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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi not been on here for long so haven't had a meet yet, just curious as to what people's first meet was like? Did everyone take it slow or are there any of you That just went straight in at the deep end, no messing about?
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We had planned to take it slow but the lady we met had other ideas so we just went with the flow. And boy, did it flow!
It was fun but many of the scenarios the three of us had discussed previously didn't happen. Not that it matters, it just means we have lots of fantasies left to try.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Clcc Club visits definitely sound like
Jumping in at the deep end, how did they go for you did you keep to eachother the first time or get stuck into some other people too?
Seductive kisser yeah I couldn't agree more. Some people are happier taking it slow and others happy to jump straight in, it's all fair enough.
Buzz and woody, sounds like she is a very fun lady who knows what she wants lol! I suppose as long as you all had similar interests that's more important than acting it out as you had planned.
Thanks for your responses, always interesting to hear different views x
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Clcc Club visits definitely sound like
Jumping in at the deep end, how did they go for you did you keep to eachother the first time or get stuck into some other people too?
Seductive kisser yeah I couldn't agree more. Some people are happier taking it slow and others happy to jump straight in, it's all fair enough.
Buzz and woody, sounds like she is a very fun lady who knows what she wants lol! I suppose as long as you all had similar interests that's more important than acting it out as you had planned.
Thanks for your responses, always interesting to hear different views x
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We just played together. So not really the deep end. As a single guy though it's quite different on here. You could sit on here for months, sending messages and getting no responses. Or you could visit a club and chat to multiple people in one night, and maybe even get to play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clcc Club visits definitely sound like
Jumping in at the deep end, how did they go for you did you keep to eachother the first time or get stuck into some other people too?
Seductive kisser yeah I couldn't agree more. Some people are happier taking it slow and others happy to jump straight in, it's all fair enough.
Buzz and woody, sounds like she is a very fun lady who knows what she wants lol! I suppose as long as you all had similar interests that's more important than acting it out as you had planned.
Thanks for your responses, always interesting to hear different views x
We just played together. So not really the deep end. As a single guy though it's quite different on here. You could sit on here for months, sending messages and getting no responses. Or you could visit a club and chat to multiple people in one night, and maybe even get to play. "
Definitely right about waiting for replies lol. I've thought about a club but was hoping to go with someone. Do single guys get made to feel welcome? |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Clcc Club visits definitely sound like
Jumping in at the deep end, how did they go for you did you keep to eachother the first time or get stuck into some other people too?
Seductive kisser yeah I couldn't agree more. Some people are happier taking it slow and others happy to jump straight in, it's all fair enough.
Buzz and woody, sounds like she is a very fun lady who knows what she wants lol! I suppose as long as you all had similar interests that's more important than acting it out as you had planned.
Thanks for your responses, always interesting to hear different views x
We just played together. So not really the deep end. As a single guy though it's quite different on here. You could sit on here for months, sending messages and getting no responses. Or you could visit a club and chat to multiple people in one night, and maybe even get to play.
Definitely right about waiting for replies lol. I've thought about a club but was hoping to go with someone. Do single guys get made to feel welcome? "
Clubs are generally friendly places. Chat to people, dont just follow people around. Keep to the rules, no touching without asking, no means no etc.
If it comes to action, you are much more likely to play if you visit a club than if you are just messaging on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I kinda felt like maybe single guys would be looked at as a nuisance lol. I'm always very respectable too so that's not a problem.
So how does it work at a club? I'm
Assuming it just starts off like any other club but then gets a bit hotter as the drinks flow lol. Sorry for the amateur questions lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d only been on a week or so. Exchanged a few texts, booked a hotel room, met in the lobby for a drink and then straight upstairs. Amazing few hours with an incredibly hot lady
I’m not going to lie to you, I couldn’t believe my luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first meet almost put me off fab. We swapped some pics before meet but he always sent me just cock or face, later I found out it was because he had old photos and has a big beer bell, probably didn't have a shower before I came because he was still wearing work t-shirt, he had just semi almost all the time so he had problem to get in and I couldn't feel him properly, had broken bed so hard fucking was only a dream and I had bruises on my legs from him biting me for next 2 weeks. At least I sat on his face and made myself cum before I left ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi not been on here for long so haven't had a meet yet, just curious as to what people's first meet was like?"
More than a year and still waiting for the first meet from here.
And yes, up to about a month I had lots of pics on my profile. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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It was on my first profile a while back, it was good and I met him a few times, but he never verified me. I didn't even really notice at the time because the site I was on before didn't have a verification system as such.
Looking back now I think he was quite happy to let my profile be unverified, hence fake looking, so it would be harder for me to meet others. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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We started swinging by visiting clubs, and almost all our playing is club based. Takes the uncertainty out of meets - you and potential playmates have the chance to size each other up in person before making any committment. Besides which, well behaved and presentable single guys are welcome in most clubs and by most couples - I play with plenty of them. Gives you a chance to build a circle of people you can then meet outside the clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the first time we would Deffo recommend having a social first
Just takes the edge off that first proper meet.
Mind you,We've had a few meets now but still get ultra nervous
...nothing a few vodkas doesn't sort out though ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first meet was great!
We had a great couple who weren't pushy!!
They got us d*unk ha. (Hope u's read this - u's got us wasted) haha.
We had a giggle all night!!
I was so over worked I asked the fem half to bring nail varnish as I didn't have time. So over wine/flirting I applied nail varnish.
Great does ever meet!! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first time was going to a club to a find a single guy but only soft swing....then when it was as amazing as we thought I arranged a hotel mfm with hubbie and a guy off here! It was incredible and I guess it went from there ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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