basically points you towards my answer.. anyway whats it to you? Its a forum im aloud to coment
you are allowed yes."
Allowed to be rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my
profile as blocked you ages ago.
I didn't attempt to look at your profile.
So why do you presume I don't have sex outside of fab ? "
you asked the guy why he bothers with fab if he gets sex elsewhere.. so if you think like that and you're here that must mean you dont get sex apart from on here otherwise you wouldn't be here |
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either How do you know what she gets outside of fab ?
her original comment basically points you towards my answer.. anyway whats it to
you? Its a forum im aloud to coment
you are allowed yes."
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my
profile as blocked you ages ago.
I didn't attempt to look at your profile.
So why do you presume I don't have sex outside of fab ?
you asked the guy why he bothers with fab if he gets sex elsewhere.. so if you think like that and you're here that must mean you dont get sex apart from on here otherwise you wouldn't be here"
no, thats not what the question inferred at all...you are just determined to start an argument over nothing, making yourself look just a wee bit silly...as well as very rude! |
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my
profile as blocked you ages ago.
I didn't attempt to look at your profile.
So why do you presume I don't have sex outside of fab ?
you asked the guy why he bothers with fab if he gets sex elsewhere.. so if you think like that and you're here that must mean you dont get sex apart from on here otherwise you wouldn't be here
no, thats not what the question inferred at all...you are just determined to start an argument over nothing, making yourself look just a wee bit silly...as well as very rude!"
thanks for your opinion |
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my
profile as blocked you ages ago.
I didn't attempt to look at your profile.
So why do you presume I don't have sex outside of fab ?
you asked the guy why he bothers with fab if he gets sex elsewhere.. so if you think like that and you're here that must mean you dont get sex apart from on here otherwise you wouldn't be here
no, thats not what the question inferred at all...you are just determined to start an argument over nothing, making yourself look just a wee bit silly...as well as very rude!
thanks for your opinion "
I can kinda see the point regarding his comment |
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my
profile as blocked you ages ago.
I didn't attempt to look at your profile.
So why do you presume I don't have sex outside of fab ?
you asked the guy why he bothers with fab if he gets sex elsewhere.. so if you think like that and you're here that must mean you dont get sex apart from on here otherwise you wouldn't be here
no, thats not what the question inferred at all...you are just determined to start an argument over nothing, making yourself look just a wee bit silly...as well as very rude!
thanks for your opinion
I can kinda see the point regarding his comment "
Thanks for the intervention ... Because we lost the focus, On the main issue??Which was.... How can a handsome nice guy like me get play on this site?? |
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my
profile as blocked you ages ago.
I didn't attempt to look at your profile.
So why do you presume I don't have sex outside of fab ?
you asked the guy why he bothers with fab if he gets sex elsewhere.. so if you think like that and you're here that must mean you dont get sex apart from on here otherwise you wouldn't be here
no, thats not what the question inferred at all...you are just determined to start an argument over nothing, making yourself look just a wee bit silly...as well as very rude!
thanks for your opinion
I can kinda see the point regarding his comment
Thanks for the intervention ... Because we lost the focus, On the main issue??Which was.... How can a handsome nice guy like me get play on this site??"
well i think that was all covered very early on in the thread, but, predictably, completely ignored.. |
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"I am not desperate for sex... I get plenty.. But I really wanted to try, this fab scene... But up until now no takers??
And it seems there are clicks and groups that forum... How does one get in one...
Come on.. Someone tell me the secret??
And if anyone wants to take my fab virginity... Drop me a line"
Personally I meet people i am attracted to and most women here will do the same. If you are not getting any interest then you mustn't be attracting people there is no secret that's how it works. |
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"I am not desperate for sex... I get plenty.. But I really wanted to try, this fab scene... But up until now no takers??
And it seems there are clicks and groups that forum... How does one get in one...
Come on.. Someone tell me the secret??
And if anyone wants to take my fab virginity... Drop me a line
Personally I meet people i am attracted to and most women here will do the same. If you are not getting any interest then you mustn't be attracting people there is no secret that's how it works. "
Lol... I like your bluntness ?? |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"If you get loads of sex then why bother with fab ?
people have sex lives outside of fab, just because you probably don't doesn't mean others don't either
Quite rude comment too make since you can't see my
profile as blocked you ages ago.
I didn't attempt to look at your profile.
So why do you presume I don't have sex outside of fab ?
you asked the guy why he bothers with fab if he gets sex elsewhere.. so if you think like that and you're here that must mean you dont get sex apart from on here otherwise you wouldn't be here
no, thats not what the question inferred at all...you are just determined to start an argument over nothing, making yourself look just a wee bit silly...as well as very rude!
thanks for your opinion
I can kinda see the point regarding his comment
Thanks for the intervention ... Because we lost the focus, On the main issue??Which was.... How can a handsome nice guy like me get play on this site??
well i think that was all covered very early on in the thread, but, predictably, completely ignored.."
Ah well, you can lead a horse to water but if he can't be bothered to drink then he goes thirsty... |
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