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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
Why is it that people get so rude and aggressive when you turn them down?
In the middle of a heated discussion with a male because we said we weren't meeting (states this in the profile but he hadn't read it).
Now accused me of being retarded, carrying someone elses baby and being ugly.
What the actual fuck!?!?! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Get used to it unfortunately. There are a lot of emotionally stunted, deranged people on here. You'll run into them frequently. You'll also meet some lovely, like minded folks here. Best of luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Report, block and try and let it go over your head.
Seems a lot of guys on here lately seem to think it's insta-shag and get the hump when it turns out they're not going to get laid on their demand.
Thankfully most guys are polite and respectful, so shake it off, and onwards and upwards  |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"If not get into a heated discussion . Id just block x "
I know, and I just have. Just felt very unjust as I'd been polite so didn't want to just block.
Some single men on here give other blokes a bad name xx |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Get used to it unfortunately. There are a lot of emotionally stunted, deranged people on here. You'll run into them frequently. You'll also meet some lovely, like minded folks here. Best of luck x"
Btw. Great pics op, and well written profile. Happily fabbed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that people get so rude and aggressive when you turn them down?
In the middle of a heated discussion with a male because we said we weren't meeting (states this in the profile but he hadn't read it).
Now accused me of being retarded, carrying someone elses baby and being ugly.
What the actual fuck!?!?!"
Because they think we're on here and a easy shag for them. When they realise that isn't the case they can't handle it. We just block and move on now don't waste the time on the muppets lol |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Get used to it unfortunately. There are a lot of emotionally stunted, deranged people on here. You'll run into them frequently. You'll also meet some lovely, like minded folks here. Best of luck x"
Fortunately, we've just met good so far so this is a bit of a shock 
Anyway.... onwards and upwards xx |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Report, block and try and let it go over your head.
Seems a lot of guys on here lately seem to think it's insta-shag and get the hump when it turns out they're not going to get laid on their demand.
Thankfully most guys are polite and respectful, so shake it off, and onwards and upwards "
Indeed xx |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Get used to it unfortunately. There are a lot of emotionally stunted, deranged people on here. You'll run into them frequently. You'll also meet some lovely, like minded folks here. Best of luck x
Btw. Great pics op, and well written profile. Happily fabbed "
Much appreciated xx |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Just say no thank you. Use mail filters if you don't want mail.
What did you say to him? How was it an argument?"
He said nice pics, I said thanks, he send can we meet, I said no we're not currently meeting, he asked if I'd like, I said no and it states in the profile we don't use Kik. I then told him I was pregnant (also in the profile). He then said he wanted to be friends. I said we're not interested, he then said I needed more self respect being on here pregnant  |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Why do you keep messaging him. Ignore him and he'll go away "
I have lovely, reported and blocked. As I mentioned earlier, it felt very unjust to be spoken to that way, never had it on here before.
Lesson learned xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is obviously disappointing being turned down, but why resort to abuse and nastiness. I have had my share of rejections but I just say thanks for the reply and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's unfortunate that you've experienced this kind of negative attitude on here, but sadly, it happens.
Following a few nasty experiences with men not taking polite rejection very well, I tend to send a 'thanks for your message, but you're not for us, all the best' and then block as a matter of course now. If we're not interested in meeting someone, nothing is lost by blocking them, and it quite possibly saves us from experiencing some of the not so nice types.
V x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Short story, obviously was far more insults aimed as us  "
hi just block and move on I have had some experience in this it's not worth the hassle of engaging them if they can't be arsed to read your full profile and just ogle your pics more fool them |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Short story, obviously was far more insults aimed as us hi just block and move on I have had some experience in this it's not worth the hassle of engaging them if they can't be arsed to read your full profile and just ogle your pics more fool them"
Completely agree.... Xx |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"It's unfortunate that you've experienced this kind of negative attitude on here, but sadly, it happens.
Following a few nasty experiences with men not taking polite rejection very well, I tend to send a 'thanks for your message, but you're not for us, all the best' and then block as a matter of course now. If we're not interested in meeting someone, nothing is lost by blocking them, and it quite possibly saves us from experiencing some of the not so nice types.
V x
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So sad that's what you resorted too though isn't it. We're relatively new online and have only really experienced clubs and parties and people there are always so laid back. Guess I was neive to think that translated to online...
Although on a whole, the experience on this site has been hugely positive xx |
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"Why is it that people get so rude and aggressive when you turn them down?
In the middle of a heated discussion with a male because we said we weren't meeting (states this in the profile but he hadn't read it).
Now accused me of being retarded, carrying someone elses baby and being ugly.
What the actual fuck!?!?!"
Block and smile..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Short story, obviously was far more insults aimed as us hi just block and move on I have had some experience in this it's not worth the hassle of engaging them if they can't be arsed to read your full profile and just ogle your pics more fool them
Completely agree.... Xx"
I just had a guy say I should redo my profile as my veris make me look like I'm desperate and shag anyone all this because I said I'd not meet him and his gf as he comes across as a nasty piece of work and this proofed me right |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Why is it that people get so rude and aggressive when you turn them down?
In the middle of a heated discussion with a male because we said we weren't meeting (states this in the profile but he hadn't read it).
Now accused me of being retarded, carrying someone elses baby and being ugly.
What the actual fuck!?!?!
Block and smile..... "
This! I guarantee you're getting more interest than he is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op I checked your profile out congratulations I hope it goes well I fully understand why your not meeting and I think your doing the right thing and just because of your status why shouldn't u still be here after all u can chat still there's no rule saying you must only fuck lol |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"It's unfortunate that you've experienced this kind of negative attitude on here, but sadly, it happens.
Following a few nasty experiences with men not taking polite rejection very well, I tend to send a 'thanks for your message, but you're not for us, all the best' and then block as a matter of course now. If we're not interested in meeting someone, nothing is lost by blocking them, and it quite possibly saves us from experiencing some of the not so nice types.
V x
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I do the same. It's just not worth being made to feel crap for not sympathy shagging every guy who shows interest. Plus it stops the ones with short memories from messaging again. Blocking is a very helpful tool for making this site more pleasant to be on, never feel guilty for using it |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"It's unfortunate that you've experienced this kind of negative attitude on here, but sadly, it happens.
Following a few nasty experiences with men not taking polite rejection very well, I tend to send a 'thanks for your message, but you're not for us, all the best' and then block as a matter of course now. If we're not interested in meeting someone, nothing is lost by blocking them, and it quite possibly saves us from experiencing some of the not so nice types.
V x
I do the same. It's just not worth being made to feel crap for not sympathy shagging every guy who shows interest. Plus it stops the ones with short memories from messaging again. Blocking is a very helpful tool for making this site more pleasant to be on, never feel guilty for using it "
Indeed, good point xx |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Op I checked your profile out congratulations I hope it goes well I fully understand why your not meeting and I think your doing the right thing and just because of your status why shouldn't u still be here after all u can chat still there's no rule saying you must only fuck lol"
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just say no thank you. Use mail filters if you don't want mail.
What did you say to him? How was it an argument?
He said nice pics, I said thanks, he send can we meet, I said no we're not currently meeting, he asked if I'd like, I said no and it states in the profile we don't use Kik. I then told him I was pregnant (also in the profile). He then said he wanted to be friends. I said we're not interested, he then said I needed more self respect being on here pregnant "
After you said "no we're not currently meeting" I wouldn't have replied to him again after that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As per 99% of the guys on here,
They don't read the profile. Which is a shame because every now and then we like to meet up with one "
I'd message u but as I'm not a site supporter I can't but I did read your profile and looked at accompanying pics and I do agree with what u say above us single guys must read everything |
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By *lg1000 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bedfordshire |
"Just say no thank you. Use mail filters if you don't want mail.
What did you say to him? How was it an argument?
He said nice pics, I said thanks, he send can we meet, I said no we're not currently meeting, he asked if I'd like, I said no and it states in the profile we don't use Kik. I then told him I was pregnant (also in the profile). He then said he wanted to be friends. I said we're not interested, he then said I needed more self respect being on here pregnant
After you said "no we're not currently meeting" I wouldn't have replied to him again after that.
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I know I shouldn't have but I just couldn't help myself!
As I said before, lesson learned xx |
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"Get used to it unfortunately. There are a lot of emotionally stunted, deranged people on here. You'll run into them frequently. You'll also meet some lovely, like minded folks here. Best of luck x
Fortunately, we've just met good so far so this is a bit of a shock
Anyway.... onwards and upwards xx"
I used to be nice sending no thank you ...
Got fed up of the abuse back so now it's
No thank you and immediate block |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
Sadly this happens a lot. Just block an move on. Not worth the energy to argue. It won't change anything. On the flip side there are some lovely people on here and more of them than there are idiots. |
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Like most people on here we have our likes and dislikes on our profile...
Frisky got told that the dislike a guy fell under should have been at the top of our profile as we had wasted his time...
Surely he was wasting his time letting us know that we had wasted his time by making him read the whole profile...
He told us we were time wasters and blocked us... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not meeting at the moment, it does say on my profile. But in the last few days I have received over 22 messages from someone. I have stated that “I’m sorry I’m not meeting at the moment”
Today I received this message “you’re a timewasting prick, I hope you get aids and die painfully you c##t”
Just because I didn’t want to meet. Would they have spoken to me in the street or a bar like that? |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"I’m not meeting at the moment, it does say on my profile. But in the last few days I have received over 22 messages from someone. I have stated that “I’m sorry I’m not meeting at the moment”
Today I received this message “you’re a timewasting prick, I hope you get aids and die painfully you c##t”
Just because I didn’t want to meet. Would they have spoken to me in the street or a bar like that? "
Wth... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not meeting at the moment, it does say on my profile. But in the last few days I have received over 22 messages from someone. I have stated that “I’m sorry I’m not meeting at the moment”
Today I received this message “you’re a timewasting prick, I hope you get aids and die painfully you c##t”
Just because I didn’t want to meet. Would they have spoken to me in the street or a bar like that?
Wth... "
I know, right? I mean, what do they get out of abusing people? It makes no difference to me, I’ve heard worse. I did tell them to come and say that to my face but then they blocked me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not meeting at the moment, it does say on my profile. But in the last few days I have received over 22 messages from someone. I have stated that “I’m sorry I’m not meeting at the moment”
Today I received this message “you’re a timewasting prick, I hope you get aids and die painfully you c##t”
Just because I didn’t want to meet. Would they have spoken to me in the street or a bar like that? "
Did you report them? |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"I’m not meeting at the moment, it does say on my profile. But in the last few days I have received over 22 messages from someone. I have stated that “I’m sorry I’m not meeting at the moment”
Today I received this message “you’re a timewasting prick, I hope you get aids and die painfully you c##t”
Just because I didn’t want to meet. Would they have spoken to me in the street or a bar like that?
Wth...
I know, right? I mean, what do they get out of abusing people? It makes no difference to me, i’ve heard worse. I did tell them to come and say that to my face but then they blocked me. "
I've no idea, reporting seems to do little unfortunately  |
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