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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This evening I had a message from a single male. Having had a bad experience with someone who had a very jealous fwb I messaged him saying thanks but no thanks, I don't meet anyone with a fwb. He replied with a load of abuse. Is it now acceptable on here to send abuse if someone says no? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I get a lot of them. Calling me monkey or don't want monkey spunk mostly racist. I just bloke them they don't deserve a response.  "
Probably jealous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its all too common now report n block and wait for them to rejoin under a different name and then they get nasty again as there really is no way of stopping them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a lot of abuse from single men, even an r threat, apparently I can't say the word on here. That's why I have a block on single men but here's the thing, I sometimes get abuse from couples too. Had a female of a couple bitching to me a couple of nights ago. Yes I blocked her but before I did I gave her as good as I got and I don't normally do that but she really riled me. That block button is my best friend x |
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Guys like that really get my blood boiling , they will never get anywhere like that and it's makes it ten times harder for genuine single guys like myself and loads of others on here , he is obviously not serious about the scene and should get reported and kicked of the site . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had a lot of abuse from single men, even an r threat, apparently I can't say the word on here."
if someone was stupid enough to even say that word to me from a threatening point of view then i would report to the police after all the law is the law website or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I get a lot of them. Calling me monkey or don't want monkey spunk mostly racist. I just bloke them they don't deserve a response. "
That's fucked up mate |
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"I have had a lot of abuse from single men, even an r threat, apparently I can't say the word on here.
if someone was stupid enough to even say that word to me from a threatening point of view then i would report to the police after all the law is the law website or not "
Exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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see this now opens the debate for charging people to join and i totally dont condone anyone sex age or race abuse but all they do is close 1 profile and open another mins later the site needs to Act more as this is a regular occurrence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I get a lot of them. Calling me monkey or don't want monkey spunk mostly racist. I just bloke them they don't deserve a response. "
That's fucking insane. No one should have to put up with that shit anywhere, much less on a site like this one that is supposed to be about making connections.
Just fuck their ignorance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of guys that mail me demading sex without saying hi is scarily high they think because ur on the site that you automatically will sleep with anyone. I know my profile says im a slut but that dont mean ill sleep with anyone. These are so detached from reality its unreal and also their profiles mostly say straight . But i agree its unacceptable block and report and enjoy the time with people who show respect |
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"Give him abuse back i would
Why? So they know they've upset you? It's not worth the emotional energy "
Probably not,but sometimes just has to be done. Only I can be far more vile depending on the time of month  |
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Those people frighten me, as they're the ones with the potential to commit a sexually aggravated crime in the future. Whether through extortion or physical abuse. Just a shame that the reporting of these people doesn't end up as a list of potential nutters on a database for the police for future reference. Some people seem to think intimidation through fear is the answer to their sexual frustration. My fantasy solution would be to arrange a meet in a wood one night and introduce them to my baseball bat. Unfortunately the law frowns upon this, so report, block and move on is the only real and safest solution.
I'm not a violent guy but these people really do need educating. Rant over x |
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"Those people frighten me, as they're the ones with the potential to commit a sexually aggravated crime in the future. Whether through extortion or physical abuse. Just a shame that the reporting of these people doesn't end up as a list of potential nutters on a database for the police for future reference. Some people seem to think intimidation through fear is the answer to their sexual frustration. My fantasy solution would be to arrange a meet in a wood one night and introduce them to my baseball bat. Unfortunately the law frowns upon this, so report, block and move on is the only real and safest solution.
I'm not a violent guy but these people really do need educating. Rant over x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And yet you get people posting on the forums every day asking why they don't get responses to messages. - that's why.
You get abuse so it's better to just ignore |
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Some of the messages I get make me so bloody angry, but also at the same time slightly amused.
There's not a cat in hells chance those idiots would speak to me like that in real life, face to face.
The report & block button is fast becoming my best friend, while I secretly plan ways I'd inflict pain upon them if we ever did meet.
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I've had abuse from someone I disagreed with on a forum thread, he pm'd me to say how fake my profile was and blah blah blah.
I later saw him post in a thread similar to this one about how sending abusive messages was totally unacceptable  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I've had abuse from someone I disagreed with on a forum thread, he pm'd me to say how fake my profile was and blah blah blah.
I later saw him post in a thread similar to this one about how sending abusive messages was totally unacceptable "
and did you call him out on it?  |
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Unfortunately, it is knobheads like that, that makes meeting new people all the more difficult for single males like myself, it is not acceptable in any walk of life to behave in that manner, be it on this site or in real life, just goes to show how some people are just pure Jeremy Kyle fodder these days :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a guy who I've met a few times turn on me last night because he didn't like that I spoke the truth to him. Cut a long story short it ended with him say going cry to someone who cares but then you can't because your a sad lonely old fat cow
When I sent a sarcastic reply back his reply was oh no you go running to the fridge for comfort
I didn't retaliate just blocked him on my phone
So even guys who you meet and trust can turn abusive not just random strangers
May I add he isn't on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately, it is knobheads like that, that makes meeting new people all the more difficult for single males like myself, it is not acceptable in any walk of life to behave in that manner, be it on this site or in real life, just goes to show how some people are just pure Jeremy Kyle fodder these days :/"
how does it make it more difficult for you? |
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"Unfortunately, it is knobheads like that, that makes meeting new people all the more difficult for single males like myself, it is not acceptable in any walk of life to behave in that manner, be it on this site or in real life, just goes to show how some people are just pure Jeremy Kyle fodder these days :/
how does it make it more difficult for you?"
Because the more it happens to women/couples, the less likely they are to want to talk to single guys to begin with incase it happens again, let alone anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately, it is knobheads like that, that makes meeting new people all the more difficult for single males like myself, it is not acceptable in any walk of life to behave in that manner, be it on this site or in real life, just goes to show how some people are just pure Jeremy Kyle fodder these days :/
how does it make it more difficult for you?
Because the more it happens to women/couples, the less likely they are to want to talk to single guys to begin with incase it happens again, let alone anything else "
i think thats nonsense...couples are very capable, as are some women, of giving abuse..i take each person on thwir own merits, as i imagine most do or they wouldnt be on here...if people dont want to talk to single men they would block them...but this constant whine of ' other people spoil it for the rest' is rubbish! |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I've had abuse from someone I disagreed with on a forum thread, he pm'd me to say how fake my profile was and blah blah blah.
I later saw him post in a thread similar to this one about how sending abusive messages was totally unacceptable and did you call him out on it? "
I didn't name him but I did comment that certain posts in the thread were rather ironic. He didn't bite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately, it is knobheads like that, that makes meeting new people all the more difficult for single males like myself, it is not acceptable in any walk of life to behave in that manner, be it on this site or in real life, just goes to show how some people are just pure Jeremy Kyle fodder these days :/
how does it make it more difficult for you?
Because the more it happens to women/couples, the less likely they are to want to talk to single guys to begin with incase it happens again, let alone anything else
i think thats nonsense...couples are very capable, as are some women, of giving abuse..i take each person on thwir own merits, as i imagine most do or they wouldnt be on here...if people dont want to talk to single men they would block them...but this constant whine of ' other people spoil it for the rest' is rubbish!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The amount of guys that mail me demading sex without saying hi is scarily high they think because ur on the site that you automatically will sleep with anyone. I know my profile says im a slut but that dont mean ill sleep with anyone. These are so detached from reality its unreal and also their profiles mostly say straight . But i agree its unacceptable block and report and enjoy the time with people who show respect "
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No op its totally unacceptable
Teddy out of pram reaction unfortunately,if you have blocked and reported,just forget him
I have read that many block after saying no thanks,for this very reason.
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