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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Maybe a few more pics and I'm thinking the user name is not the best. Good luck though 
Cheers, am i able to change my name on here? "
Yes you can - just go into Account and the option to change username is there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest your profile is all about what you want and not what you think you can offer a potential meet.
Maybe add some more pics too "
It is
The fact that you have very limited availability wont help either
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"Say you cant travel then in text you can drive travel is not a problem.
More pictures
And change that username
All the best x"
Says cant accom but can travel, thanks fabbers, need to be site supporter to change name, xx |
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"Say you cant travel then in text you can drive travel is not a problem.
More pictures
And change that username
All the best x
Says cant accom but can travel, thanks fabbers, need to be site supporter to change name, xx"
Being only able to meet in the day time severely limits your option. Most people can't meet then because of work. Surely you can get a sitter for an evening? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be honest Ive been on this site a long time on and off! In recent years I've rarely had much interest from others. A few years back people seemed more open minded about single guys. but now they seem more reserved about meeting them. Its only really when ive been to socials or clubs ive made connections with people. |
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"To be honest Ive been on this site a long time on and off! In recent years I've rarely had much interest from others. A few years back people seemed more open minded about single guys. but now they seem more reserved about meeting them. Its only really when ive been to socials or clubs ive made connections with people. "
Yes alot of fake profiles so usualy think im fake but met up with a nice couple and they veried me, worked a little,
Changed the details now not sure if better or not lol, thanks for all the help |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
To be honest OP I think you've made it worse not better - it's still about what you want and not what you think you can offer - you've removed the explanation as to why you can't accommodate so people will now jump to the conclusion that you're playing away.
Still need to change your name too - site supporter is only £5 a month which is almost less than the price of a pint these days |
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"To be honest OP I think you've made it worse not better - it's still about what you want and not what you think you can offer - you've removed the explanation as to why you can't accommodate so people will now jump to the conclusion that you're playing away.
Still need to change your name too - site supporter is only £5 a month which is almost less than the price of a pint these days "
 not right good at this am i, i cant accom as i have children, dont fancy bringing people to my address, yes iv been a site supporter a few times now, and what do you mean by "what i can offer? |
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"I'd be wanting to know why you can't accommodate
You only have one public picture
And I'm not sure what I would get from it because the narrative needs work
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He has children that's why he can't accommodate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good tip for you is dont expect to ever receive a response. Harsh but true ... its just how it is on this site any many others. Unless your in the top ten of guys! |
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"I'd be wanting to know why you can't accommodate
You only have one public picture
And I'm not sure what I would get from it because the narrative needs work
:/
He has children that's why he can't accommodate. "
It doesn't say and while I would ask I know a lot who just move on by.. |
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"A good tip for you is dont expect to ever receive a response. Harsh but true ... its just how it is on this site any many others. Unless your in the top ten of guys! "
So i wont be the only one getting ignored more times than not then?
Should i give it up as a bad job lol  |
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"I'd be wanting to know why you can't accommodate
You only have one public picture
And I'm not sure what I would get from it because the narrative needs work
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He has children that's why he can't
accommodate.
I did state it in my profile but was advised to change it??
It doesn't say and while I would ask I know a lot who just move on by.."
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"I'd be wanting to know why you can't accommodate
You only have one public picture
And I'm not sure what I would get from it because the narrative needs work
:/
He has children that's why he can't accommodate.
It doesn't say and while I would ask I know a lot who just move on by.."
I did state it in my profile bur was advised to change it ?? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No its not just you! Couples and single woman also have similar issues...
I do enjoy it hear dont get me wrong its fun being apart of it. And i have met some fantastic people in times gone by. Just dont beat yourselves up if you dont hear back etc.
Hold on to your power dont let people take it!
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"No its not just you! Couples and single woman also have similar issues...
I do enjoy it hear dont get me wrong its fun being apart of it. And i have met some fantastic people in times gone by. Just dont beat yourselves up if you dont hear back etc.
Hold on to your power dont let people take it!
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Cheers fella heres me thinking its just me ha  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"To be honest OP I think you've made it worse not better - it's still about what you want and not what you think you can offer - you've removed the explanation as to why you can't accommodate so people will now jump to the conclusion that you're playing away.
Still need to change your name too - site supporter is only £5 a month which is almost less than the price of a pint these days
not right good at this am i, i cant accom as i have children, dont fancy bringing people to my address, yes iv been a site supporter a few times now, and what do you mean by "what i can offer?"
Yeah I know the reason from the original blurb you have - would put that back in which will save people thinking the worst.
If you've been a site supporter before then suggest doing it again and changing your name as the one you have isn't great.
By "what you can offer" I mean you need to sell yourself, get some of your personality across, provide some derail about what it is about you that would make people want to meet you rather than just detail what you want |
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"To be honest OP I think you've made it worse not better - it's still about what you want and not what you think you can offer - you've removed the explanation as to why you can't accommodate so people will now jump to the conclusion that you're playing away.
Still need to change your name too - site supporter is only £5 a month which is almost less than the price of a pint these days
not right good at this am i, i cant accom as i have children, dont fancy bringing people to my address, yes iv been a site supporter a few times now, and what do you mean by "what i can offer?
Yeah I know the reason from the original blurb you have - would put that back in which will save people thinking the worst.
If you've been a site supporter before then suggest doing it again and changing your name as the one you have isn't great.
By "what you can offer" I mean you need to sell yourself, get some of your personality across, provide some derail about what it is about you that would make people want to meet you rather than just detail what you want "
Im a boring single dad that works all day and no time to get out and find friends etc lol the reason i joined this site thinking i could get my sex life back, not interested in finding another wife/partner as too much hastle lol and dont want the kids thinking im replacing there mother, dont think all this would go down well lol,
I get what your saying though i need to have a little think and sort the profile out realy, cheers mate |
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I think a version of what you just wrote would be an excellent start. Open, honest and I suspect that the situation would chime with many here
Dont be too downbeat though. A second paragraph about what a nice bloke you are would be good. |
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"I think a version of what you just wrote would be an excellent start. Open, honest and I suspect that the situation would chime with many here
Dont be too downbeat though. A second paragraph about what a nice bloke you are would be good."
Thank you |
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"To be honest OP I think you've made it worse not better - it's still about what you want and not what you think you can offer - you've removed the explanation as to why you can't accommodate so people will now jump to the conclusion that you're playing away.
Still need to change your name too - site supporter is only £5 a month which is almost less than the price of a pint these days
not right good at this am i, i cant accom as i have children, dont fancy bringing people to my address, yes iv been a site supporter a few times now, and what do you mean by "what i can offer?
Yeah I know the reason from the original blurb you have - would put that back in which will save people thinking the worst.
If you've been a site supporter before then suggest doing it again and changing your name as the one you have isn't great.
By "what you can offer" I mean you need to sell yourself, get some of your personality across, provide some derail about what it is about you that would make people want to meet you rather than just detail what you want
Im a boring single dad that works all day and no time to get out and find friends etc lol the reason i joined this site thinking i could get my sex life back, not interested in finding another wife/partner as too much hastle lol and dont want the kids thinking im replacing there mother, dont think all this would go down well lol,
I get what your saying though i need to have a little think and sort the profile out realy, cheers mate "
If you've 'no time to get out' (your words) and can't accommodate how are you going to meet for sex? |
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"To be honest OP I think you've made it worse not better - it's still about what you want and not what you think you can offer - you've removed the explanation as to why you can't accommodate so people will now jump to the conclusion that you're playing away.
Still need to change your name too - site supporter is only £5 a month which is almost less than the price of a pint these days
not right good at this am i, i cant accom as i have children, dont fancy bringing people to my address, yes iv been a site supporter a few times now, and what do you mean by "what i can offer?
Yeah I know the reason from the original blurb you have - would put that back in which will save people thinking the worst.
If you've been a site supporter before then suggest doing it again and changing your name as the one you have isn't great.
By "what you can offer" I mean you need to sell yourself, get some of your personality across, provide some derail about what it is about you that would make people want to meet you rather than just detail what you want
Im a boring single dad that works all day and no time to get out and find friends etc lol the reason i joined this site thinking i could get my sex life back, not interested in finding another wife/partner as too much hastle lol and dont want the kids thinking im replacing there mother, dont think all this would go down well lol,
I get what your saying though i need to have a little think and sort the profile out realy, cheers mate
If you've 'no time to get out' (your words) and can't accommodate how are you going to meet for sex? "
I mean more to the point i cant go out drinking/clubbing etc to have the chance to meet lasses, and in past experience it doesnt always happen,
This is why i joined here in hopes of arranging a meet then i could arrange a sitter, |
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"To be honest OP I think you've made it worse not better - it's still about what you want and not what you think you can offer - you've removed the explanation as to why you can't accommodate so people will now jump to the conclusion that you're playing away.
Still need to change your name too - site supporter is only £5 a month which is almost less than the price of a pint these days
not right good at this am i, i cant accom as i have children, dont fancy bringing people to my address, yes iv been a site supporter a few times now, and what do you mean by "what i can offer?
Yeah I know the reason from the original blurb you have - would put that back in which will save people thinking the worst.
If you've been a site supporter before then suggest doing it again and changing your name as the one you have isn't great.
By "what you can offer" I mean you need to sell yourself, get some of your personality across, provide some derail about what it is about you that would make people want to meet you rather than just detail what you want
Im a boring single dad that works all day and no time to get out and find friends etc lol the reason i joined this site thinking i could get my sex life back, not interested in finding another wife/partner as too much hastle lol and dont want the kids thinking im replacing there mother, dont think all this would go down well lol,
I get what your saying though i need to have a little think and sort the profile out realy, cheers mate
If you've 'no time to get out' (your words) and can't accommodate how are you going to meet for sex?
I mean more to the point i cant go out drinking/clubbing etc to have the chance to meet lasses, and in past experience it doesnt always happen,
This is why i joined here in hopes of arranging a meet then i could arrange a sitter, "
Also if you do manage to communicate with someone on here there seems to be a 'non show' culture here so bear that in mind when arranging sitters. |
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"To be honest OP I think you've made it worse not better - it's still about what you want and not what you think you can offer - you've removed the explanation as to why you can't accommodate so people will now jump to the conclusion that you're playing away.
Still need to change your name too - site supporter is only £5 a month which is almost less than the price of a pint these days
not right good at this am i, i cant accom as i have children, dont fancy bringing people to my address, yes iv been a site supporter a few times now, and what do you mean by "what i can offer?
Yeah I know the reason from the original blurb you have - would put that back in which will save people thinking the worst.
If you've been a site supporter before then suggest doing it again and changing your name as the one you have isn't great.
By "what you can offer" I mean you need to sell yourself, get some of your personality across, provide some derail about what it is about you that would make people want to meet you rather than just detail what you want
Im a boring single dad that works all day and no time to get out and find friends etc lol the reason i joined this site thinking i could get my sex life back, not interested in finding another wife/partner as too much hastle lol and dont want the kids thinking im replacing there mother, dont think all this would go down well lol,
I get what your saying though i need to have a little think and sort the profile out realy, cheers mate
If you've 'no time to get out' (your words) and can't accommodate how are you going to meet for sex?
I mean more to the point i cant go out drinking/clubbing etc to have the chance to meet lasses, and in past experience it doesnt always happen,
This is why i joined here in hopes of arranging a meet then i could arrange a sitter,
Also if you do manage to communicate with someone on here there seems to be a 'non show' culture here so bear that in mind when arranging sitters. "
Yes thank you, had a few already lol x |
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