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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so heres my dilemma. a lady who's just joined fab wants to meet but hasn't even looked at my profile yet. she has pics but it just sounds dodgy. any advice ??"
She may well have looked at your profile but done it in stealth!
There are plenty of ways to check someone out before you meet.
Tell her you're in no particular rush. That you'd like to chat for a bit. Maybe ask to chat over the phone or she can send you a direct pic holding something of your choice?
If she does want to do any of those then maybe you should proceed with caution?
Good luck and I hope it all turns out well for you.
We were all new here once, without veri's etc. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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How do you know she's not looked at your profile OP? She may have looked in ninja mode and you'd never know.
It's possible she could be genuine - so why not chat some more and get more of a feel for the situation, perhaps suggest a social meet somewhere that's not going to take you too far out of your way.
Although of your gut instinct is telling you to steer clear then I think you already know the answer. |
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"Ok so heres my dilemma. a lady who's just joined fab wants to meet but hasn't even looked at my profile yet. she has pics but it just sounds dodgy. any advice ??
She may well have looked at your profile but done it in stealth!
There are plenty of ways to check someone out before you meet.
Tell her you're in no particular rush. That you'd like to chat for a bit. Maybe ask to chat over the phone or she can send you a direct pic holding something of your choice?
If she does want to do any of those then maybe you should proceed with caution?
Good luck and I hope it all turns out well for you.
We were all new here once, without veri's etc."
 yes that's a good idea cheers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.
I don't even know what that is lol ??"
There ia a setting, where can look at people but they carnt see you have looked  |
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"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.
I don't even know what that is lol ??
There ia a setting, where can look at people but they carnt see you have looked "
I've been on fab for years and I never knew that. how thick am i lol . Cheers  |
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"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.
I don't even know what that is lol ??"
There's a feature you can use which once enabled means you don't show on the looked at me list.
I tend to think though that women who are new to the site rarely contact men straight away and even more rarely want to meet immediately. Proceed with caution. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.
I don't even know what that is lol ??
There's a feature you can use which once enabled means you don't show on the looked at me list.
I tend to think though that women who are new to the site rarely contact men straight away and even more rarely want to meet immediately. Proceed with caution."
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Arrange to meet somewhere local then it's not a massive issue if she doesn't show up.
As the poster above said I do think it's a little odd that she's new and wanting to arrange a meet already. |
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"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.
I don't even know what that is lol ??
There's a feature you can use which once enabled means you don't show on the looked at me list.
I tend to think though that women who are new to the site rarely contact men straight away and even more rarely want to meet immediately. Proceed with caution.
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I certainly will cheers |
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"Arrange to meet somewhere local then it's not a massive issue if she doesn't show up.
As the poster above said I do think it's a little odd that she's new and wanting to arrange a meet already. "
So do i lick!! can I pm you and ask you to take a look at her profile in stealth mode as you are local . Cheers |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Arrange to meet somewhere local then it's not a massive issue if she doesn't show up.
As the poster above said I do think it's a little odd that she's new and wanting to arrange a meet already. So do i lick!! can I pm you and ask you to take a look at her profile in stealth mode as you are local . Cheers "
Of course |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
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Have you done a google image search on her photos to see if they have been taken from elsewhere?
If nothing shows up try a cam chat or phone chat or has suggested ask her to do a photo holding a piece of paper with yours and her names on it.
Still going well arrange a pub meet.
None of the above happen then probably a fake and time to block and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you done a google image search on her photos to see if they have been taken from elsewhere?
If nothing shows up try a cam chat or phone chat or has suggested ask her to do a photo holding a piece of paper with yours and her names on it.
Still going well arrange a pub meet.
None of the above happen then probably a fake and time to block and move on.
Mr2"
doesn't mean a fake .. we have photos that will turn up elsewhere. I tend to keep chat to fab and will not go on cam either. And if meeting a single guy its going to be straight to it. Not a social first 
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