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Bi or Cuckold Couple which are you?
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Danny here thinking out loud again....
Back when I was single and meeting cuckold couples the discovery of my bi side through being sucked and rimmed so deliciously well by eager cuckolds opened the door to fun with bi couples too.
Now that I am one half of a bi curious couple we are keen to meet fellow filthy minded couples.
However we are coming up against a couple of twists to the plot. I was wondering if others are in a similar situation?
The first twist is that most of our dealing appear to be with couples into cuckold roleplay. Although I love that individually, my girlfriend needs to be fucked too. So that dynamic doesn't quite work.
The second twist is that I love sucking cock, especially with her, but the Dom in me would never knowingly suck the cock of any guy that enjoys being cuckolded.
Any other bi couples in a similar situation?
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I think the twist for us is we can do both, we enjoy the role play of cuckoldry but can play as a normal bi couple also.
Not something we thought we would as we found or started our bi journey through cuckoldry but found that was just a kink for us, not a full time status if you will x |
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I would say don't worry about roles. If it feels good, do it. "
Interesting point. I think I got so immersed into my role as a Dom Bull when single its difficult for me to switch if you see what I mean. At this point I'm not sure that I am able, but I will try to keep an open mind. |
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I think the twist for us is we can do both, we enjoy the role play of cuckoldry but can play as a normal bi couple also.
Not something we thought we would as we found or started our bi journey through cuckoldry but found that was just a kink for us, not a full time status if you will x"
Actually you are one of the couples that got me thinking. I though you guys were a very nice looking couple and I loved the way you sucked my cock at the VA bi party. The thought crossed my mind to give yours a suck too but because you are into cuck play too the Bull in me whispered hell no. Funny how the mind works lol |
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Well we're glad you liked 
I understand your dilemma as you've been a bull for quite a time I'd imagine and suppose it's difficult to get out of that mind set I suppose.
For me it's quite easy I can be sub cuck or I can switch. Whatever floats our boat lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry my phone went abit crazy there not sure what happened! Meant to say... Personally S and I don't understand the whole cuckholding thing it doesn't appeal to us and we are happy being bi without that kind of role play, I understand many people like it so it's a preference on our part A x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As you know op, hubby and I are kind of undefined too...although we have veered down the cuckold route, I think hubby would prefer a situation where we play with a couple. I guess I make that situation a bit difficult as I'm not bi. So we tend not to fit with most couple's way of playing. It's hard isn't it? |
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Sorry my phone went abit crazy there not sure what happened! Meant to say... Personally S and I don't understand the whole cuckolding thing it doesn't appeal to us and we are happy being bi without that kind of role play, I understand many people like it so it's a preference on our part A x"
Its not for everyone but its fascinating. Very much a mental type of sexual adventure which has a lot to do with why I would struggle to be neutral with any couple that I may have cuckolded in the past. If I was to play alone and I was playing with a couple. I would NEVER mix the two. I'm convinced that it would be almost impossible for all parties involved to move in and out of that head space.
From my perspective it might be possible to go from bi to cuck play in MMF fun but not the other way around.
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"As you know op, hubby and I are kind of undefined too...although we have veered down the cuckold route, I think hubby would prefer a situation where we play with a couple. I guess I make that situation a bit difficult as I'm not bi. So we tend not to fit with most couple's way of playing. It's hard isn't it?"
I suppose very few people fit neatly into boxes. With couples like you it would probably be easier as I met you alone. More of a hotwife dynamic as I didn't physically indulge in cuckolding your husband. |
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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago
Leicester |
We are not into Dom / Sub / Cuck play at all .
We both like cock and pussy and obviously love to share our playmates with each other .
You could say Mr Bi is top with other bi guys but does enjoy been fucked by strap on wearing ladies .
When playing with just single guys , we like to be in control of play or dictate what the play will be . After all they have been invited to play with us on our terms |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I would say don't worry about roles. If it feels good, do it.
Interesting point. I think I got so immersed into my role as a Dom Bull when single its difficult for me to switch if you see what I mean. At this point I'm not sure that I am able, but I will try to keep an open mind."
I completely get what you're saying. I'm the same. The dom side of my brain takes over and rules it out. I just need to try harder to manage it. |
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I would say don't worry about roles. If it feels good, do it.
Interesting point. I think I got so immersed into my role as a Dom Bull when single its difficult for me to switch if you see what I mean. At this point I'm not sure that I am able, but I will try to keep an open mind. I completely get what you're saying. I'm the same. The dom side of my brain takes over and rules it out. I just need to try harder to manage it. "
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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago
Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and |
We are firmly in the Active BI couple box it only works for us if everyone plays with everyone the cuckold scene isn't for us. Mrs K is a greedy girl for cock so a limp cock in a cage won't make her happy lol
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Prefer the Stag/Hot wife terminology.
Not to keen on the humiliation aspect that some people associate with cuckoldry. "
I think most people associate humiliation with cuckoldry but it was never that straight forward. When I was single just about every cuck couple that approached me would say that they are interested in the lifestyle but humiliation was not for them.
I always took the time to get to know the couples I would potentially play with and two things tended to stand out.
It was often the case that the cuck was keen to be humiliated but only by his Mrs. My role being to facilitate that or help guide her and bring her dominant sexual side to the surface.
Or if I was to dominate or humiliate the cuck it was within very strict parameters. My role as an experienced Dom Bull was to figure that out. Which by the way was all part of the fun for me.
It's not a million miles away from the dynamic I have with my girlfriend. Sexually she is my sub but within the relationship she is without doubt my equal. She knows i have ultimate respect for her as a person and that allows her to trust and submit to me sexually.
Similarly with the cuck couples i played with in the past. When not "playing" I would treat both partners with respect and made it clear that I respected the dynamics of their relationships.
That I think helped them relax, enjoy the experience and the cuck would feel humiliated in a way that made him horny as f**k and not want to detach my head from my torso lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally get where you are coming from, but it depends on the scenario. I wouldn't want to damage the scene where I was the Bull and pleasure a cuck. I would feel that I was failing in my duty to be a Bull and ruining the scene.
I've actually never tried Bi without the kink but being serviced by cucks has made me realise my Bi side and I do now fantasise about giving as well as receiving. I've just never put myself out there outside a cuckold meeting. |
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I totally get where you are coming from, but it depends on the scenario. I wouldn't want to damage the scene where I was the Bull and pleasure a cuck. I would feel that I was failing in my duty to be a Bull and ruining the scene.
I've actually never tried Bi without the kink but being serviced by cucks has made me realise my Bi side and I do now fantasise about giving as well as receiving. I've just never put myself out there outside a cuckold meeting. "
When I was a single Bull I was perfectly content to only express my bi side only by being sucked and rimmed by cuckolds.
However on one occasion I was playing with a regular bi couple. He wasn't a cuck but loved stroking and sucking my cock. On one occasion I was fucking his wife while she sucked his rather large cock. It was right in front of my face and looked so damn good. I just felt compelled to help her suck it while kissing her. It was one of our horniest experiences together. |
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Wholly a cuck couple here. Sucking and rimming the bull, if so instructed, is definitely an important though not essential part of the excitement for me. But I've only done either in a cuckolding context, and have no interest otherwise in men sexually. Once when playing , a bull did move to suck my cock- which instantly went limp from being rock hard. Just felt wrong. Another advantage of being in a cock cagenwhile playing! |
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By *reokink OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Wholly a cuck couple here. Sucking and rimming the bull, if so instructed, is definitely an important though not essential part of the excitement for me. But I've only done either in a cuckolding context, and have no interest otherwise in men sexually. Once when playing , a bull did move to suck my cock- which instantly went limp from being rock hard. Just felt wrong. Another advantage of being in a cock cagenwhile playing!"
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We've had a similar switch in roles. Sir was very much like you.
So now we are playing with bi couples or mostly sub bi guys. The cuckold scene as you say, isn't a good fit for us as a couple now. |
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