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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol |
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi thankyou both for support and comments but it seems to be difficult to find couples at least around cheltenham who seem interested in meeting if your over 50 they have age limits on there profiles, just makes me feel old. i can still play all night so stamina isnt an issue lol |
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
I am 67 and finding it almost impossible to find genuine meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No need to move but be open to travelling, I'm lucky enough to travel a fair bit in the UK for different reasons, I'm sitting on a balcony in a villa in Spain right now and there are swingers aplenty within 10 miles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
Well am getting no response at 49 so I kinda give up  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Don't think it's the area OP - just dod a quick search of ladies within 20 miles of Cheltenham willing to meet guys of my age (52) and there were 139 results 
You've a decent profile blurb - as others have said better pics might help you don't really need 5/6 pics of your cock 
I only started all this when I was 50 and the site is meeting my expectations so age isn't a limiting factor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suggested in another topic that honesty, when you first set up your account, can work against you later. The dishonest guys with lower stated ages are able to communicate through filters us honest guys can't.
There are lots of lovely accounts, mf and f, who revel in us older, wiser men, just fewer and far between, but they are there. Thanks to those who contacted me last time. You cheered me up no end. |
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The reality is that single men over fifty will find it increasingly difficult to get meets. It's supply and demand again. Most women and couples will prefer younger men (30 to 40 is probably the optimum age bracket) and because there are so many men on offer women and couples can pick and choose. Katie's view is that she is meeting guys for casual sex and that she can pick and choose really hot guys. Why would she choose less hot men?
Again supply and demand means that doesn't apply to older women. So the older women saying they have no problems are rather missing the point
That doesn't mean that some women and couples don't want older men, just they will be fewer than when you were younger.
I'm 51 in two months by the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am innocently curious to why the senior couples/ lady's prefer younger buck  20 or so years younger, if it was a male seeking a young lady it would most probably be frowned upon lol and (fingers would be pointing) |
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible
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Im almost 52 no chance im too old to swing just more fussy lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hope not, I'm 50 next year and only just getting into swing of things lol & hubby 51 and he's endless staying power "
Yeah fantastic I must say I find more mature couples sexier too xx |
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"I hope not, I'm 50 next year and only just getting into swing of things lol & hubby 51 and he's endless staying power
Yeah fantastic I must say I find more mature couples sexier too xx"
Age is but a number  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Attention seeking old fart 
We rather like your pics and who gives a toss about age xx look us up x
Well played though we hadn’t noticed you yet and you’re to far away from us lol xx
Hope you have a face mind |
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
The effect on my inbox when I turned 46 was noticeable for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have MF couple I visit on several occasions over the years whenever I over their way - she is 67 and he is 68 and BOTH are two of the horniest people I ever met - not only are they "swingers" but both still meet as singles to - so age is truly just a number OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
50 is perfect age for us x |
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"hi thankyou both for support and comments but it seems to be difficult to find couples at least around cheltenham who seem interested in meeting if your over 50 they have age limits on there profiles, just makes me feel old. i can still play all night so stamina isnt an issue lol"
They're not the couples for you then. Plenty of people like guys in their 50's including me so keep at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol
50 is perfect age for us x"
TAXI for Lincoln Sir ........yes please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol
50 is perfect age for us x
TAXI for Lincoln Sir ........yes please "
You are invited |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not sure I'll ever be to old lol x"
totally agreed - i have used this following old saying a few times to express myself;
"life is for living as your a long time dead"
jon xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not sure I'll ever be to old lol x
totally agreed - i have used this following old saying a few times to express myself;
"life is for living as your a long time dead"
jon xx "
My sentiments exactly x |
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"hi thankyou both for support and comments but it seems to be difficult to find couples at least around cheltenham who seem interested in meeting if your over 50 they have age limits on there profiles, just makes me feel old. i can still play all night so stamina isnt an issue lol"
I sometimes think the same as you, sadly It’s no easier here in Rochdale |
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People saying age isn’t an issue are just being politically correct . The problem particularly applies to men rather than women as it’s a simple fact that in many cases as men get older the mind is very willing but the cock simply isn’t capable of delivering ,whereas there is much less pressure on older women to ‘perform’ once the fun begins . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have MF couple I visit on several occasions over the years whenever I over their way - she is 67 and he is 68 and BOTH are two of the horniest people I ever met - not only are they "swingers" but both still meet as singles to - so age is truly just a number OP "
 the age it's not about the age it's more subjective to attractiveness |
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We're over 50, but certainly don't look it, and we always turn heads when we are out.
We get a buzz out of still being sexy. It's our Saturday ego boost to get dressed up and go out to to a busy city centre pub/club and attract flirting and admiring glances from people in their 30s, 40s and 50s
Take care of yourself, take pride in yourself and have confidence and you'll still have mileage. |
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"People saying age isn’t an issue are just being politically correct . The problem particularly applies to men rather than women as it’s a simple fact that in many cases as men get older the mind is very willing but the cock simply isn’t capable of delivering ,whereas there is much less pressure on older women to ‘perform’ once the fun begins ."
Can't say I entirely agree with this.
Firstly, there are aids to your first point.
Secondly, I think mature women are way, way more switched on and sexy. They know what they like and how to get it. They have confidence and naughtiness in spades.
I don't see any need for 'political correctness'. Age isn't an issue in my book (yet). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
Believe me mate, there’s a few on here that are 70 good luck in your search but just remember you’re a single man and there’s thousands of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People saying age isn’t an issue are just being politically correct . The problem particularly applies to men rather than women as it’s a simple fact that in many cases as men get older the mind is very willing but the cock simply isn’t capable of delivering ,whereas there is much less pressure on older women to ‘perform’ once the fun begins .
Can't say I entirely agree with this.
Firstly, there are aids to your first point.
Secondly, I think mature women are way, way more switched on and sexy. They know what they like and how to get it. They have confidence and naughtiness in spades.
I don't see any need for 'political correctness'. Age isn't an issue in my book (yet)."
Also, women have to go through the menopause which can drastically reduce sex drive and cause issues with lubrication, so having to keep adding that during play. |
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I really didn't start swinging in earnest until I was 50 and that was a long time ago. Two of my closest mates fell off the perch this week so its has inspired me to go at it while I still can.
Luckily my lady keeps me inspired. Remember you are only as old as the woman you feel.
Aitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We find that hit 50 and blocked. But my fella can get hard stay hard and cum on command.
I find ( my opinion) youngers go floppy as soon as condom comes out. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are a number of issues to swinging as you get older.
1) you will be attractive to fewer people. (it is nature - sex is for procreation primarily and as we age that imperative is gone).
2) you need to adjust your expectations. Do not expect to pull young, fit page3 models. They can have their pick of young, fit, hardbodied men.
3) the killer blow is that so many of the older women are searching for a young replacement for their aged partner who can manage it only infrequently, if at all.
4) when there is a favourable combination of circumstances, however, you may be lucky enough to enjoy a session like I did this afternoon.
All three of us are retired and in our late 60s. We met at their house and spent best part of 2 hours in a wonderful sex session. It made me feel as if I was 58 again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a number of issues to swinging as you get older.
1) you will be attractive to fewer people. (it is nature - sex is for procreation primarily and as we age that imperative is gone).
2) you need to adjust your expectations. Do not expect to pull young, fit page3 models. They can have their pick of young, fit, hardbodied men.
3) the killer blow is that so many of the older women are searching for a young replacement for their aged partner who can manage it only infrequently, if at all.
4) when there is a favourable combination of circumstances, however, you may be lucky enough to enjoy a session like I did this afternoon.
All three of us are retired and in our late 60s. We met at their house and spent best part of 2 hours in a wonderful sex session. It made me feel as if I was 58 again. "
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"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx
I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
Never too old. You look in great shape.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been here for nine months and I think that at 59 I am definitely left on the shelf.
I am sure that there is the right lady or couple out there but it's a bit of a bugger trying to get the planets aligned, find a four leaf clover and get the correct lottery numbers all on the same day 
p.s. Just the winning lottery numbers will suffice please |
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OP I can see where you are coming from
From a female perspective I think actually mature ladies do very well in the swinging scene as porn over the past few years has upped the game for the whole Milf scenario
Men I have to say do find it harder the older they get but that’s down to a few factors
Not as many younger girls compared to younger guys go for mature statistically and also (don’t shoot me for this) women do seem to have the power on here
The attention ladies get on here means they become more demanding what they are looking for .. 6 packs, fitness levels and the like and yes im not counting myself out of it either
And the reason why ? Because we can
BUT ... that may be the case on here but bumping into someone in a club is a different kettle of fish
Many a time someone’s personality has blown me away and when we have exchanged Fab names and I’ve looked at their profile I know if they had messaged me on here I prob wouldn’t have really been interested - that’s being really honest
So don’t worry about it just maybe change the way you try to swing
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