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I read the verifications here
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By *innamon! OP Woman
over a year ago
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Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .. |
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Well its a swinging site, so if i give someone a good verification its because i would like to boost their chances of meeting others.
How do you know they dont meet again, i dont get or give verifications everytime i see a guy, sometimes i give/get more than one from the same person but thats usually over a period of time not everytime i meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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swinging in my book is all about sharing so i would never consider the notion of wanting to keep a good meet all to ourselves i love the idea that others would get enjoyment from meeting that person too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .."
aint that called dating??? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .."
some people just like one offs..... its the "stranger sex" element that does it for them
some people hope that it helps the person to get other meets....
ooooh.. there could be countless reasons...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought ..
aint that called dating???"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit as a single female I do prefer men who have been verified by others as it makes me feel safer. And if they sing their praises, well that's even better  I think some guys have a tough time trying to get meets so I am happy to verify the ones I have met and enjoyed. The ones I have and didn't have the best of times I stay silent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .."
how do you know they never meet again?
not everyone verifies someone after every time they meet someone
To Me verifications are to show someones genuone, one verifications does that i personally never verify anyone more than once, i see no point
And im sure im not the only one who feels like that
As for sending them onto someone else?!!!
Its a swinging site, we not sending anyone anywhere!
if i meet someone and have a gerat time its got bugger all to do with me who else they meet and i can not stop them meeting others
if you meet someone and have a great time what you doing to do tie him to your bed because you want to keep him?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive been meeting with the same guy regular since october, 1 week i saw him 3 times, in all this time hes done 3 verifications for me.... sometimes you can run out of things to say about someone, lol, also i think if he had verified me everytime i wouldnt display them all.... so whos to say people just dont display them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its more interesting to meet different types of people, not see the same ones too often. Also i have a good idea what a person is like by the verifications they leave for other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question from my simple mind - can a verification with a negative nature be displayed on your profile?"
It's entirely up to the recipient to post them on their profile.
Kind of defeats the purpose to an extent as they could only show the good ones and hide the bad. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question from my simple mind - can a verification with a negative nature be displayed on your profile?
It's entirely up to the recipient to post them on their profile.
Kind of defeats the purpose to an extent as they could only show the good ones and hide the bad. xx"
Well that was my thinking - slight flaw maybe unlike say Ebay where your positive and negative feedback is shown?
I'll not let it keep me awake at night though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question from my simple mind - can a verification with a negative nature be displayed on your profile?
It's entirely up to the recipient to post them on their profile.
Kind of defeats the purpose to an extent as they could only show the good ones and hide the bad. xx
Well that was my thinking - slight flaw maybe unlike say Ebay where your positive and negative feedback is shown?
I'll not let it keep me awake at night though "
Ultimately you read all with a pinch of salt and base it on your own judgement not the veris. xx |
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"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought ..
how do you know they never meet again?
not everyone verifies someone after every time they meet someone
To Me verifications are to show someones genuone, one verifications does that i personally never verify anyone more than once, i see no point
And im sure im not the only one who feels like that
As for sending them onto someone else?!!!
Its a swinging site, we not sending anyone anywhere!
if i meet someone and have a gerat time its got bugger all to do with me who else they meet and i can not stop them meeting others
if you meet someone and have a great time what you doing to do tie him to your bed because you want to keep him?
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exactly what I would have wrote..lol...thank you for saving me from all the typing...I have upset a few guys when they asked for a second verification and I explained that I do not do more than one,even if I have met them countless times,as I see them as a means of saying yes,he is who he says he is and a nice guy... |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
harrow |
"...I have upset a few guys when they asked for a second verification and I explained that I do not do more than one,even if I have met them countless times,as I see them as a means of saying yes,he is who he says he is and a nice guy..."
Agree. Can't see the point of multiple verifications from the same person. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
We meet some couples/singles on a regular basis and have done for a few years in some cases.
But we don't validate them after every meet, so how do you know that people haven't met again?
On occasions we may update one but that's usually only if we have know them over a long period of time.
As for sending them on to others, we have no hold over anyone (nor do we want to) same as they don't over us.
Everyone is here to meet who they want to, when they want to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive had a couple of meets do more than one veri but i only display the latest one. i like the system helps to identify timewasters easier i think although its not fool proof. |
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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago
southampton |
If you verify someone, you're telling others that they are gen and vice versa. It certainly helps guys in particular to find other meets I feel. There's no way I'd try to prevent anyone from seeing someone else! What's the point of that - we're swingers! All for one and one for all! I agree with the comments about multiple verifications from the same person - no point! It just looks like your boasting in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .."
Because this is swinging and not matchdotcom...?
We lay no claim to any of the people we meet-they're free agents and while we like to make friends, we're not looking for an LTR...  |
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