So I was asked by an ex if I fancied hooking up for some fun. Now I have no feelings for the guy other than lust. He is single no ties. And wanted me to send dirty pictures! Of which I have a few on here! I told my fella all about it as we have no secrets. He got massively turned on by it. I said to the ex leave it with me to get together as I have work and a family blah blah. He thinks I'm ducking out.. But I said if only you knew what I get up to  . Now I want to tell him what I do get up to but am scared incase he tells anyone else. Should I leave it or invite him to a club  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Why not just hook up for fun together alone instead of explaining the lifestyle and going to a club? If you have any reservations about him blowing your cover as a couple though, don't do it. It gets messy and you'll end up having to explain to people that you're a swinger, not a cheater, yada, yada. |
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"So I was asked by an ex if I fancied hooking up for some fun. Now I have no feelings for the guy other than lust. He is single no ties. And wanted me to send dirty pictures! Of which I have a few on here! I told my fella all about it as we have no secrets. He got massively turned on by it. I said to the ex leave it with me to get together as I have work and a family blah blah. He thinks I'm ducking out.. But I said if only you knew what I get up to . Now I want to tell him what I do get up to but am scared incase he tells anyone else. Should I leave it or invite him to a club "
Why would you get involved with an ex even if it is just sexually (it never is one party always has another agenda). Just leave it. |
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"So I was asked by an ex if I fancied hooking up for some fun. Now I have no feelings for the guy other than lust. He is single no ties. And wanted me to send dirty pictures! Of which I have a few on here! I told my fella all about it as we have no secrets. He got massively turned on by it. I said to the ex leave it with me to get together as I have work and a family blah blah. He thinks I'm ducking out.. But I said if only you knew what I get up to . Now I want to tell him what I do get up to but am scared incase he tells anyone else. Should I leave it or invite him to a club "
Is he a big mouth? You know him, will he tell other people?
Also surely he is your ex for a reason? |
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