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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
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God that's a depressing thought. Thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
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Wish I was that lucky as a female. Still looking. |
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
Mrs"
And for every couple on fab, the guy of that couple is confronted with hundreds of cocks per day  That's a lot of cock... |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
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10:1 ratio is very optimistic for us single men. I wish!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
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Hopefully the married women will have sex with 11 men or her other half is going to feel left out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That sounds about right if I remember a forum experiment to find out a while back. That only considered verified profiles though so the actual ratio could be even higher."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
Mrs
Hopefully the married women will have sex with 11 men or her other half is going to feel left out."
Oh bollocks, the mathematicians are involved now |
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It's actually harder because some of the time the woman would be having sex with the men from other couples, and single ladies playing with couples. So.they'd actually have to have even more sex to fit them in..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I'm guessing there are very few women and couples that have the time or inclination (but good on those who do) to fuck 10 different men in a year. As a result it is mathematically impossible for all men to get sex via Fab. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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"it's impossible coz some guys are just repulsive and nobody is ever gonna meet them for that reason.
*waves*  "
lol, i didn't name any names. but some guys are never gonna get a meet for reasons and not just that there aren't enough women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I read somewhere that the true ratio is about 100 males to every single girl!  "
Yes I think you might be correct if you take couples out of the equation. |
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It would be interesting to have the actual statistics from the Fab boffins themselves.
It's definitely a ladies market but can only guess the actual ratio. A girl from fab says she'll get over a 100 messages a day. I'll get one if I'm very lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I read somewhere that the true ratio is about 100 males to every single girl!
Yes I think you might be correct if you take couples out of the equation. "
So that's why it's taking so long to meet someone. The odds aren't good ??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Then you need to add to the equation those that are genuine. Most women we have arranged to meet cancel on the 11th hour, do single men do the same to such a degree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
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You lost me at "1 meet that leads to sex in one year"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
Mrs
You lost me at "1 meet that leads to sex in one year" "
Well some men will have zero meets. Some will have 20 different meets. Others somewhere in between. But I was working out mathematically if all men were to have a equal number of different meets in a set period of time, then Fab females would have 10 times the amount. So my conclusion is that it is mathematically impossible for all men to get a meet based on those ratios. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"However, my guess is that for men genuinely interested in couples versus couples wanting a single guy, the ratio is about 1:1.
That cant be right surely."
It's a wild guess based on our experience of Fab, that very few men genuinely want a couple (although many say they do and we don't believe them). Certainly we feel we are on an equal playing field when it comes to looking for a single guy. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Ignoting my hiatus ive been on here 3 years. Ive met 4 different ladies in that time. Also ignoring a social event i went to where i met like 30 odd people. If the ratios being talked about are accurate i actually feel quite pleased about those numbers! |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"However, my guess is that for men genuinely interested in couples versus couples wanting a single guy, the ratio is about 1:1.
That cant be right surely.
It's a wild guess based on our experience of Fab, that very few men genuinely want a couple (although many say they do and we don't believe them). Certainly we feel we are on an equal playing field when it comes to looking for a single guy. "
Yeah i see where your going with this actually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ignoting my hiatus ive been on here 3 years. Ive met 4 different ladies in that time. Also ignoring a social event i went to where i met like 30 odd people. If the ratios being talked about are accurate i actually feel quite pleased about those numbers!"
Well that's the other thing I've noticed - some guys seem to have the monopoly of fun thus increasing the ratio even more. |
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"10 men in a year you say? Christ I'm doing something wrong here!  "
I'd be worried if I only had 10 in a year....but would that mean I'd be one of over a hundred men between them?
Or is that messing with the maths again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
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Only ten in a year?
I'm surprised it's not easier for guy to get meets then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
Mrs"
Sorry but someone is going to have to do my quota. Very rare I find the men in here hot enough to meet. I'll balls up your figures by sticking to the ladies. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"However, my guess is that for men genuinely interested in couples versus couples wanting a single guy, the ratio is about 1:1. "
So men, just start to genuinely want to meet couples and don't waste time with women and hey presto! You'll get sex. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"It would be like real life, some men will be getting lots and some men won't be getting any. The more effort you put in the more luck you'll get. Just saying. "
Agreed. Persevere and put in enough worthwhile effort and the rewards may be there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"However, my guess is that for men genuinely interested in couples versus couples wanting a single guy, the ratio is about 1:1.
So men, just start to genuinely want to meet couples and don't waste time with women and hey presto! You'll get sex. "
No the most of men we meet also meet single ladies. They like both. But it's our belief that the majority of men will meet a couple and put up with the husband being there if that's what it takes to get sex. We only meet guys who genuinely want us as a couple and I believe the ratio for men to couples interested in that dynamic is about 1:1. |
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"However, my guess is that for men genuinely interested in couples versus couples wanting a single guy, the ratio is about 1:1.
So men, just start to genuinely want to meet couples and don't waste time with women and hey presto! You'll get sex.
No the most of men we meet also meet single ladies. They like both. But it's our belief that the majority of men will meet a couple and put up with the husband being there if that's what it takes to get sex. We only meet guys who genuinely want us as a couple and I believe the ratio for men to couples interested in that dynamic is about 1:1."
Yes, loads of couples want single guys who 'get it'. We look for single guys too, but would struggle seeing the wood for the trees just by trawling profiles. We have opted for clubs as the solution, and have friends who have concluded the same. Even then it can be tricky. A half decent guy, who knows how to interact will do just fine there. |
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By *eliWoman
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"So men, just start to genuinely want to meet couples and don't waste time with women and hey presto! You'll get sex.
No the most of men we meet also meet single ladies. They like both. But it's our belief that the majority of men will meet a couple and put up with the husband being there if that's what it takes to get sex. We only meet guys who genuinely want us as a couple and I believe the ratio for men to couples interested in that dynamic is about 1:1."
Yes, I get what your belief is.
Your last sentence is exactly what I expanded on - the ratios are far better if you want to meet couples and do...
A few times now you've posted about there being far less chance of a man meeting a woman than a man who is 'genuinely' wanting to meet a couple doing so. Going back to your OP, what is it that you're hoping to be discussed or brought up? Not meant in a sarky way, just genuinely curious (clarifying my intent before someone does so for me!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say there are 10 single men for every female (whether single or part of a couple) on Fab. So, for every single guy on Fab to have 1 meet that leads to sex in one year, each female on Fab would need to have sex with 10 men in a year. Discuss.
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That's me deleting my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you pay attention to the Verifications you will notice that it's the same 10 men that are getting all the sex!!!!
I am all for sharing, but there are a few people on here who's DNA I will not be wanting to share |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So men, just start to genuinely want to meet couples and don't waste time with women and hey presto! You'll get sex.
No the most of men we meet also meet single ladies. They like both. But it's our belief that the majority of men will meet a couple and put up with the husband being there if that's what it takes to get sex. We only meet guys who genuinely want us as a couple and I believe the ratio for men to couples interested in that dynamic is about 1:1.
Yes, I get what your belief is.
Your last sentence is exactly what I expanded on - the ratios are far better if you want to meet couples and do...
A few times now you've posted about there being far less chance of a man meeting a woman than a man who is 'genuinely' wanting to meet a couple doing so. Going back to your OP, what is it that you're hoping to be discussed or brought up? Not meant in a sarky way, just genuinely curious (clarifying my intent before someone does so for me!)."
I don't really know what I wanted from this thread in all honesty. I was in the mood for a discussion last night so decided to discuss ratios. |
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"However, my guess is that for men genuinely interested in couples versus couples wanting a single guy, the ratio is about 1:1.
So men, just start to genuinely want to meet couples and don't waste time with women and hey presto! You'll get sex.
No the most of men we meet also meet single ladies. They like both. But it's our belief that the majority of men will meet a couple and put up with the husband being there if that's what it takes to get sex. We only meet guys who genuinely want us as a couple and I believe the ratio for men to couples interested in that dynamic is about 1:1."
I'd never meet a couple and just put up with the guy just so i can get sex(No that desperate). If i don't generally get on with the guy even a likkle more so then the woman i won't meet them as if i think he doesn't really want me there or we don't really get along then the experience is tainted to me  I meet single women just as much. Thing that stops me meeting couples as much is the guys who sometimes go funny on me,maybe a bit of jealousy. I don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"However, my guess is that for men genuinely interested in couples versus couples wanting a single guy, the ratio is about 1:1.
So men, just start to genuinely want to meet couples and don't waste time with women and hey presto! You'll get sex.
No the most of men we meet also meet single ladies. They like both. But it's our belief that the majority of men will meet a couple and put up with the husband being there if that's what it takes to get sex. We only meet guys who genuinely want us as a couple and I believe the ratio for men to couples interested in that dynamic is about 1:1.
I'd never meet a couple and just put up with the guy just so i can get sex(No that desperate). If i don't generally get on with the guy even a likkle more so then the woman i won't meet them as if i think he doesn't really want me there or we don't really get along then the experience is tainted to me I meet single women just as much. Thing that stops me meeting couples as much is the guys who sometimes go funny on me,maybe a bit of jealousy. I don't know. "
I don't necessarily see it as desperate, although it probably often is. A few situations haven't sat comfortably with us, in that the guy liked me, but probably wasn't particularly interested in the threeway dynamic. Not desperate, but maybe the fact that they liked me a lot overrided the fact that what we were offering wasn't what they really wanted. Mr doesn't get jealous, neither do I with him. But he does get twitchy if he feels excluded in any way, which is why we have a bee in our bonnets about guys that don't really want us as a couple. But I digress.
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