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By *aughtySx OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Wigan Bolton North West |
Anybody live with parents? I'm cramming like 3-4 meets into a weekend as that's the only time I can accom it's so stressful - especially with parents who are unware I dress.
Having to get everything out then run round checking you haven't left a dildo out is tiring 
Currently saving for a mortgage so I can fuck everyday of the week  |
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over a year ago
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Myself and my kids live with my mum as she has poor mobility and ill health and just needs an extra hand since my step-dad passed away.
I do meets when my kids are at School or at their dad's. I don't accommodate so meets are either at theirs or at a hotel.
It's not ideal, and i'm sure it puts a lot of men off meeting me probably, but it is what it is for now.
Just got to do the best you can   |
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By *aughtySx OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Wigan Bolton North West |
"Myself and my kids live with my mum as she has poor mobility and ill health and just needs an extra hand since my step-dad passed away.
I do meets when my kids are at School or at their dad's. I don't accommodate so meets are either at theirs or at a hotel.
It's not ideal, and i'm sure it puts a lot of men off meeting me probably, but it is what it is for now.
Just got to do the best you can "
Hats off to you I couldn't meet wit my mum in she's always out when I meet! Doesn't she ask questions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are the other way around.
Our son his gf and our gson all live with us. Privacy is nearly impossible.
We go to clubs and wkend's away in our van when we want some prime time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Myself and my kids live with my mum as she has poor mobility and ill health and just needs an extra hand since my step-dad passed away.
I do meets when my kids are at School or at their dad's. I don't accommodate so meets are either at theirs or at a hotel.
It's not ideal, and i'm sure it puts a lot of men off meeting me probably, but it is what it is for now.
Just got to do the best you can
Hats off to you I couldn't meet wit my mum in she's always out when I meet! Doesn't she ask questions? "
I never meet at home. I just tell her i'm off out and leg it before she can say anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Myself and my kids live with my mum as she has poor mobility and ill health and just needs an extra hand since my step-dad passed away.
I do meets when my kids are at School or at their dad's. I don't accommodate so meets are either at theirs or at a hotel.
It's not ideal, and i'm sure it puts a lot of men off meeting me probably, but it is what it is for now.
Just got to do the best you can
Hats off to you I couldn't meet wit my mum in she's always out when I meet! Doesn't she ask questions?
I never meet at home. I just tell her i'm off out and leg it before she can say anything else."
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OP I live with my parents. Moved back in with them over 3 years ago to be my mum's full time carer. My dad is in poor health too so I look after both of them.
It can be incredibly frustrating never having any privacy. Sometimes I just want to be on my own!
I plan my meets around my parent's needs. I don't worry too much about how often I meet, quality is more important to me than quantity.
I never say where I am going, I just say i'm going out. I'm a middle aged woman and I refuse to be treated like a teenager despite the fact I live with my parents. I'm there out of choice to look after them and they have to respect that. |
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"My wife and i live with our kids. It's much much worse, they never go out! Count yourself lucky!
We know your pain, our kids are exactly the same"
Hence, in 6 years of swinging, we've managed to swing as a couple, maybe 6 times. |
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"Anybody live with parents? I'm cramming like 3-4 meets into a weekend as that's the only time I can accom it's so stressful - especially with parents who are unware I dress.
Having to get everything out then run round checking you haven't left a dildo out is tiring
Currently saving for a mortgage so I can fuck everyday of the week "
Why have all the stress just have a couple of those meet's at theirs. Surely one day you will be caught if it's not your home as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am the other way round, my lad lives with me (he’s in his 20’s) and hardly ever goes out
Cost of housing round Manchester has made it hard for him to find a place |
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By *aughtySx OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Wigan Bolton North West |
"I am the other way round, my lad lives with me (he’s in his 20’s) and hardly ever goes out
Cost of housing round Manchester has made it hard for him to find a place"
Imagine if he thinks the same haha |
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By *aughtySx OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Wigan Bolton North West |
"Anybody live with parents? I'm cramming like 3-4 meets into a weekend as that's the only time I can accom it's so stressful - especially with parents who are unware I dress.
Having to get everything out then run round checking you haven't left a dildo out is tiring
Currently saving for a mortgage so I can fuck everyday of the week
Why have all the stress just have a couple of those meet's at theirs. Surely one day you will be caught if it's not your home as well."
The sneaking around turns me on, it's just not practical at times |
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"My wife and i live with our kids. It's much much worse, they never go out! Count yourself lucky!"
Haha although never meet at home if I did want to it would be out the question as even when a free weekend they constantly pop back home to get things. Not a lot of privacy being a parent |
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Wonder how many single guys get lambasted if they say they cant accommodate for such a simple reason as living with their parents? In this day and age its probably more common than you'd think!
We've seen a few profiles saying that if you cant accommodate then you must be cheating. Nice generalisation!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live at home, did my undergrad and discovered fab halfway through and that was fine as I lived in a flat with my gf at the and she was into this sort of stuff.
We went our separate ways when our degrees ended as she was an EU student, so I moved back home. I worked hard for 6 months and saved for my masters, tried living at home but eventually moved out into a flat of like minded friends as home was stifling. Stayed in that flat for my masters as the rent was pricey, but all the bills were included and I hated dealing with the stress o not knowing what the shared gas, leccy and water ect would be each quarter.
Now I'm doing a part time PhD and working, love it, but can't afford a loan for my own place, and rents are now so high so I'm out priced with my student debt. Basically I work, study and live under my parents, grateful for them letting me live here and turn a room into a mini-office, but good lord I want my own flat again so I can meet more easily. |
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As a single guy who still lives with parents it's pretty much impossible to accommodate unless they are away or somthing but because I'm a single guy and it says I can't accommodate people automatically assume I'm cheating on a wife/gf when clearly I'm not and some of us guys are actually genuine you know and my verifications should prove that
So if I have a meet I tend to either go to theirs or it's a hotel meet may even be a dogging meet too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder how many single guys get lambasted if they say they cant accommodate for such a simple reason as living with their parents? In this day and age its probably more common than you'd think!
We've seen a few profiles saying that if you cant accommodate then you must be cheating. Nice generalisation! "
I find it's hit and miss. Women in their late 20's-30's who are self described as 'career women, driven, and independent' tend to be the most guilty of snubbing guys in this position. I find they tend to be from middle class or well to do families who slid comfortably into a similar career and salary.
I actually find women who are 40+ tend to be the most understanding. Two women told me it is because they have their own kids and nephews/nieces who are in variations of the same situation.
They tend to be more than happy to accom if they can, or sneak to your place when people are out, or have some fun outside, that is if you're their cup of tea and charm them right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single guy who still lives with parents it's pretty much impossible to accommodate unless they are away or somthing but because I'm a single guy and it says I can't accommodate people automatically assume I'm cheating on a wife/gf when clearly I'm not and some of us guys are actually genuine you know and my verifications should prove that
So if I have a meet I tend to either go to theirs or it's a hotel meet may even be a dogging meet too "
I keep mine as I can accommodate, usually, as I often work/study from home and in that situation I can sneak a daytime meet in f someone is free. |
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"Wonder how many single guys get lambasted if they say they cant accommodate for such a simple reason as living with their parents? In this day and age its probably more common than you'd think!
We've seen a few profiles saying that if you cant accommodate then you must be cheating. Nice generalisation!
I find it's hit and miss. Women in their late 20's-30's who are self described as 'career women, driven, and independent' tend to be the most guilty of snubbing guys in this position. I find they tend to be from middle class or well to do families who slid comfortably into a similar career and salary.
I actually find women who are 40+ tend to be the most understanding. Two women told me it is because they have their own kids and nephews/nieces who are in variations of the same situation.
They tend to be more than happy to accom if they can, or sneak to your place when people are out, or have some fun outside, that is if you're their cup of tea and charm them right "
We get it with guys as young as you that many do live with their parents. The red flags start coming up with guys in their forties who can't accommodate. It's not necessarily an issue for us, but there you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have less meets. Quality not quantity surely"
Definitely go for quality over quantity. Time is a precious commodity and I'd rather not waste mine or anyone else's just for the sake of easing the horn for an hour. |
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"Anybody live with parents? I'm cramming like 3-4 meets into a weekend as that's the only time I can accom it's so stressful - especially with parents who are unware I dress.
Having to get everything out then run round checking you haven't left a dildo out is tiring
Currently saving for a mortgage so I can fuck everyday of the week "
Yep i do as well after last relationship failed for me feel for you alot of our generation are going through same and younger ones too xx Hence why i prefer to pay for rooms xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder how many single guys get lambasted if they say they cant accommodate for such a simple reason as living with their parents? In this day and age its probably more common than you'd think!
We've seen a few profiles saying that if you cant accommodate then you must be cheating. Nice generalisation!
I find it's hit and miss. Women in their late 20's-30's who are self described as 'career women, driven, and independent' tend to be the most guilty of snubbing guys in this position. I find they tend to be from middle class or well to do families who slid comfortably into a similar career and salary.
I actually find women who are 40+ tend to be the most understanding. Two women told me it is because they have their own kids and nephews/nieces who are in variations of the same situation.
They tend to be more than happy to accom if they can, or sneak to your place when people are out, or have some fun outside, that is if you're their cup of tea and charm them right
We get it with guys as young as you that many do live with their parents. The red flags start coming up with guys in their forties who can't accommodate. It's not necessarily an issue for us, but there you are. "
I agree, not being able to host at that age looks suspicious if anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am the other way round, my lad lives with me (he’s in his 20’s) and hardly ever goes out
Cost of housing round Manchester has made it hard for him to find a place
Imagine if he thinks the same haha "
He doesn’t cos I go out way more than he does, he often has the house to himself, probably why he doesn’t get his own place |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
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I had to when I got back from overseas... American medical care just crippled my finances.... ( always read the small print on insurance 
However, no chance of getting back on the house market nor would I want. So opted for the co habitation which is almost as bad as living with rents.. Makes meets etc tricky but hey life's about adventure right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wow the resent you people have for having a family is shocking hahaha"
I don't, I have the upmost respect and gratitude for them, but just as I'm sure they wish I could have my own place so they can have more privacy, I want that for the same reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wow the resent you people have for having a family is shocking hahaha"
Not sure where the resentment is? People are just explaining their circumstances and how they work Fab around their homelife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wow the resent you people have for having a family is shocking hahaha
Not sure where the resentment is? People are just explaining their circumstances and how they work Fab around their homelife."
I don’t think anyone was being resentful I enjoy my son living with me. Even if he is a massive cock block at times |
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Recently had to move back in with mother for a pit stop, not only are we housr mates, were room mates and share the bed  which means I get hardly any alone time as brothers are always home or she is! Not even a sneaky play |
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"Recently had to move back in with mother for a pit stop, not only are we housr mates, were room mates and share the bed which means I get hardly any alone time as brothers are always home or she is! Not even a sneaky play "
Ouch :/ try outdoor fun for a bit of relief - if you have a wild streak that is? |
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"Wonder how many single guys get lambasted if they say they cant accommodate for such a simple reason as living with their parents? In this day and age its probably more common than you'd think!
We've seen a few profiles saying that if you cant accommodate then you must be cheating. Nice generalisation!
I find it's hit and miss. Women in their late 20's-30's who are self described as 'career women, driven, and independent' tend to be the most guilty of snubbing guys in this position. I find they tend to be from middle class or well to do families who slid comfortably into a similar career and salary.
I actually find women who are 40+ tend to be the most understanding. Two women told me it is because they have their own kids and nephews/nieces who are in variations of the same situation.
They tend to be more than happy to accom if they can, or sneak to your place when people are out, or have some fun outside, that is if you're their cup of tea and charm them right
We get it with guys as young as you that many do live with their parents. The red flags start coming up with guys in their forties who can't accommodate. It's not necessarily an issue for us, but there you are.
I agree, not being able to host at that age looks suspicious if anything. "
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People may be in a situation that they can't avoid and need to move in with friends or family. I had my own place but had to get rid of it to become a carer for a relative. It's just unfortunate that some folk think that Cant Accomodate= cheater |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder how many single guys get lambasted if they say they cant accommodate for such a simple reason as living with their parents? In this day and age its probably more common than you'd think!
We've seen a few profiles saying that if you cant accommodate then you must be cheating. Nice generalisation!
I find it's hit and miss. Women in their late 20's-30's who are self described as 'career women, driven, and independent' tend to be the most guilty of snubbing guys in this position. I find they tend to be from middle class or well to do families who slid comfortably into a similar career and salary.
I actually find women who are 40+ tend to be the most understanding. Two women told me it is because they have their own kids and nephews/nieces who are in variations of the same situation.
They tend to be more than happy to accom if they can, or sneak to your place when people are out, or have some fun outside, that is if you're their cup of tea and charm them right
We get it with guys as young as you that many do live with their parents. The red flags start coming up with guys in their forties who can't accommodate. It's not necessarily an issue for us, but there you are.
I agree, not being able to host at that age looks suspicious if anything. .
People may be in a situation that they can't avoid and need to move in with friends or family. I had my own place but had to get rid of it to become a carer for a relative. It's just unfortunate that some folk think that Cant Accomodate= cheater"
It is unfortunate. However generally speaking at 40 most people will have their own place, or be renting from the council or privately. Unless somene puts it in their profile eg, house share, caring, most would presume any man or woman with their own place would like to host. |
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I've found myself living at home again after my dad died. Whilst my mum has no problem with me going out or dating, she has concerns about me meeting people from the Internet. Unfortunately there are some on here who simply don't understand that I have to take my mum's concerns into consideration when meeting. |
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