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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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"Some say they like the way I come across on the forums or in my profile but mostly it's the way I look.
Is that all we are on here? "
Everybody is different I think. I am all about the connection. I find all shapes, sizes and gender attractive physically but the connection needs to be there before it all fits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't lie I go for looks first in a casual encounter. If they're witty and a good conversationalist then I'm happy. I'm incredibly shallow when it comes to casual sex."
Yep. I completely agree with this. I'm not here to make life long friends or to find a partner. I only really want sexy fun with people I find sexually attractive. Part of the sexual attraction is personality based, but much like with food... The first bite is with the eye  |
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"I won't lie I go for looks first in a casual encounter. If they're witty and a good conversationalist then I'm happy. I'm incredibly shallow when it comes to casual sex."
I'd agree - but then essentially casual sex IS shallow! Whether we like to admit it or not it's 'quick fix' sexual satisfaction without the effort of dating/relationships etc! |
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"I won't lie I go for looks first in a casual encounter. If they're witty and a good conversationalist then I'm happy. I'm incredibly shallow when it comes to casual sex.
I'd agree - but then essentially casual sex IS shallow! Whether we like to admit it or not it's 'quick fix' sexual satisfaction without the effort of dating/relationships etc! "
I completely agree and understand that its shallow. I think we fool ourselves if we think it's more and make ourselves potentially vulnerable.
Both of us like to socialise with the people we meet but we're under no illusion about the transient nature of the relationships. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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i've fucked a lot of conventionally attractive guys, some were good fucks, many more were mediocre.
so no it's not about looks for me now, i want really good sex or nothing at all and although it's still nice to perv over guys i more want to feel confident that the guy is gonna fulfil my needs and desires and looks won't come into that.
i think that's maybe shallow also. |
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