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" Im sure if i advertised a party like that I'd be breaking some kind of rule? Surely? "
granted its blunt and i haven't seen anything like that before but how would you word it if you didint want to fuck black guys\girls.surly the whole pc thing hasent esculated yet to the point where you are racist for not fucking people you are not attracted to.
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" Im sure if i advertised a party like that I'd be breaking some kind of rule? Surely? granted its blunt and i haven't seen anything like that before but how would you word it if you didint want to fuck black guys\girls.surly the whole pc thing hasent esculated yet to the point where you are racist for not fucking people you are not attracted to."
This is a party/event. Not an individual's personal choice in question. |
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" Im sure if i advertised a party like that I'd be breaking some kind of rule? Surely? granted its blunt and i haven't seen anything like that before but how would you word it if you didint want to fuck black guys\girls.surly the whole pc thing hasent esculated yet to the point where you are racist for not fucking people you are not attracted to.
This is a party/event. Not an individual's personal choice in question."
then the few that are organising it must not fancy trans or black guys. |
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" Im sure if i advertised a party like that I'd be breaking some kind of rule? Surely? granted its blunt and i haven't seen anything like that before but how would you word it if you didint want to fuck black guys\girls.surly the whole pc thing hasent esculated yet to the point where you are racist for not fucking people you are not attracted to.
This is a party/event. Not an individual's personal choice in question.then the few that are organising it must not fancy trans or black guys."
Indeed. As i said, fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some events hold TS/TG and CD/TV nights, but to advertise No blacks is quite bad. Personal pref is one thing, but to single them out of a event... That's bad. |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish. "
You see it was the black men organising the party who were the racists all along....... who knew? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First off, I'm not saying I condone this sort of behaviour as I don't, but if it's a private event does the establishment not still have the right to refuse entry to anyone they want?
I mean, if they said "no singles" would that be more or less acceptable? Is it the fact that race is the deciding factor the issue? Or the fact they are excluding anyone at all? What if the boot was on the other foot "no whites allowed" I know it happens, yet this is seemingly accepted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can choose whoever you wish to your home. If that means excluding blacks/trans/homosexuals so be it. A private establishment really has a right to exclude whoever they see fit, even more so if the venue is one's home.
I notice though OP, you seem to make a few to many comments and threads on black male penises. You strike me as another oddball with an obsession with black men. There are one too many of you on here. |
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"You can choose whoever you wish to your home. If that means excluding blacks/trans/homosexuals so be it. A private establishment really has a right to exclude whoever they see fit, even more so if the venue is one's home.
I notice though OP, you seem to make a few to many comments and threads on black male penises. You strike me as another oddball with an obsession with black men. There are one too many of you on here. "
I tend to agree with you a lot, but you really should lay off the ad hominem attacks. |
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"You can choose whoever you wish to your home. If that means excluding blacks/trans/homosexuals so be it. A private establishment really has a right to exclude whoever they see fit, even more so if the venue is one's home.
I notice though OP, you seem to make a few to many comments and threads on black male penises. You strike me as another oddball with an obsession with black men. There are one too many of you on here. "
Could you furnish me with some examples? |
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By *w214Couple
over a year ago
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I'd use it as a filter for people we're unlikely to get along with. It could be worded better perhaps by asking for the types of people that ARE welcome, but if it's your party then I guess it's 100% up you you how you pitch it. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"It was actually a reference to a party night advertised on here that wasnt letting in single white men or transvestites."
Thanks for clarifying, Clem.
Hopefully everyone will read this post properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""It was actually a reference to a party night advertised on here that wasnt letting in single white men or transvestites."
Thanks for clarifying, Clem.
Hopefully everyone will read this post properly."
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"It was actually a reference to a party night advertised on here that wasnt letting in single white men or transvestites. "
I don't mind if they put it that way.
At least people know which party they can or can't go to.
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I understand the argument for only inviting people to a party whom you wish. Fine. But if it's a commercial venture saying white men and tv/ts aren't welcome.... well that all seems rather 1970's to me. |
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"I understand the argument for only inviting people to a party whom you wish. Fine. But if it's a commercial venture saying white men and tv/ts aren't welcome.... well that all seems rather 1970's to me."
you're being overly sensitive or perhaps nostalgic? |
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"I understand the argument for only inviting people to a party whom you wish. Fine. But if it's a commercial venture saying white men and tv/ts aren't welcome.... well that all seems rather 1970's to me.
you're being overly sensitive or perhaps nostalgic? "
Probably, I'm just an oddball racist with a black cock fetish after all.... |
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Transvestites are 'welcome' to a lot of venues. However from what I've read about and looked into, whilst the club's policy is that we are welcome to come to appear inclusive, most attendees do not actually welcome us as we make people 'uncomfortable' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All sounds a bit 1950's to me.
If I was anywhere and it became evident that trans/black/asian etc weren't welcome I'd leave, after telling them what I thought of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see the problem myself, the world's gone crazy about PC. For sexual meets everyone has the right to their preferences, it doesn't make them racist. If black don't want white or white don't want black then so what.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was a private party then it's somewhat acceptable, but if its a club advertising a night it's just wrong in my eyes regardless of which race or type they are excluding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's their party and should be allowed to invite or exclude who they wish. Why do people get so sensitive over people's preferences. Move on and find another party. |
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There are parties on here that cater for just blackmen and those that enjoy there company,they have a choice of who they want to invite,venue capacity and knowing what there guests require x
Just the same as killing kittens wouldn't want me at there party (too old and large)
It's a hard life being a party host,you have to be thickskinned,I know as host parties myself
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"It’s no worse than women/couples saying no black men only no white men, just a personal preference  "
I believe it is (worse) if you're making money out of it. But, my opinion draws no water around here. |
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"It’s no worse than women/couples saying no black men only no white men, just a personal preference
I believe it is (worse) if you're making money out of it. But, my opinion draws no water around here. "
Making money? I did see your reference to 'commercial/ earlier, but thought no! can't be a commercial enterprise... it's a disturbing concept |
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"And what if someone is mixed race? How would that work?
They will have to go to a mixed race party........ "
If its a mixed race party, according to anthropologists and other 'ogists' and 'ists'...my ancient. ancient ancestors migrated to Europe from Africa... do I get an invite?  |
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I know the party you're referring to and whilst it does gnaw at my PC side who is excluded, it is a private party at the end of the day, not a club. And tbh I've gone to lots of club events targeted towards black men where I'm disappointed to see so many white men. If that's what I wanted I'd go to a normal club night. |
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over a year ago
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"I know the party you're referring to and whilst it does gnaw at my PC side who is excluded, it is a private party at the end of the day, not a club. And tbh I've gone to lots of club events targeted towards black men where I'm disappointed to see so many white men. If that's what I wanted I'd go to a normal club night."
Both things can be true though.
People can invite whoever they want and that's their right.
But other people do get to judge them based on the criteria they set forth. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
To be honest, I don't even like clubs/parties/events that exclude single guys. In fact, I'm kinda sensitive to ALL forms of discrimination, not just racial.
In my opinion, it's kinda illogical to be running something on a commercial basis and excluding a certain demographic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish. "
I don't like blacks or asians you lot always use the race card. |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
I don't like blacks or asians you lot always use the race card."
'dont like' 'blacks' 'you lot' Jesus Christ, get back to your EDL march love |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
I don't like blacks or asians you lot always use the race card.
'dont like' 'blacks' 'you lot' Jesus Christ, get back to your EDL march love"
Shh! If we keep quiet and don't make eye contact they will soon disappear...  |
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By *achealTV/TS
over a year ago
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Why do you have to advertise it not only is it offensive but it makes you sound like a prick. It's up to you who you like but you don't have to tell everyone fabswingers by its nature is inclusive and for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
I don't like blacks or asians you lot always use the race card."
At a rough estimate there's 4.3 billion Asian people in the world, and about 1.3 billion Black people in the world, you must be going like the clappers to have met and judges them all.
Take a bow, that's impressive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean it it when I say that this is the sort of thread comment msg that a made me leave this site 2 before God only knows why I come back and I've been careful in how much I say and do , but I find it shocking and very small minded , and just to let certain people know trans is sexual orientation possible choice, being black is race so unfortunately there s no choice ?? However I can choose to leave a a site which turns out time after time to be secretly racist or in this case not so secretly! |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
I don't like blacks or asians you lot always use the race card."
Every time I see you post I think troll... |
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"Why do you have to advertise it not only is it offensive but it makes you sound like a prick. It's up to you who you like but you don't have to tell everyone fabswingers by its nature is inclusive and for everyone"
I recommend you read the entire thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who says me and my beautiful black boyfriend even want to go to your stupid party anyway?
Turns in a huff and stalks off in the direction of a nearby bar |
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"I mean it it when I say that this is the sort of thread comment msg that a made me leave this site 2 before God only knows why I come back and I've been careful in how much I say and do , but I find it shocking and very small minded , and just to let certain people know trans is sexual orientation possible choice, being black is race so unfortunately there s no choice ?? However I can choose to leave a a site which turns out time after time to be secretly racist or in this case not so secretly!"
This is a thread about a for profit party not allowing white single men or trans of any kind to attend. What's your post about? |
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"I mean it it when I say that this is the sort of thread comment msg that a made me leave this site 2 before God only knows why I come back and I've been careful in how much I say and do , but I find it shocking and very small minded , and just to let certain people know trans is sexual orientation possible choice, being black is race so unfortunately there s no choice ?? However I can choose to leave a a site which turns out time after time to be secretly racist or in this case not so secretly!"
The OP was in a round about way referring to a party where only black single guys are welcome. |
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"Who says me and my beautiful black boyfriend even want to go to your stupid party anyway?
Turns in a huff and stalks off in the direction of a nearby bar "
That would have been interesting! I wonder if they'd have let you go? Obviously your b/f could have gone, but with you as a couple?! I'm guessing not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean it it when I say that this is the sort of thread comment msg that a made me leave this site 2 before God only knows why I come back and I've been careful in how much I say and do , but I find it shocking and very small minded , and just to let certain people know trans is sexual orientation possible choice, being black is race so unfortunately there s no choice ?? However I can choose to leave a a site which turns out time after time to be secretly racist or in this case not so secretly!
This is a thread about a for profit party not allowing white single men or trans of any kind to attend. What's your post about?"
Sorry my bad your are trying secretly and also trying to be clever unfortunately you proved your low level of IQ by starting this thread in the dirt place. enjoy your night. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I mean it it when I say that this is the sort of thread comment msg that a made me leave this site 2 before God only knows why I come back and I've been careful in how much I say and do , but I find it shocking and very small minded , and just to let certain people know trans is sexual orientation possible choice, being black is race so unfortunately there s no choice ?? However I can choose to leave a a site which turns out time after time to be secretly racist or in this case not so secretly!
This is a thread about a for profit party not allowing white single men or trans of any kind to attend. What's your post about?
Sorry my bad your are trying secretly and also trying to be clever unfortunately you proved your low level of IQ by starting this thread in the dirt place. enjoy your night. "
Lolwut?  |
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"I mean it it when I say that this is the sort of thread comment msg that a made me leave this site 2 before God only knows why I come back and I've been careful in how much I say and do , but I find it shocking and very small minded , and just to let certain people know trans is sexual orientation possible choice, being black is race so unfortunately there s no choice ?? However I can choose to leave a a site which turns out time after time to be secretly racist or in this case not so secretly!
This is a thread about a for profit party not allowing white single men or trans of any kind to attend. What's your post about?
Sorry my bad your are trying secretly and also trying to be clever unfortunately you proved your low level of IQ by starting this thread in the dirt place. enjoy your night. "
Many thanks for your contribution, i hope my whimsical approach at highlighting hypocrisy when it comes to race and transphobia has helped your day. I shall continue to post in this style with impunity. |
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"I mean it it when I say that this is the sort of thread comment msg that a made me leave this site 2 before God only knows why I come back and I've been careful in how much I say and do , but I find it shocking and very small minded , and just to let certain people know trans is sexual orientation possible choice, being black is race so unfortunately there s no choice ?? However I can choose to leave a a site which turns out time after time to be secretly racist or in this case not so secretly!
This is a thread about a for profit party not allowing white single men or trans of any kind to attend. What's your post about?
Sorry my bad your are trying secretly and also trying to be clever unfortunately you proved your low level of IQ by starting this thread in the dirt place. enjoy your night.
Lolwut? "
Don't... just don't....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who says me and my beautiful black boyfriend even want to go to your stupid party anyway?
Turns in a huff and stalks off in the direction of a nearby bar
That would have been interesting! I wonder if they'd have let you go? Obviously your b/f could have gone, but with you as a couple?! I'm guessing not."
We would be awesome fun but we’re taking it elsewhere now. Somewhere where we are welcome.
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" just to let certain people know trans is sexual orientation
No, it isn't. Gender is not the same as sexuality. "
Well to be fair im not sure the organisers saw it like that. But yes, you're quite correct. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This reminds me of anityer thread in here that basically put it that it's only racist when it effects in a native way but is totally fine when it's in favour of sex. |
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For personal preference on a profile I have no issues with someone saying they are looking for a particular image to fuck. When it moves into parties I'm a little less sure.
I mean who is going to be manning the B&Q colour match chart to ensure you meet the required tone?
But I also note that there is no ban on cross dressers, or olive/Mediterranean type skin. So they are not excluding everyone.
Not a party we are likely to attend though so little to worry about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I were a black man I wouldn't set foot in a party/event, or whatever you want to call it where I had to pay for people to drool over my black body and get in free to do so.
I'd be the attraction, I should be getting in free
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"For personal preference on a profile I have no issues with someone saying they are looking for a particular image to fuck. When it moves into parties I'm a little less sure.
I mean who is going to be manning the B&Q colour match chart to ensure you meet the required tone?
But I also note that there is no ban on cross dressers, or olive/Mediterranean type skin. So they are not excluding everyone.
Not a party we are likely to attend though so little to worry about. "
I think the term "trans" was a catch-all. |
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over a year ago
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"Why do you have to advertise it not only is it offensive but it makes you sound like a prick. It's up to you who you like but you don't have to tell everyone fabswingers by its nature is inclusive and for everyone
I recommend you read the entire thread. "
If people could read, the forum would be dead. |
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I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reminds me of a sign I saw inMexico no N ...gers, whites, slit eyes or kkk , we weren't sure if it was a joke but it didn't seem to be, so who the feck did they let in????"
Mexicans would be my guess |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to.... "
Nice to hear you feel welcomed in such clubs / parties. |
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over a year ago
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to.... "
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Didn't take too long to find the party/event you're referring to and, yes, it does make us feel a bit uneasy. Ironically we'd be welcomed but if the shoe was on the other foot and I wanted to go then I (he) would be more than miffed to be excluded based on my race regardless of it being private or not.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to.... "
I think that's the main difference between nights that are geared more towards black men, they might be geared that way but from what I've seen (might be wrong, I just haven't seen it) they do not exclude others in the process. Where I have seen many different races excluded from nights that are geared the other way. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to.... "
Not many black guys put bi curious or bisexual on their profiles, but having said that not many white blokes do either. It's always a nice surprise when a bi guy makes contact |
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time."
That's where I come into it,My Interracial Soiree parties are for all races not just blackmen and it does work very well,I work the guestlist out for the guests,I do say on the profile I try not to exclude anyone(I find it hard near the time as club capacity then people call the race card)I'm hardly racist there are white/Asian verifications
Although I do have tv/ts blocked so probably get a rant about that, did have a tv message from couples profile message to enquire if he the tv could come alone,I informed him club rule of paying as a single guy,he didn't want to come as wanted to come as a single woman.that's out of my hands,he understood that
As said before its a hard life being a party organiser |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
I think that's the main difference between nights that are geared more towards black men, they might be geared that way but from what I've seen (might be wrong, I just haven't seen it) they do not exclude others in the process. Where I have seen many different races excluded from nights that are geared the other way. "
There's a group who hold black only parties. Everyone else is excluded. I read it, and moved along. It didn't hurt my feelings and I don't have trouble finding black men to fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time.
That's where I come into it,My Interracial Soiree parties are for all races not just blackmen and it does work very well,I work the guestlist out for the guests,I do say on the profile I try not to exclude anyone(I find it hard near the time as club capacity then people call the race card)I'm hardly racist there are white/Asian verifications
Although I do have tv/ts blocked so probably get a rant about that, did have a tv message from couples profile message to enquire if he the tv could come alone,I informed him club rule of paying as a single guy,he didn't want to come as wanted to come as a single woman.that's out of my hands,he understood that
As said before its a hard life being a party organiser "
I can imagine. It makes me wonder why people do it. |
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"Reminds me of a sign I saw inMexico no N ...gers, whites, slit eyes or kkk , we weren't sure if it was a joke but it didn't seem to be, so who the feck did they let in????
Just us trans girls. "
And Mexicans |
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time.
That's where I come into it,My Interracial Soiree parties are for all races not just blackmen and it does work very well,I work the guestlist out for the guests,I do say on the profile I try not to exclude anyone(I find it hard near the time as club capacity then people call the race card)I'm hardly racist there are white/Asian verifications
Although I do have tv/ts blocked so probably get a rant about that, did have a tv message from couples profile message to enquire if he the tv could come alone,I informed him club rule of paying as a single guy,he didn't want to come as wanted to come as a single woman.that's out of my hands,he understood that
As said before its a hard life being a party organiser
I can imagine. It makes me wonder why people do it. "
Because I love it I'm a social butterfly and want to give something different to the party scene |
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time.
That's where I come into it,My Interracial Soiree parties are for all races not just blackmen and it does work very well,I work the guestlist out for the guests,I do say on the profile I try not to exclude anyone(I find it hard near the time as club capacity then people call the race card)I'm hardly racist there are white/Asian verifications
Although I do have tv/ts blocked so probably get a rant about that, did have a tv message from couples profile message to enquire if he the tv could come alone,I informed him club rule of paying as a single guy,he didn't want to come as wanted to come as a single woman.that's out of my hands,he understood that
As said before its a hard life being a party organiser
I can imagine. It makes me wonder why people do it.
Because I love it I'm a social butterfly and want to give something different to the party scene"
Plus you get a lot of men to fuck too I'm guessing. Can't be all bad. |
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time.
That's where I come into it,My Interracial Soiree parties are for all races not just blackmen and it does work very well,I work the guestlist out for the guests,I do say on the profile I try not to exclude anyone(I find it hard near the time as club capacity then people call the race card)I'm hardly racist there are white/Asian verifications
Although I do have tv/ts blocked so probably get a rant about that, did have a tv message from couples profile message to enquire if he the tv could come alone,I informed him club rule of paying as a single guy,he didn't want to come as wanted to come as a single woman.that's out of my hands,he understood that
As said before its a hard life being a party organiser
I can imagine. It makes me wonder why people do it.
Because I love it I'm a social butterfly and want to give something different to the party scene
Plus you get a lot of men to fuck too I'm guessing. Can't be all bad.
I like this one she gets right to the point lol "
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time.
That's where I come into it,My Interracial Soiree parties are for all races not just blackmen and it does work very well,I work the guestlist out for the guests,I do say on the profile I try not to exclude anyone(I find it hard near the time as club capacity then people call the race card)I'm hardly racist there are white/Asian verifications
Although I do have tv/ts blocked so probably get a rant about that, did have a tv message from couples profile message to enquire if he the tv could come alone,I informed him club rule of paying as a single guy,he didn't want to come as wanted to come as a single woman.that's out of my hands,he understood that
As said before its a hard life being a party organiser
I can imagine. It makes me wonder why people do it.
Because I love it I'm a social butterfly and want to give something different to the party scene
Plus you get a lot of men to fuck too I'm guessing. Can't be all bad. "
Nope I don't play as a party host(much to some guys disappointment lol but my parties are about the guests not me),I do meet some nice guys there I meet to play with at somebody else's party though  |
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time.
That's where I come into it,My Interracial Soiree parties are for all races not just blackmen and it does work very well,I work the guestlist out for the guests,I do say on the profile I try not to exclude anyone(I find it hard near the time as club capacity then people call the race card)I'm hardly racist there are white/Asian verifications
Although I do have tv/ts blocked so probably get a rant about that, did have a tv message from couples profile message to enquire if he the tv could come alone,I informed him club rule of paying as a single guy,he didn't want to come as wanted to come as a single woman.that's out of my hands,he understood that
As said before its a hard life being a party organiser
I can imagine. It makes me wonder why people do it.
Because I love it I'm a social butterfly and want to give something different to the party scene
Plus you get a lot of men to fuck too I'm guessing. Can't be all bad.
Nope I don't play as a party host(much to some guys disappointment lol but my parties are about the guests not me),I do meet some nice guys there I meet to play with at somebody else's party though "
Do you walk around handing out hors d'oeuvres?
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"I think at this point it's well worth pointing out that at the BMFC party night's I've attended, admittedly with my wife, I've always felt welcome. Indeed a friend of ours, a single white man has come along and was equally welcome. After all some black guys are bi to....
And some women want black/white/asian men, all at the same time.
That's where I come into it,My Interracial Soiree parties are for all races not just blackmen and it does work very well,I work the guestlist out for the guests,I do say on the profile I try not to exclude anyone(I find it hard near the time as club capacity then people call the race card)I'm hardly racist there are white/Asian verifications
Although I do have tv/ts blocked so probably get a rant about that, did have a tv message from couples profile message to enquire if he the tv could come alone,I informed him club rule of paying as a single guy,he didn't want to come as wanted to come as a single woman.that's out of my hands,he understood that
As said before its a hard life being a party organiser
I can imagine. It makes me wonder why people do it.
Because I love it I'm a social butterfly and want to give something different to the party scene
Plus you get a lot of men to fuck too I'm guessing. Can't be all bad.
Nope I don't play as a party host(much to some guys disappointment lol but my parties are about the guests not me),I do meet some nice guys there I meet to play with at somebody else's party though
Do you walk around handing out hors d'oeuvres?
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Nope I learnt from the best eg bmfc hosts
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish. "
The person is not necessarily "Racist" in the slightest! It is a preference!
Generally when someone mentions "Racist" they have unfortunately already lost the argument |
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"I'd use it as a filter for people we're unlikely to get along with. It could be worded better perhaps by asking for the types of people that ARE welcome, but if it's your party then I guess it's 100% up you you how you pitch it."
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"No different to BMFC events and such like...
can you imagine the uproar if there was a white mans fan club?!
I disagree. BMFC welcomes all races and sexuality."
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"Reminds me of a sign I saw inMexico no N ...gers, whites, slit eyes or kkk , we weren't sure if it was a joke but it didn't seem to be, so who the feck did they let in????
Just us trans girls. "
Your profile says you're a woman, when quite clearly you're a guy. Is that an error on your part? |
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"No different to BMFC events and such like...
can you imagine the uproar if there was a white mans fan club?! "
Everyday is white man fan club day. A large amount of white people self select other white people. That's why I started going to clubs like BMFC. I would go to these supposedly non racial clubs and the black guys apart from one are sitting in a corner twiddling their thumbs whilst white guys are getting it on.
Real life example I used to play rugby and the guys were always on about you black men get all the women. It was the tradition we would go into town after the game have a few drinks and head to the local main stream night club where most of the guys would pull. I would be left having no fun the white women were not interested in talking or dancing. In these small county towns they are predominately white. After a while I said to hell with this. I would go for the drink with the guys and after the drinks I would go to the much smaller RnB club where I would have fun.
BMFC was set up because black men back in the day and now are not being invited to parties and were not getting to play.
Also as someone said BMFC has an all are invited policy. |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
You see it was the black men organising the party who were the racists all along....... who knew? "
You say that as if I referred to any particular race in my comment. I didn't, because it's irrelevant. Anyone can advertise who they want at their party but to go out of your way to identify who you do not want seems a bit of an intentional stab. I mean no one likes being told they are barred from coming to a party, even if they don't really want to come. Just say white males only or black straight males only. Why go further to to name those you don't want? But anyway, as I said.. It's fine, you'd be racist for advertising that way but it's your party and you can have who you want there, nothing wrong with that. |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The person is not necessarily "Racist" in the slightest! It is a preference!
Generally when someone mentions "Racist" they have unfortunately already lost the argument "
Generally, there is no argument until someone actually argues with you. There must be one before someone can lose one. In this specific non-general case, I've said "racist" and you're deciding to begin an argument. Logic and reason will determine who has "lost". Personally I prefer to "learn". Now my comment is about someone who chooses to advertise as "no blacks, etc.". They could easily say "white males only" etc. It's clearly either intentionally provocative or carelessly uncaring. But again it's your party. There's no law against being an insensitive or racist person in your own home.. NOW we're arguing.. your turn. |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
You see it was the black men organising the party who were the racists all along....... who knew?
You say that as if I referred to any particular race in my comment. I didn't, because it's irrelevant. Anyone can advertise who they want at their party but to go out of your way to identify who you do not want seems a bit of an intentional stab. I mean no one likes being told they are barred from coming to a party, even if they don't really want to come. Just say white males only or black straight males only. Why go further to to name those you don't want? But anyway, as I said.. It's fine, you'd be racist for advertising that way but it's your party and you can have who you want there, nothing wrong with that. "
you need to read the whole thread since your original post as you are clearly missing the point the OP was trying to get across
shouldn't jump to conclusions like you did in your original post
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
You see it was the black men organising the party who were the racists all along....... who knew?
You say that as if I referred to any particular race in my comment. I didn't, because it's irrelevant. Anyone can advertise who they want at their party but to go out of your way to identify who you do not want seems a bit of an intentional stab. I mean no one likes being told they are barred from coming to a party, even if they don't really want to come. Just say white males only or black straight males only. Why go further to to name those you don't want? But anyway, as I said.. It's fine, you'd be racist for advertising that way but it's your party and you can have who you want there, nothing wrong with that.
you need to read the whole thread since your original post as you are clearly missing the point the OP was trying to get across
shouldn't jump to conclusions like you did in your original post
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The original poster said that if he had advertised a party by saying "No Trans, No Blacks" then he surely would be breaking a rule. I responded that (if you do that) you're a racist i.e. to advertise that way is racist (among other things) but you're free to invite whoever you want to your party. No one will complain. He then responded that the people who did it were black. I responded that it seems like he didn't realise that I didn't ever to race. i.e. who cares what colour they are? Not me!
Now you're here telling me that I missed his original point and claiming that I jumped to conclusions... can you please explain what I missed and what conclusion I jumped to? Or are you the one jumping to conclusions? |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
You see it was the black men organising the party who were the racists all along....... who knew?
You say that as if I referred to any particular race in my comment. I didn't, because it's irrelevant. Anyone can advertise who they want at their party but to go out of your way to identify who you do not want seems a bit of an intentional stab. I mean no one likes being told they are barred from coming to a party, even if they don't really want to come. Just say white males only or black straight males only. Why go further to to name those you don't want? But anyway, as I said.. It's fine, you'd be racist for advertising that way but it's your party and you can have who you want there, nothing wrong with that.
you need to read the whole thread since your original post as you are clearly missing the point the OP was trying to get across
shouldn't jump to conclusions like you did in your original post
The original poster said that if he had advertised a party by saying "No Trans, No Blacks" then he surely would be breaking a rule. I responded that (if you do that) you're a racist i.e. to advertise that way is racist (among other things) but you're free to invite whoever you want to your party. No one will complain. He then responded that the people who did it were black. I responded that it seems like he didn't realise that I didn't ever to race. i.e. who cares what colour they are? Not me!
Now you're here telling me that I missed his original point and claiming that I jumped to conclusions... can you please explain what I missed and what conclusion I jumped to? Or are you the one jumping to conclusions? "
not jumping to conclusions just pointing out yours |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The inference was there for all to see. As is your hypocrisy. "
Your pragmatic incompetence, paranoid oversensitivity, and blind desire for enmity and conflict is the only thing to see here. Why speak for "all"? Stand on your own two feet. I already made myself clear, but it's as though you don't trust that your original post and hypothetical question was/could be understood. Fine, let's dig into it then... How do you know for certain that the organisers of this party are black? I'd like to see a link to this or some evidence, because you seem bent on hammering this topic. Let's make it a fruitful discussion from this point on. Do you actually know for certain that the organisers are black, or have you jumped to that conclusion? |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The inference was there for all to see. As is your hypocrisy.
Your pragmatic incompetence, paranoid oversensitivity, and blind desire for enmity and conflict is the only thing to see here. Why speak for "all"? Stand on your own two feet. I already made myself clear, but it's as though you don't trust that your original post and hypothetical question was/could be understood. Fine, let's dig into it then... How do you know for certain that the organisers of this party are black? I'd like to see a link to this or some evidence, because you seem bent on hammering this topic. Let's make it a fruitful discussion from this point on. Do you actually know for certain that the organisers are black, or have you jumped to that conclusion? "
Well in the profile text he described himself as a "black straight man".
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The inference was there for all to see. As is your hypocrisy.
Your pragmatic incompetence, paranoid oversensitivity, and blind desire for enmity and conflict is the only thing to see here. Why speak for "all"? Stand on your own two feet. I already made myself clear, but it's as though you don't trust that your original post and hypothetical question was/could be understood. Fine, let's dig into it then... How do you know for certain that the organisers of this party are black? I'd like to see a link to this or some evidence, because you seem bent on hammering this topic. Let's make it a fruitful discussion from this point on. Do you actually know for certain that the organisers are black, or have you jumped to that conclusion?
Well in the profile text he described himself as a "black straight man".
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Yeah, I know that's what you're saying, I'm asking for EVIDENCE! Let me spell it out.. I think you're lying for a thread! |
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Why do people seem to enjoy getting a kick out of talking about racism? On this forum its usually always started by a white male trying to goad someone.
Whoop-de-do you found ONE occasion of yourself not being included. It must be so hard for you.
I can’t imagine how often I’d be posting threads on here if I posted every time I see something excluding non-white people. You’re pathetic bro. |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The inference was there for all to see. As is your hypocrisy.
Your pragmatic incompetence, paranoid oversensitivity, and blind desire for enmity and conflict is the only thing to see here. Why speak for "all"? Stand on your own two feet. I already made myself clear, but it's as though you don't trust that your original post and hypothetical question was/could be understood. Fine, let's dig into it then... How do you know for certain that the organisers of this party are black? I'd like to see a link to this or some evidence, because you seem bent on hammering this topic. Let's make it a fruitful discussion from this point on. Do you actually know for certain that the organisers are black, or have you jumped to that conclusion?
Well in the profile text he described himself as a "black straight man".
Yeah, I know that's what you're saying, I'm asking for EVIDENCE! Let me spell it out.. I think you're lying for a thread! "
I could post the link to the thread I know he's referring to but I don't see what that would achieve |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The inference was there for all to see. As is your hypocrisy.
Your pragmatic incompetence, paranoid oversensitivity, and blind desire for enmity and conflict is the only thing to see here. Why speak for "all"? Stand on your own two feet. I already made myself clear, but it's as though you don't trust that your original post and hypothetical question was/could be understood. Fine, let's dig into it then... How do you know for certain that the organisers of this party are black? I'd like to see a link to this or some evidence, because you seem bent on hammering this topic. Let's make it a fruitful discussion from this point on. Do you actually know for certain that the organisers are black, or have you jumped to that conclusion?
Well in the profile text he described himself as a "black straight man".
Yeah, I know that's what you're saying, I'm asking for EVIDENCE! Let me spell it out.. I think you're lying for a thread!
I could post the link to the thread I know he's referring to but I don't see what that would achieve "
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The inference was there for all to see. As is your hypocrisy.
Your pragmatic incompetence, paranoid oversensitivity, and blind desire for enmity and conflict is the only thing to see here. Why speak for "all"? Stand on your own two feet. I already made myself clear, but it's as though you don't trust that your original post and hypothetical question was/could be understood. Fine, let's dig into it then... How do you know for certain that the organisers of this party are black? I'd like to see a link to this or some evidence, because you seem bent on hammering this topic. Let's make it a fruitful discussion from this point on. Do you actually know for certain that the organisers are black, or have you jumped to that conclusion?
Well in the profile text he described himself as a "black straight man".
Yeah, I know that's what you're saying, I'm asking for EVIDENCE! Let me spell it out.. I think you're lying for a thread!
I could post the link to the thread I know he's referring to but I don't see what that would achieve "
Yes, please put that bit to rest.. It's just that he's seems so heavily invested in a desired outcome for this thread and grasping at straws. That's what makes me think he may be lying about the whole thing. Seems like the thread was/is a goad by a Trump fan |
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The inference was there for all to see. As is your hypocrisy.
Your pragmatic incompetence, paranoid oversensitivity, and blind desire for enmity and conflict is the only thing to see here. Why speak for "all"? Stand on your own two feet. I already made myself clear, but it's as though you don't trust that your original post and hypothetical question was/could be understood. Fine, let's dig into it then... How do you know for certain that the organisers of this party are black? I'd like to see a link to this or some evidence, because you seem bent on hammering this topic. Let's make it a fruitful discussion from this point on. Do you actually know for certain that the organisers are black, or have you jumped to that conclusion?
Well in the profile text he described himself as a "black straight man".
Yeah, I know that's what you're saying, I'm asking for EVIDENCE! Let me spell it out.. I think you're lying for a thread!
I could post the link to the thread I know he's referring to but I don't see what that would achieve
Yes, please put that bit to rest.. It's just that he's seems so heavily invested in a desired outcome for this thread and grasping at straws. That's what makes me think he may be lying about the whole thing. Seems like the thread was/is a goad by a Trump fan "
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"You're a racist but no one will be complaining about not being invited to your party. Party with whom you wish.
The inference was there for all to see. As is your hypocrisy.
Your pragmatic incompetence, paranoid oversensitivity, and blind desire for enmity and conflict is the only thing to see here. Why speak for "all"? Stand on your own two feet. I already made myself clear, but it's as though you don't trust that your original post and hypothetical question was/could be understood. Fine, let's dig into it then... How do you know for certain that the organisers of this party are black? I'd like to see a link to this or some evidence, because you seem bent on hammering this topic. Let's make it a fruitful discussion from this point on. Do you actually know for certain that the organisers are black, or have you jumped to that conclusion?
Well in the profile text he described himself as a "black straight man".
Yeah, I know that's what you're saying, I'm asking for EVIDENCE! Let me spell it out.. I think you're lying for a thread!
I could post the link to the thread I know he's referring to but I don't see what that would achieve
Yes, please put that bit to rest.. It's just that he's seems so heavily invested in a desired outcome for this thread and grasping at straws. That's what makes me think he may be lying about the whole thing. Seems like the thread was/is a goad by a Trump fan
Please stop. "
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