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How Vanilla do you find Fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How vanilla do you find Fab?
On a scale of 1 to ten:
1 - Very vanilla, it's mainly 1on1 and missionary sex with the lights off.
5 - It's a bit kinky, they might bring a friend along, and a butt plug.
11 - Its Full BDSM, dungeons and those dark arts.
We all enjoy sex in different ways, some need the sensual sex, others need it rough with toys maybe, and some need subspace to enjoy it to their maximum. So I'm asking, what do you see more being requested from profiles or people you've met on Fab?
And what is it you prefer more of? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very vanilla for the most part. Plenty on here that describe themselves as kinky, but then you get talking and find they bought their first beginners butt plug the week before.
I think for many people just being on fab is 'kinky' for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very vanilla for the most part. Plenty on here that describe themselves as kinky, but then you get talking and find they bought their first beginners butt plug the week before.
I think for many people just being on fab is 'kinky' for them."
I agree. Alot talk the talk, but very few mean it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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1. Aside from the swapping partners everything else is tame and rather boring. And the whole concept that 2 single people hook up here is swinging but if the same too hooked up in the pub it wouldn't be..... err ok.
Any time I have had a meet who has realised that I am genuinely kinky they get a bit out of hand thinking that they know what kink is cos they have seen 50 shades |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've found that there's a 50/50 split on vanilla to kinky, but I think that's more to do with selection. If someone msgs stating they're into kink a little chat usually finds their kink is mainly watching bdsm on pornhub!
Sometimes vanilla feels right on a meet, sometimes being cuffed and beaten is needed, I'm easy really 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Probably a 4 or a 5, some really great kinky people on here but have encountered some very narrow minded and occasionally abusive people on here as well.
You would think that perhaps seeing as we are all here looking for some form of casual sex that maybe people would be a little bit more accepting of others and less judgemental of people's kinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably a 4 or a 5, some really great kinky people on here but have encountered some very narrow minded and occasionally abusive people on here as well.
You would think that perhaps seeing as we are all here looking for some form of casual sex that maybe people would be a little bit more accepting of others and less judgemental of people's kinks. "
You would, wouldn't you?
Fear and the sense of things being taboo, stop most people from living their fantasies
This is the UK. We are still ridiculously hung up about sex
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"Probably a 4 or a 5, some really great kinky people on here but have encountered some very narrow minded and occasionally abusive people on here as well.
You would think that perhaps seeing as we are all here looking for some form of casual sex that maybe people would be a little bit more accepting of others and less judgemental of people's kinks. "
Some Fetish sites are even worse tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably a 4 or a 5, some really great kinky people on here but have encountered some very narrow minded and occasionally abusive people on here as well.
You would think that perhaps seeing as we are all here looking for some form of casual sex that maybe people would be a little bit more accepting of others and less judgemental of people's kinks.
Some Fetish sites are even worse tbh"
Very true, I have come across quite a bit of elitist attitudes on fetish site's. Some people just take things way too seriously, I mean this is all supposed to be fun right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From what I have seen on profiles here..
Not really kinky for the most part.. although there does appear to be "some" kinky ones as well.
I don't really put a threesome, foursome or wife watching far up the kinky scale |
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"1. Aside from the swapping partners everything else is tame and rather boring. And the whole concept that 2 single people hook up here is swinging but if the same too hooked up in the pub it wouldn't be..... err ok.
Any time I have had a meet who has realised that I am genuinely kinky they get a bit out of hand thinking that they know what kink is cos they have seen 50 shades"
I honestly don't understand how two single people hooking up can ever be considered swinging. |
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So it does depend on a person's view of kinky doesn't it. For instance if a threesome or a foursome isn't considered kinky does it become kinky if you start wanting DP and DVP? Or is that still pretty vanilla. I don't consider myself kinky in the dom/sub kinda way at all but I do enjoy having awesome and fun sex. (Female posting)
P.S. Is pegging considered kinky? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1. Aside from the swapping partners everything else is tame and rather boring. And the whole concept that 2 single people hook up here is swinging but if the same too hooked up in the pub it wouldn't be..... err ok.
Any time I have had a meet who has realised that I am genuinely kinky they get a bit out of hand thinking that they know what kink is cos they have seen 50 shades
I honestly don't understand how two single people hooking up can ever be considered swinging."
That's a question I've asked a few times, often to myself. Am I a swinger? Probably not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So it does depend on a person's view of kinky doesn't it. For instance if a threesome or a foursome isn't considered kinky does it become kinky if you start wanting DP and DVP? Or is that still pretty vanilla. I don't consider myself kinky in the dom/sub kinda way at all but I do enjoy having awesome and fun sex. (Female posting)
P.S. Is pegging considered kinky?"
That's right. Someone above said one persons 5 is someone's 8 etc,
I gave my scale, and pegging is up there in the kinky numbers. |
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"So it does depend on a person's view of kinky doesn't it. For instance if a threesome or a foursome isn't considered kinky does it become kinky if you start wanting DP and DVP? Or is that still pretty vanilla. I don't consider myself kinky in the dom/sub kinda way at all but I do enjoy having awesome and fun sex. (Female posting)
P.S. Is pegging considered kinky?
That's right. Someone above said one persons 5 is someone's 8 etc,
I gave my scale, and pegging is up there in the kinky numbers. "
So I like pegging M, would also be interested in pegging another male. Still no interest in giving or receiving pain... |
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"i find the trust needed for kink is lacking on here rather than a lack of kinky people.
i have had leash play and piss play but that's about as kinky as i go for NSA."
I think that trust is a big thing.... what I may choose to engage in with one person may not the the same with the next...
In general I choose to keep fab quite simple and fairly vanilla . That though in no way means that is who I am! |
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Vanilla is different things to different people.
We swap, do mmf, ffm, all girl orgies, orgies, clubs etc. To us that's 10, and to the guy in the street it's off the scale.
Other people might find it a boring 1 , but we love it. |
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