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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the opening post shocks me - no manners, no imagination, no respect and gives me a very unappealing first impression of the person ......
the post from a kinky male with own home etc wanting to perform oral is not my kind of play interest but at least there is a hint of manners and imagination and a little bit of respect shown - m x |
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By *hyone74Man
over a year ago
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"the opening post shocks me - no manners, no imagination, no respect and gives me a very unappealing first impression of the person ......
the post from a kinky male with own home etc wanting to perform oral is not my kind of play interest but at least there is a hint of manners and imagination and a little bit of respect shown - m x"
agree with
Manners and respect cost nothing |
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"the opening post shocks me - no manners, no imagination, no respect and gives me a very unappealing first impression of the person ...... "
The sense of entitlement is staggering. I don't know what's worse - that, or the complete lack of insight as to why 'sluts' might not be beating a path to his door ?  |
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"the opening post shocks me - no manners, no imagination, no respect and gives me a very unappealing first impression of the person ......
the post from a kinky male with own home etc wanting to perform oral is not my kind of play interest but at least there is a hint of manners and imagination and a little bit of respect shown - m x"
As a mature man I hope that I would be able to show interest in a ladies needs and wants. There are all sorts of things I would love to do sexually, but I don't want to impose them on others. If we have an open discussion and agree our interests coincide then have a social meeting to see if we click. I wouldn't call any lady words like slut unless she was somebody that like being called that. Just because a woman is on this site doesn't mean she should not be treated with respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the opening post shocks me - no manners, no imagination, no respect and gives me a very unappealing first impression of the person ......
The sense of entitlement is staggering. I don't know what's worse - that, or the complete lack of insight as to why 'sluts' might not be beating a path to his door ? "
Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there's people for everyone... But they don't fall at your door.
Maybe it's something Amazon could do....."
...or a naughty version of Just Eat  |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
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"the opening post shocks me - no manners, no imagination, no respect and gives me a very unappealing first impression of the person ......
the post from a kinky male with own home etc wanting to perform oral is not my kind of play interest but at least there is a hint of manners and imagination and a little bit of respect shown - m x"
totally agree. What some ppl expect. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbf to the OP you ladies dont see the update pages that men see looking for women .Theres a lot of women using the slut word has part of their name or wanting to offer services has one.
Still think the OP is wrong to use 'slut' but you cant please everyone here. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Tbf to the OP you ladies dont see the update pages that men see looking for women .Theres a lot of women using the slut word has part of their name or wanting to offer services has one.
Still think the OP is wrong to use 'slut' but you cant please everyone here. "
This
I personally don't refer to women as sluts; but..... some people fail to realise that there are lots of women on Fabs who use that label and like to be referred to as such. |
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"Entitlement personified.
What happened to conversation and respect?
OP claims he is looking for a sub. I think he may have confused "sub" with "doormat"."
Agreed...
Also shows how new he is to the scene by the display of ignorance in the post.... Those who have lived in a bdsm lifestyle knows its built on respect, trust and communication rather than throwing around derogatory terms in hope |
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"the opening post shocks me - no manners, no imagination, no respect and gives me a very unappealing first impression of the person ......
the post from a kinky male with own home etc wanting to perform oral is not my kind of play interest but at least there is a hint of manners and imagination and a little bit of respect shown - m x"
I agree. |
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"I think he's simply watched 50 shades on tv recently(while his parents were upstairs obviously)
But he's totally missed the point of the younger woman older man relationship
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well said and a great point well made
xx |
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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago
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"I think calling people sluts isnt helping you at all massive insult think you need to get a grip and be mature "
Unfortunately the word slut is used a lot, though many tend to be for "commercial" reasons. |
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"the opening post shocks me - no manners, no imagination, no respect and gives me a very unappealing first impression of the person ......
The sense of entitlement is staggering. I don't know what's worse - that, or the complete lack of insight as to why 'sluts' might not be beating a path to his door ?
Exactly! "
I agree too! |
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I note the OP has started four threads looking for sluts and subs, and yet he never contributes beyond his opening post.
How about putting some effort in? Show that you understand the dom/sub dynamic and how it ultimately derives from mutual respect. Show your potential ladies what you are offering them. Because "I want a young slut" isn't going to get you anywhere. What's in it for said lady? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I note the OP has started four threads looking for sluts and subs, and yet he never contributes beyond his opening post.
How about putting some effort in? Show that you understand the dom/sub dynamic and how it ultimately derives from mutual respect. Show your potential ladies what you are offering them. Because "I want a young slut" isn't going to get you anywhere. What's in it for said lady?"
Yeah, like thats gonna 'appen! |
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OP has no veris, a virtually empty profile and you can bet he's not known in the kink scene either.....his opening gambit is devoid of imagination and respect....and he puts in zero effort.
He would be better off asking himself "why would these younger women who I desire meet me?"
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"Many of the comments have disappeared ?
There are two threads by the same man with the same subject....perhaps the comments you are missing are in the other?"
Think they have shut the other one I commented on |
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"Many of the comments have disappeared ?
There are two threads by the same man with the same subject....perhaps the comments you are missing are in the other?
Think they have shut the other one I commented on "
Yes it looks that way. |
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"There don't seem to be many sluts for older men on this site?"
I can assure you that if you message women the way you do in your opening post then you are putting off a large portion of them.
I am amazed you thought this was the best way to open a thread.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There don't seem to be many sluts for older men on this site?
I can assure you that if you message women the way you do in your opening post then you are putting off a large portion of them.
I am amazed you thought this was the best way to open a thread.
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He's probably reduced his chances dramatically and added to many people's block lists! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think he's simply watched 50 shades on tv recently(while his parents were upstairs obviously)
But he's totally missed the point of the younger woman older man relationship
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Fuck me, are you talking Psycho style (Alfred Hitchcock)?  . Cue music  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbf to the OP you ladies dont see the update pages that men see looking for women .Theres a lot of women using the slut word has part of their name or wanting to offer services has one.
Still think the OP is wrong to use 'slut' but you cant please everyone here. "
A woman can own the term slut as she wishes. A man should assess whether he can call a woman that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just shows how ignorant and lazy he is , he has not even attempted to try to answer any of his messages , or maybe he has gone into the real world instead of the forumn world , to try to look for some , or found a better site for sluts and older men lol |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
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"There don't seem to be many sluts for older men on this site?"
theres avery good chance we could meet in a club. North west. Wonder if youll call my mrs a slut then. That wouldbe interesting.
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"I think he's simply watched 50 shades on tv recently(while his parents were upstairs obviously)
But he's totally missed the point of the younger woman older man relationship
Fuck me, are you talking Psycho style (Alfred Hitchcock)? . Cue music "
Is the "fuck me" part of your comment a request ? 
I suppose I could, especially as you asked so nicely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think he's simply watched 50 shades on tv recently(while his parents were upstairs obviously)
But he's totally missed the point of the younger woman older man relationship
Fuck me, are you talking Psycho style (Alfred Hitchcock)? . Cue music
Is the "fuck me" part of your comment a request ?
I suppose I could, especially as you asked so nicely "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some very high horses in here! It's an obvious ploy to fish for one profile saying my Mrs likes older men.
Yet the opening of a can of worms for direction my Dr Knowis upon us!
Sluts, it's a word, so many people get offended by words I never quite comprehend it. Someone calls me a cunt so what? Will that brand me, I'll be forever a cunt? No
He's probably got one meet out of the post. A lot more have twisted under garments, whose done worse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op most of the so called sluts male or female will leave you dissapointed on this site as they have exacting standards and won't fuck just anyone no Matter what their profile says and that's the reality of it |
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"Tbf to the OP you ladies dont see the update pages that men see looking for women .Theres a lot of women using the slut word has part of their name or wanting to offer services has one.
Still think the OP is wrong to use 'slut' but you cant please everyone here. "
You're right, I recently saw a friend of mine's local female updates and they were mostly foul and crude.
It made me realise why some men think it's ok to be that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest the few and far between 'younger' girls I have messaged on this site have come across rather dull.
Personally the hottest ones I have found have been 40+
Maybe just me but I like something a little more than a wet hole to be honest and maturity seems to bring that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well,
I always try to be respectful and courteous when addressing anyone. I would never begin with a word like that and expect a positive response. That being said, the 500 to 1 ratio is going to be this guys biggest huddle...
Cheers |
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"There don't seem to be many sluts for older men on this site?"
I've met older guys.
Like older guys that look after them selves.
Not really into fat/huge bellys (don't mind a wee beer-belly),bad b.o etc.
Like a guy that makes an effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest the few and far between 'younger' girls I have messaged on this site have come across rather dull.
Personally the hottest ones I have found have been 40+
Maybe just me but I like something a little more than a wet hole to be honest and maturity seems to bring that.
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40+ is still pretty young to the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest the few and far between 'younger' girls I have messaged on this site have come across rather dull.
Personally the hottest ones I have found have been 40+
Maybe just me but I like something a little more than a wet hole to be honest and maturity seems to bring that.
40+ is still pretty young to the OP"
On paper yes you're right. I've always said though that you're as old as you feel, so I guess it all depends on what one deems as being young.
Sluts as a term could be seen quite ambiguous as well here I guess. So it all depends how you see things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've only ever met one lady who was older than me on the site.
The rest have been between 15 and 35 years younger..."
Almost read this as being between 15 and 35 years old for a minute  
To me maturity is entirely how one presents themselves over any exterior indicators. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a wee word of advice.... the use of the word sluts will not impress the ladies.
Absolutely right"
Not impress some of the ladies here. Some ladies enjoy it as much as some like to present them selves as classy. You know, each to there own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a wee word of advice.... the use of the word sluts will not impress the ladies.
Absolutely right
Not impress some of the ladies here. Some ladies enjoy it as much as some like to present them selves as classy. You know, each to there own. "
In that case then we can expect the OP to be inundated! |
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Not impress some of the ladies here. Some ladies enjoy it as much as some like to present them selves as classy. You know, each to there own. "
I know plenty of people who self-identify as a "slut"....I recently attended a party called "Slut Day"....but presuming to call them that without knowing them is an instant invitation to be blocked.
I note that the OP still has no veris and has still not deigned to respond to any of the replies to any of his threads. Fab is like a sewer....what you get out of it depends on what you put into it. Success in the swinging world requires effort.
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By *snyouCouple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
Swinging does require effort. That's why a lot of single guys fail with us.
We often get a message that just says "hey"
Well if you are that lazy in your first message we would hate to think of the effort that you put in during sex :0) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a wee word of advice.... the use of the word sluts will not impress the ladies.
Absolutely right
Not impress some of the ladies here. Some ladies enjoy it as much as some like to present them selves as classy. You know, each to there own.
In that case then we can expect the OP to be inundated! "
I doubt it, the op is male. |
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"Some very high horses in here! It's an obvious ploy to fish for one profile saying my Mrs likes older men.
Yet the opening of a can of worms for direction my Dr Knowis upon us!
Sluts, it's a word, so many people get offended by words I never quite comprehend it. Someone calls me a cunt so what? Will that brand me, I'll be forever a cunt? No
He's probably got one meet out of the post. A lot more have twisted under garments, whose done worse "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think he's simply watched 50 shades on tv recently(while his parents were upstairs obviously)
But he's totally missed the point of the younger woman older man relationship
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Christian is only 6 years older than Anna. Hardly "older" in the same sense. |
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Treat people with respect.One can be naughty in the bedroom but doesn't mean you open with an opening insult by shouting spit from the rooftop.Show a little bit of cop on.honestly it still surprises me every day how ignorant people can be in this site.Its like this have no filter to their brain and just shout out the first thing.would you approach someone in a pub and state are you a slut...i doubt it very much,and if you are doing that then it's little wonder your having no joy in finding anyone.Sometimes think before you engage the brain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Name calling in agreed circumstances , Whilst not for me, I can understand .
Opening your contact with calling people a slut I just dont understand. If you wouldn't say it to someone in the street or the shop etc dont do it here! |
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There are loads of ladies on here who tag themselves sluts, cumdumps or other similar terms.
They liked to be used and degraded aswell. One trawl through the latest pics can bring up pics with degrading text all over them.
It's not something I am interested in...sex should be mutually respectful...but if that is what the OP wants, then there are lots of ladies who would be happy to be labelled as such and know to whom he is talking.
He is not calling all ladies sluts...or am I just hoping so?
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"Name calling in agreed circumstances , Whilst not for me, I can understand .
Opening your contact with calling people a slut I just dont understand. If you wouldn't say it to someone in the street or the shop etc dont do it here!"
I know a lot of people who self identify as "slut" but would be horrified if someone who does not know them used that word.
In my opinion the OP needs to put in a lot more effort...get out there into socials, clubs, become a part of the scene and get to know people. Then you may find some ladies who are happy to be referred to as "slut" and who share your interests. Writing a profile would be a good start too. |
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By *taffswenchCouple
over a year ago
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"How on earth have you managed to get to 64 and not realise women don't really like being called sluts.
This!! "
Well I've personally met lots of women who do like to be called it. But it's all about context.. Talking dirty in the heat of the moment.
It's never by a total stranger randomly calling someone a slut.
Completely different thing all together. |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
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"How on earth have you managed to get to 64 and not realise women don't really like being called sluts.
This!!
Well I've personally met lots of women who do like to be called it. But it's all about context.. Talking dirty in the heat of the moment.
It's never by a total stranger randomly calling someone a slut.
Completely different thing all together. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh brutally honest and this is just my own opinion but using the term slut makes you seem arrogant disrespectful egotistical and above all a twat sure some women use the word in there name but that doesn't mean they all want to be called that my advice would be to go find some manners stop talking like your above everyone and while we are here leave that attitude at the door dont bring it in here |
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By *taffswenchCouple
over a year ago
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"There don't seem to be many sluts for older men on this site?theres avery good chance we could meet in a club. North west. Wonder if youll call my mrs a slut then. That wouldbe interesting. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There don't seem to be many sluts for older men on this site?theres avery good chance we could meet in a club. North west. Wonder if youll call my mrs a slut then. That wouldbe interesting.
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tbh if i was female after seeing this post i would stay clear of the op |
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"How on earth have you managed to get to 64 and not realise women don't really like being called sluts. "
Please give me a break.if op was female.the outcry will be minimal.many females and couples use the word slut.personally I hate profanity.I don't debase women. I can guarantee you some women enjoy been call slut in the bedroom during sex.
To proof my point. type slut on fab search engine.the word slut is mostly common on women profile verification and handle.i presume too many puritan women on fab.Op may be daft.because this a volatile subject to post. |
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"How on earth have you managed to get to 64 and not realise women don't really like being called sluts.
Please give me a break.if op was female.the outcry will be minimal.many females and couples use the word slut.personally I hate profanity.I don't debase women. I can guarantee you some women enjoy been call slut in the bedroom during sex.
To proof my point. type slut on fab search engine.the word slut is mostly common on women profile verification and handle.i presume too many puritan women on fab.Op may be daft.because this a volatile subject to post."
Give us a break....
I know many people who self identify as "slut". About 60 of us organised and attended a sex/kink party called "slut day" a couple of months ago.
But call any of those people "slut" without getting to know them and you will get nowhere. |
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"Badly worded perhaps,but I sense the OP has got the reaction he wanted..
One or two 'sluts' may even have contacted him,despite lots of protest.."
lets just hope he held his breath while waiting lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a wee word of advice.... the use of the word sluts will not impress the ladies.
Some. You'd be surprised. "
Lots actually, but time and a place and all that. |
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By *mynclMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"What’s a Slut???
Gosh you don’t know...
They are a source of non domestic energy that make life so much fun. Me there is so much respect."
I must find one of those, might have a few less teeth trying to |
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