Talk to them find out how they would like the meet to go. If it's similar to how you would like it to pan out all's good if not chat about any differences.
Have you met them socially or discussed the meet at all? Is the guy watching, joining in? Are you 100% sure both of them are genuinely up for it?
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Talk to them as if you're already friends. Don't talk about sex unless they do. Assume that they're nervous as hell and are waiting for something to go wrong. Be prepared to have to stop and give them some space. Maybe go 'freshen up' after you've been with them for a bit to give them chance to talk if they need to.
Just go slow and be aware of any visual cues between them that may suggest all is not well. Ask them how they're feeling when you reach a natural pause. Ask if there's anything they'd like to change or do differently. |
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I would also say that it isn't all about them
You are just as important and aren't just an accessory there to make sure they have a good time. If you get the slightest hint that they aren't taking your wishes in to account think carefully. Some couples see single men as less than they are and I believe that's wrong. |
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