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"This is my opinion but do you think more marriages would be saved of they swang? Especially those marriages that are having problems in the bedroom. "No, I don't think swinging is the answer to failing relationships, introducing a 3rd/4th party into a relationship I think will cause problems than it would save. Ginger | |||
Maybe communication is the key...
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your all probably right. I guess I need to think that one over. But do you think swinging does help relationships though? | |||
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OP is this autobiographical...
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" your all probably right. I guess I need to think that one over. But do you think swinging does help relationships though? "No. Swinging is just fun. It doesn't fix damaged relationships. More likely to kill them off. | |||
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"This is my opinion but do you think more marriages would be saved of they swang? Especially those marriages that are having problems in the bedroom. "Burying your head in the sand never resolves anything. Addressing the problem might save it. | |||
"This is my opinion but do you think more marriages would be saved of they swang? Especially those marriages that are having problems in the bedroom. "There are hunderds of threads like this And swinging exposes all th flaws of a relationship, not strengthen it | |||
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"Failing relationships fixed by fucking other people...go figure
Maybe communication is the key...
Make a a change from 42. "...and arguing over the towel.. | |||
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"This is my opinion but do you think more marriages would be saved of they swang? Especially those marriages that are having problems in the bedroom. "I have come across couples doing this at chams ..... And see how nasty it get .. one off them shagging the other not really into it only to get d*unk and go off into one . | |||
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"Absolutely not, swinging is not going to save a marriage or relationship it is going to hasten its demise. To swing as a couple you have to be secure and trustworthy if that is missing then introducing others into the relationship is certainly not going to help. " So swinging as a couple should only be done in a relationship that is already good and not when your trying to save it. | |||
"Absolutely not, swinging is not going to save a marriage or relationship it is going to hasten its demise. To swing as a couple you have to be secure and trustworthy if that is missing then introducing others into the relationship is certainly not going to help. So swinging as a couple should only be done in a relationship that is already good and not when your trying to save it. " In my opinion it depends. As I said some people will agree to think in order to prevent a partner leaving or because they're so insistent or in some cases aggressive that its easier and safer to do it. Those people are trying to keep their relationship together. Enjoyable swinging where both people revel in seeing their partner embrace their sexuality and respect each other is only possible off the back of a strong relationship. It can't be built from a failing one. Sex won't fix a marriage but it might put a patch on ot temporarily. | |||
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"I agree with others that swinging is not going to save a failing marriage. It could delay the break up or hasten it in some situations. For swinging to work, you need to be in a happy, loving, committed marriage / relationship. It's just a bit of extra fun and a way to do things we can't with just two. We also enjoy the social side and being able to have conversations you probably couldn't elsewhere. Nita " 100% agree with this post. These are exactly our motivations too  | |||
"This is my opinion but do you think more marriages would be saved of they swang? Especially those marriages that are having problems in the bedroom. "Our marriage went down the pan last year, and we tried everything to fix it, but too much had happened, too many bad decisions on both parts were eating at us, causing resentment. We finally hit breaking point and split. I (Mr) went through a grieving process. 16years with my wife was over. You see we love each other to bits, she was, is, and always has been my best friend, but things happened that drove a wedge between us, and we had to get past that. After the week of grieving, it felt like a weight had been lifted. None of the trivial shit that had been holding us down were there, she didn't feel the need to go on the defensive and hide things from me, and I felt no resentment towards her. It was a blank slate. We used the time to rediscover ourselves and each other and now we are stronger than ever. We had spoken about the possibility of swinging in the past, but we were not in a place where we could have the freedom and trust that is needed for swinging. Because we decided to be open and honest with each other, we also decided we needed a change from what we had. So we started swinging. Not because we wanted to fix anything, (we were already stronger before deciding this) but because we both liked the idea, and it sounded fun. The turning point was when the Mrs met up with some old friends of hers, and found out that one of her old male friends were a swinger, they answered a lot of questions, and we decided to try a club, we have not looked back since. The sex, the trust and the freedom to be ourselves around each other is amazing. So can swinging fix a relationship? No, it can't. Can it help improve an existing one? Yes, a million times over. | |||
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"This is my opinion but do you think more marriages would be saved of they swang? Especially those marriages that are having problems in the bedroom. "It may then again it may not, fortunately for us it did save our marriage and its a lot stronger. | |||
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