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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Phew, how difficult this can be to arrange! We were looking for 3 genuine males to join me and hubby this Saturday night. Its taken over 80 messages, lots of "love to but cant make it this weekend, happy to meet during the day though" and "keep me in mind for next time" and "can I be added to your friends list now?" No!! Soon learnt that Cannot Accommodate = have a partner who dosent know im on here! So how are we doing, still trying to find one more! Wont give up just yet as there are genuine males around lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Soon learnt that Cannot Accommodate = have a partner who dosent know im on here!...."

Whilst I'm sure this isn't 100% The case for everyone, it does seem to be generally true sadly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I put can't accommodate but that's only until I get to know that person and met a few times.

Sorry you've been let down. Try finding them in a club OP least you know if they are there they are looking. Good luck.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

"Phew, how difficult this can be to arrange! We were looking for 3 genuine males to join me and hubby this Saturday night. Its taken over 80 messages, lots of "love to but cant make it this weekend, happy to meet during the day though" and "keep me in mind for next time" and "can I be added to your friends list now?" No!! Soon learnt that Cannot Accommodate = have a partner who dosent know im on here! So how are we doing, still trying to find one more! Wont give up just yet as there are genuine males around lol"

Must say we have never had problems getting guys for a group meet. There are three golden rules

1 if you say you want a number of men you will be inundated with messages 80% of which will be shot.

2. You have to be prepared to put in time. It will literally take hours to read and respond to messages.

3 three quarters of those invited won't turn up. So invite four times more than you want.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

Oh and there's no point having morals for a scene like this. Many single guys are in fact attached in some way. Adopt a don't ask, don't tell policy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Soon learnt that Cannot Accommodate = have a partner who dosent know im on here!"

Some of us genuinely can't accommodate due to living situations

The advice I've always seen for group meets is overestimate because people will inevitably drop out. Good luck though

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

"Soon learnt that Cannot Accommodate = have a partner who dosent know im on here!

Some of us genuinely can't accommodate due to living situations

The advice I've always seen for group meets is overestimate because people will inevitably drop out. Good luck though

Yep, true in our experience!

....but really why should it be!! 1001 moaning they can't get a meet, then when the opportunity is there, half won't turn up!!

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By *he Happy ManMan over a year ago

Merseyside

I am free Sat night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All men like the idea of gang bang...most have never been naked with other men....some/most may or not get hard and perform, most will be to nervous to manages more than ten minutes,......the performers are already booked as they are genuine and repeatable, we know who we are

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Soon learnt that Cannot Accommodate = have a partner who dosent know im on here!

Some of us genuinely can't accommodate due to living situations

The advice I've always seen for group meets is overestimate because people will inevitably drop out. Good luck though

Yep, true in our experience!

....but really why should it be!! 1001 moaning they can't get a meet, then when the opportunity is there, half won't turn up!!"

1001 moaning they can't get a 1 on 1 meet. Anything more than that means you will get many that think they can handle it but in reality can't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can be done

We have spoken before

I am only an hour away but you won't travel

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

Easiest way to get a mmmmf meet is simply to go to a club - just choose the guys and find a room.

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By *amigos321Couple (MM) over a year ago

leeds

3 genuine guys..enjoy meeting couples. .hot wives..a quick look on our photos. .verifications would be enough. .tells the story.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It can be done

We have spoken before

I am only an hour away but you won't travel"
you expect them to come to You?

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By *ieandteaseMan over a year ago

Wiltshire

DO you care if they're attached if you want them for a 4 guy gangbang?

I agree that most won't get it up though the biggest cock will. The others will wilt in his presence until he shoots so fuck him first with them watching.

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

if you think that is difficult try arranging ffffm i guess most men have reduce themselves to a number.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wish there was a couple like you in Wales

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple over a year ago

Old Hill

Much easier to sort in a club on a greedy girls night. Just turn up, pick your fellas and find a room (or leave the door open?)

Why do all that messaging?

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

Ive found it difficult enough meeting one person. Arranging a group is always going to be a nightmare

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

3 genuine guys..enjoy meeting couples. .hot wives..a quick look on our photos. .verifications would be enough. .tells the story. "
exactly this, there are a few mm profiles popping up with guys who play together regularly, they may also know others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its taken over 80 messages, lots of "love to but cant make it this weekend, happy to meet during the day though" and "keep me in mind for next time" "

Many people aren’t available at the drop of the hat, work, family, friends, everyday life....

"Soon learnt that Cannot Accommodate = have a partner who dosent know im on here! "

Not necessarily true! I am a single dad, children live with me. I can only accom IF I am free in the day, and when they have contact with their mother.

Lots of people can’t accom for several reasons, and yes I understand your point, unfortunately there are a number of people who can’t because they really can’t unless they are looking for a constructive way to get a divorce, however not everyone is that way. Talk to people and find out why they can’t accom if you’re that interested, they may give you BS answers but that’s their issue.

"Wont give up just yet as there are genuine males around lol"

Plenty of us floating around. Be patient, a lot of men here actually make an effort and want to enjoy the company of others for more than just a quick “thrust thrust squirt” for their own satisfaction.

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By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

I thought there might be a few guys that work together to help women or couples to have mmmmfs .cos 3 single guys that don't know each other might not work but enjoy yourself guys .

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By *antheman90Man over a year ago

london

I'm up for this i don't mind showing up some strangers haha

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By *antheman90Man over a year ago

london

I can accommodate and I'm in

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

As others have said, head to a club on a mixed night. There are guys there, just chat to a few and away you go...

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By *ampolCouple over a year ago

Stevenage

We was hoping to do this again as we have done it before, a while ago but now we remember how hard it was, but still be good give it another go.. hopefully we will be lucky.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I thought there might be a few guys that work together to help women or couples to have mmmmfs .cos 3 single guys that don't know each other might not work but enjoy yourself guys . "
exactly this

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By *heeseandWineCouple over a year ago

Berkshire and Hampshire

"As others have said, head to a club on a mixed night. There are guys there, just chat to a few and away you go..."
This works for us too

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By *insbury Park FabberMan over a year ago

London

Oh dear! Well, if you're ever down in London, I could certainly fix that up in a lot fewer than 80 messages!!

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