Most people join the site thinking they will get as much sex as they can handle, and are sadly mistaken when they realise just how many single guys are doing the same. That doesn't mean it won't happen, but it might take more effort than what you originally thought. It's only been a week, so chin up.
There are a few things that immediately stand out to us from your profile. Firstly, you must have the lungs of a racehorse. Try reading your profile out load and only take a breath when you reach a full stop or comma. If you find you are starting to turn blue then you need some punctuation. Secondly it's 'I' not 'i' when used as a single letter. Sorry to sound like a school teacher, and that's not how it's meant, but those things do detract from your profile and are simple easy fixes. We understand that not everyone writes in perfect English, and we all make mistakes, but if you want to polish up your shop window then that's an easy place to start.
Other people have already mentioned your photo's and we echo their sentiments.
Never mind the gym membership, you appear to have a reasonable body. Not everyone goes for rippling muscles, so as long as your happy with your body then show it off, not just your cock. Perhaps you could add one where your smiling, rather than looking like the getaway driver outside of a bank 
Unfortunately as you can't accomodate many people will think your playing away from home. That's fine, leave them to it. You say it's complicated and that's fair enough, many people on here also have complications in their lives that they don't want to broadcast but will talk about privately. For our part we normally assume that a younger person can't accomodate as they are still living at home.
Ask yourself a serious question. Would you really want to have sex with someone in their nineties? If you do then carry on, if not then you might want to adjust your preferences slightly. You'd be suprised how many people get told the same thing.
"i get quite a few views a day off couples and women yet no message or wink or even a fab?"
This sounds like you are expecting everyone to approach you. I'm sure that's not the case, but if it is then you'll need to be more active. Use the search facility to find people that meet your preferences, then approach them if they meet yours. If they don't then it's likely to be a no anyway, so save yourself some time. You don't come across as a shy guy so you should have no trouble putting a message together that shows you have read their profile, and that you are interested and engaging.
You've found the forum, so try the chatroom as well, especially the room for your geographic area. Offline, you could attend an organised social or a club.
All in all it's not a bad profile, but very simple steps could improve it, and your chances, significantly. Don't take anything we have said to heart, it's not meant to cause offence.
Good luck out there
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