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Isit wrong to love the idea of a GF meeting s guy for money whilst im at work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just a fantasy i have of a GF bejng st home and a guy coming to the house shes dressed all sexy and pays for a meet.

Is this wrong or can i have this fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ask her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So prostitution then? ..no its not wrong to fantasise about anything whether you put your fantasies into practise is another thing ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol"

Sex for money...is the literal definition of prostitution...

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

Sex for money...is the literal definition of prostitution..."

Sometimes I'm head in hands and sometimes I'm helpless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol"

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused. "

I think he's using "Fab straight guy" logic. Basically if you say something's not, it's not, even if it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol"

Yes it is. ..money for sex = prostitution

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused.

I think he's using "Fab straight guy" logic. Basically if you say something's not, it's not, even if it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a fantasy i have of a GF bejng st home and a guy coming to the house shes dressed all sexy and pays for a meet.

Is this wrong or can i have this fantasy?

No it's not wrong. Yes enjoy the fantasy!

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By *rixiepeepWoman over a year ago

over the hill / chatsworth

I would love this fantasy me playing the prostitute role it's such a turn on mmm

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Just a fantasy i have of a GF bejng st home and a guy coming to the house shes dressed all sexy and pays for a meet.

Is this wrong or can i have this fantasy?

Yes you may have this fantasy. Your certificate of ownership is in the post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So prostitution then? ..no its not wrong to fantasise about anything whether you put your fantasies into practise is another thing .."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm Sorry ... That is totally wrong x Daisy

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused.

I think he's using "Fab straight guy" logic. Basically if you say something's not, it's not, even if it is

So it's like the "fab single woman" logic when they say they aren't racist they just have preferences not to play with certain skin colours then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's your fantasy

You can play if you want to

play if you want to

play if you want to...

But perhaps when some fantasies spill over into reality....then a reality check is required..

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By *lk GuyMan over a year ago

sheffield

If it's a fantasy it's ok

But my question is who's fantasy is it yours or hers???

If it's yours people might say prostitution if it's hers might not...and how much money are we talking about

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused.

I think he's using "Fab straight guy" logic. Basically if you say something's not, it's not, even if it is

So it's like the "fab single woman" logic when they say they aren't racist they just have preferences not to play with certain skin colours then"

No, I don't indulge that notion. That's attraction to me. Like I'm rarely attracted to oriental looking people, or white red headed guys.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused.

I think he's using "Fab straight guy" logic. Basically if you say something's not, it's not, even if it is

So it's like the "fab single woman" logic when they say they aren't racist they just have preferences not to play with certain skin colours then

No, I don't indulge that notion. That's attraction to me. Like I'm rarely attracted to oriental looking people, or white red headed guys."

'Rarely' vrs 'never' is where the line is. When you dislike something, the non-racist thing is to say what it is you don't like rather than presume an entire group have it.

A lot of "attraction" is learnt and therefore it's entirely possible to learn a racist view of attraction. Generally women prefer higher status men, so if you are repeatedly taught that some races are lower status, then at the aggregate level you will find a lot of women magically 'less attracted' to certain races.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused. "

Maybe it's Monopoly money or she gives him a full refund after the dirty deed has been done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing morally or legally wrong with this scenario, sex workers have lives too.

You may need to prove at some point that you were not benefiting financially though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So it's like the "fab single woman" logic when they say they aren't racist they just have preferences not to play with certain skin colours then"

How the hell did this thread become a racist v preference thread?

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By *riskynriskyCouple over a year ago

Essex.

"So it's like the "fab single woman" logic when they say they aren't racist they just have preferences not to play with certain skin colours then

How the hell did this thread become a racist v preference thread?"

Because it the Fab forums...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"So it's like the "fab single woman" logic when they say they aren't racist they just have preferences not to play with certain skin colours then

How the hell did this thread become a racist v preference thread?

Because it the Fab forums...

"
because people just chip in with their own opinions of everything else and don't bother reading the OP

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Just a fantasy i have of a GF bejng st home and a guy coming to the house shes dressed all sexy and pays for a meet.

Is this wrong or can i have this fantasy?

Getting back to the OP.. fantasy is fine, but in reality no x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a fantasy i have of a GF bejng st home and a guy coming to the house shes dressed all sexy and pays for a meet.

Is this wrong or can i have this fantasy?

So you have a fantasy that your girlfriend dresses sexy and pays for a meet, nothing wrong with hiring a gigalo but most of us females are getting fucked for free XXX

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

Can I just have the money ..... pop it through the letter box .....it will come in usefull at Christmas .....

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By *rightonCheekyMan over a year ago

Brighton

It's a great fantasy and the use of Monopoly money would get rid of the prostitution issue

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It's a great fantasy and the use of Monopoly money would get rid of the prostitution issue

"
actually that's a very good idea, well done!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan over a year ago

london

Interestingly I just texted a lady that was on fab about 18 months ago. We chatted lots but never got round to meeting although we had incredible phone sex.

She’s now on a certain adult website offering her services. She said she still gets a certain amount of choice and as much fun as she needs but also is reasonably rich too lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused.

I think he's using "Fab straight guy" logic. Basically if you say something's not, it's not, even if it is

So it's like the "fab single woman" logic when they say they aren't racist they just have preferences not to play with certain skin colours then"

Most pathetic logic ever. You don't like sex with a certain type of person makes you a racist?

Then you not liking sex with men makes you sexist. Send me the photos of you with a guy giving you a blow job or quit talking shite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a fantasy i have of a GF bejng st home and a guy coming to the house shes dressed all sexy and pays for a meet.

Is this wrong or can i have this fantasy?

I'm assuming you're single

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

"Is the odea wrong though? I.e your partner receiving money for sex whilst your out at work.

And no its not prostitution lol

How is it not? Genuine question as you have me confused.

I think he's using "Fab straight guy" logic. Basically if you say something's not, it's not, even if it is

So it's like the "fab single woman" logic when they say they aren't racist they just have preferences not to play with certain skin colours then

Most pathetic logic ever. You don't like sex with a certain type of person makes you a racist?

Then you not liking sex with men makes you sexist. Send me the photos of you with a guy giving you a blow job or quit talking shite"

He's bi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Then I am a racist. What can I say. I cede control of my own body and choices to the liberal masses because it is wrong to choose who I sleep with

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

Then I am a racist. What can I say. I cede control of my own body and choices to the liberal masses because it is wrong to choose who I sleep with "

That's a bit of a fallacy. Saying refusing to have sex with someone is racist is not the same thing as saying you are compelled to have sex with them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Just to point out that the last five posts have no relevance to the OP's original question which is this....

"Just a fantasy i have of a GF bejng st home and a guy coming to the house shes dressed all sexy and pays for a meet.

Is this wrong or can i have this fantasy?"

I'm sure he would welcome any advice or ideas regarding this instead of petty squabbling about preferences, racism and sexism on his thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I said I think he needs to get a girlfriend first and see what she says. There are loads of parties and gangbangs were men make "contributions" on here so it isn't like prostitution doesn't have fine lines

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course it isn't wrong, you can have any fantasy you want . Good thing about the imagination, it has no bounds .

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan over a year ago

london

I often take a bottle of wine and a gift to meets, that could be seen as prostitution

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple over a year ago

Manchester

If she's having sex purely for the need for money; that's what we think of as prostitution

If she's having sex for fun; that's great... in which case is the cash not just a 'bonus' i.e. She'd presumably be having sex either way!!

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