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over a year ago
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We met at uni. In an open relationship for over 7 years. We do all the standard relationship stuff. Married house ECT but enjoy to be open sexually and explore with others x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We met at uni. In an open relationship for over 7 years. We do all the standard relationship stuff. Married house ECT but enjoy to be open sexually and explore with others x
Mrs"
How wonderful to hear! May I ask how it all came about? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!! "
Your question intrigues me as I'd like to know myself, but in my mind I have sort of answered some of it myself.
I'd assume that looking on here would be a start, at least in terms of finding a guy/girl who is open to the idea to start with. I think finding someone in the conventional way would be very hit and miss.
The other big factor would be time. Like any kind of dating/relationship, you have to connect with that person on a deeper level, this takes time.
May be all the above is very obvious and not the answer you were looking for, but I really do think that that special type of relationship would be hard to find. Not only that but both parties would have to be super assured of their commitment to the arrangement.
Well my thoughts anyway  |
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Spoke on POF .. didn't meet him till I bumped into him at a mutual friends party .. had an open relationship for 2 years now! Works well just hard to explain to other people that we are just friends tho as from the outside we look like we are a couple! |
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"Spoke on POF .. didn't meet him till I bumped into him at a mutual friends party .. had an open relationship for 2 years now! Works well just hard to explain to other people that we are just friends tho as from the outside we look like we are a couple! "
Confused... are u a couple in an open relationship or just friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spoke on POF .. didn't meet him till I bumped into him at a mutual friends party .. had an open relationship for 2 years now! Works well just hard to explain to other people that we are just friends tho as from the outside we look like we are a couple!
Confused... are u a couple in an open relationship or just friends"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There may be poly groups that you can join on other sites? I know there's poly groups on fet "
I'm wanting sexually open, emotionally monogamous - not poly..? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
Are you already in a relationship?"
No, I'm single as fuck. |
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"Spoke on POF .. didn't meet him till I bumped into him at a mutual friends party .. had an open relationship for 2 years now! Works well just hard to explain to other people that we are just friends tho as from the outside we look like we are a couple!
Confused... are u a couple in an open relationship or just friends"
Yes I can see the confusion. We are more than friends ... And we act like a couple .. we don't live together.. but he is round here most evenings.. we go to everything as a couple .. but it's hard to put a label on it ... Because not everyone is as open minded as us, so if I'm seen out with someone else it makes it hard for people to understand
... So we tell everyone we are just friends.. but to be honest noone really believes that! Not sure that makes sense ! It's complicated!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met at uni. In an open relationship for over 7 years. We do all the standard relationship stuff. Married house ECT but enjoy to be open sexually and explore with others x
Mrs
How wonderful to hear! May I ask how it all came about? X"
We love each other and he has always known I have extra needs ie women and we decided I could explore and to make it fair he does too. Sometimes we meet the others but otherwise we are blissfully happy.
We are open about it all we tell each other when we have meets ECT and who with. It has made us stronger x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spoke on POF .. didn't meet him till I bumped into him at a mutual friends party .. had an open relationship for 2 years now! Works well just hard to explain to other people that we are just friends tho as from the outside we look like we are a couple!
Confused... are u a couple in an open relationship or just friends
Yes I can see the confusion. We are more than friends ... And we act like a couple .. we don't live together.. but he is round here most evenings.. we go to everything as a couple .. but it's hard to put a label on it ... Because not everyone is as open minded as us, so if I'm seen out with someone else it makes it hard for people to understand
... So we tell everyone we are just friends.. but to be honest noone really believes that! Not sure that makes sense ! It's complicated! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
Your question intrigues me as I'd like to know myself, but in my mind I have sort of answered some of it myself.
I'd assume that looking on here would be a start, at least in terms of finding a guy/girl who is open to the idea to start with. I think finding someone in the conventional way would be very hit and miss.
The other big factor would be time. Like any kind of dating/relationship, you have to connect with that person on a deeper level, this takes time.
May be all the above is very obvious and not the answer you were looking for, but I really do think that that special type of relationship would be hard to find. Not only that but both parties would have to be super assured of their commitment to the arrangement.
Well my thoughts anyway "
It's tricky to meet anyone anywhere! I don't get much attention on regular dating sites  when I do they're not my type either physically or just vanilla.
I'm thinking the likelihood of finding my perfect perv might be greater on here than dating sites.
Of course it takes work to make sure there is a solid foundation and love, I'm not just wanting a glorified fuckbuddy.
Guess it'll happen when it happens.. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happily married and in an open relationship. Met my 2nd partner through okcupid. It is one of the few apps that allows you to search for people who are non monogamous.
All good and lots of fun. ??"
I had no idea you could do that on there!!!
So are you in two relationships or am I misunderstanding..? |
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
Are you already in a relationship?
No, I'm single as fuck."
Okay. So wouldn't be better to start a relationship with someone first but say that's what you're looking for? |
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My partner and I have just changed our relationship to be open. We have been vanilla for eight years, although to be fair, for me, the door was slightly ajar...
Actually it was my partner's suggestion. I am not the jealous type (I once had an ltr with an escort). So far she has got more out of the new deal than I have though, lol.
We have a great relationship already, we both just want to try other things on our bucket list. We won't do this forever.
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
Your question intrigues me as I'd like to know myself, but in my mind I have sort of answered some of it myself.
I'd assume that looking on here would be a start, at least in terms of finding a guy/girl who is open to the idea to start with. I think finding someone in the conventional way would be very hit and miss.
The other big factor would be time. Like any kind of dating/relationship, you have to connect with that person on a deeper level, this takes time.
May be all the above is very obvious and not the answer you were looking for, but I really do think that that special type of relationship would be hard to find. Not only that but both parties would have to be super assured of their commitment to the arrangement.
Well my thoughts anyway
It's tricky to meet anyone anywhere! I don't get much attention on regular dating sites when I do they're not my type either physically or just vanilla.
I'm thinking the likelihood of finding my perfect perv might be greater on here than dating sites.
Of course it takes work to make sure there is a solid foundation and love, I'm not just wanting a glorified fuckbuddy.
Guess it'll happen when it happens.. x"
It's not ideal and I didn't took for it , it just happened! Still looking for that perfect relationship (unicorn) and this relationship makes that even harder as I don't want to end what I have with him! That's why I'm here I guess .. we both know it has a shelf life! But it works for now! |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!! "
I currently have a few.
It works out fine. I do what I do, they do what they do. We meet when our schedules coincide.
Some I met through regular dating sites. Some from here. Some I met in clubs.
In my experience, you don't look for a relationship as such, it just happens when people click. Just go out and play nicely with others. Remember: The hungry never get fed! 
Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
Are you already in a relationship?
No, I'm single as fuck.
Okay. So wouldn't be better to start a relationship with someone first but say that's what you're looking for?"
I'm too honest to not be upfront with that and so far not a single guy I've got on a date with has been into it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
I currently have a few.
It works out fine. I do what I do, they do what they do. We meet when our schedules coincide.
Some I met through regular dating sites. Some from here. Some I met in clubs.
In my experience, you don't look for a relationship as such, it just happens when people click. Just go out and play nicely with others. Remember: The hungry never get fed!
Hope this helps."
To me it sounds as you have several fwb..? Are there emotions involved?
I've been single for 3.5 years, not looking for an instant relationship, but meeting likeminded people who have the same idea about things is a good start, no?
Am a working single mother, don't really get the chanxe to meet people out and about, hence being on here and dating sites!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will meet Simone. Don't push it. We were not into it at all at first but we came round to the idea and were strong for it. You may meet the one and not need anyone else xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You will meet Simone. Don't push it. We were not into it at all at first but we came round to the idea and were strong for it. You may meet the one and not need anyone else xx
Mrs"
Someone sorry typo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You will meet Simone. Don't push it. We were not into it at all at first but we came round to the idea and were strong for it. You may meet the one and not need anyone else xx
Mrs
Someone sorry typo"
Been single so long, losing hope!
Thank you though xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
I currently have a few.
It works out fine. I do what I do, they do what they do. We meet when our schedules coincide.
Some I met through regular dating sites. Some from here. Some I met in clubs.
In my experience, you don't look for a relationship as such, it just happens when people click. Just go out and play nicely with others. Remember: The hungry never get fed!
Hope this helps.
To me it sounds as you have several fwb..? Are there emotions involved?
I've been single for 3.5 years, not looking for an instant relationship, but meeting likeminded people who have the same idea about things is a good start, no?
Am a working single mother, don't really get the chanxe to meet people out and about, hence being on here and dating sites!
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I think you are definitely looking in the right places, sound like you know what you want and have your head screwed on. It may not come about instantly but you sound like you're OK with that. Just keep looking, be patient and in the mean time enjoy exploring this lifestyle, meeting people and making connections x
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I am the "second wife", been with my partners for over a year now. My Primary is the male whom I share this profile with, he has another main female partner whom I am also in a relationship in and whom he also has a couple profile with and both Princess and I have other partners. I met Princess and the Mrs at my local club, played with them both and things grew from there, I met my other male partner at the same club at around the same time and now I live with him half the week, my third male partner I met through Princess and my female partner I met at my LGBT+ youth group. It is sometimes just a case of being in the right place at the right time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
I currently have a few.
It works out fine. I do what I do, they do what they do. We meet when our schedules coincide.
Some I met through regular dating sites. Some from here. Some I met in clubs.
In my experience, you don't look for a relationship as such, it just happens when people click. Just go out and play nicely with others. Remember: The hungry never get fed!
Hope this helps.
To me it sounds as you have several fwb..? Are there emotions involved?
I've been single for 3.5 years, not looking for an instant relationship, but meeting likeminded people who have the same idea about things is a good start, no?
Am a working single mother, don't really get the chanxe to meet people out and about, hence being on here and dating sites!
I think you are definitely looking in the right places, sound like you know what you want and have your head screwed on. It may not come about instantly but you sound like you're OK with that. Just keep looking, be patient and in the mean time enjoy exploring this lifestyle, meeting people and making connections x
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Oh yeah, am in no rush to change my facebook status I've been single as long as I have as I haven't met the right person yet, have no intentions of rushing into anything anytime soon
Kind of fed up meeting men for fun and then seeing them get girlfriends, start to think there's something wrong with me.. Too greedy maybe! 
Hope you have lots of fun and find what you're looking for x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am the "second wife", been with my partners for over a year now. My Primary is the male whom I share this profile with, he has another main female partner whom I am also in a relationship in and whom he also has a couple profile with and both Princess and I have other partners. I met Princess and the Mrs at my local club, played with them both and things grew from there, I met my other male partner at the same club at around the same time and now I live with him half the week, my third male partner I met through Princess and my female partner I met at my LGBT+ youth group. It is sometimes just a case of being in the right place at the right time"
Wow! That is a very interesting setup! I love hearing about and learning how things work for others!
I don't think living in a small town is doing me any favours for meeting likeminded people in person!
Thanks for sharing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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met my husband on here 6 years ago when we both had single profiles - the relationship is fantastic - better than I could have dreamed of - he's a really considerate guy who does not do jealousy at all - far removed from the possessive cheater I married last time in the "real world" xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"met my husband on here 6 years ago when we both had single profiles - the relationship is fantastic - better than I could have dreamed of - he's a really considerate guy who does not do jealousy at all - far removed from the possessive cheater I married last time in the "real world" xx"
My ex was also a narcissist, possessive and abusive, nice to hear there can be kinky happiness after having lived through that! I'm so happy for you both! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why not find a man and corrupt him? Might be more fun that way
I corrupted Boo, now she likes all sorts of deviant things. Find a nice bloke, then drop the bi-cuious thing and tempt him "
I have been in two longterm relationships where I suggested involving others sexually, both of them were thrilled at the thought until I said I wanted both genders joining in! Not getting into vanilla hoping for exciting ever again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spoke on POF .. didn't meet him till I bumped into him at a mutual friends party .. had an open relationship for 2 years now! Works well just hard to explain to other people that we are just friends tho as from the outside we look like we are a couple!
Confused... are u a couple in an open relationship or just friends
Yes I can see the confusion. We are more than friends ... And we act like a couple .. we don't live together.. but he is round here most evenings.. we go to everything as a couple .. but it's hard to put a label on it ... Because not everyone is as open minded as us, so if I'm seen out with someone else it makes it hard for people to understand
... So we tell everyone we are just friends.. but to be honest noone really believes that! Not sure that makes sense ! It's complicated! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Currently have what I would describe as an open relationship. Hubby and I have been married for 22 1/2 years and for the last 4ish we have had sex with other people, both as a couple and on our own. We are completely committed to each other but the sex just adds a bit of spice. However I would never have agreed to this sort of relationship had we not been together for a while. |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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"There may be poly groups that you can join on other sites? I know there's poly groups on fet "
^^This
Very informative and friendly. Although hard to meet up with folk though on a regular basis. |
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!! "
Me too. I could only be happy with a woman who continues to take other lovers of her choosing. |
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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago
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We have one. We met on here 7 months ago. Neither of us looking to fall in love, however the connection we had with one another made it impossible to not have those feelings for each other, Works for us. We tell one another everything and trust one another to play seperatley. However we do have certain rules that we have agreed on with us meeting seperatley. We believe trust and communication is the key to having a successful open relationship |
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!! "
We have one and are very interested in discussing it. Happy to discuss in detail if you want to message us. - you have filtered us out |
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"We have one. We met on here 7 months ago. Neither of us looking to fall in love, however the connection we had with one another made it impossible to not have those feelings for each other, Works for us. We tell one another everything and trust one another to play seperatley. However we do have certain rules that we have agreed on with us meeting seperatley. We believe trust and communication is the key to having a successful open relationship "
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I'm in one, she also on here. We met on here. We have some ground rules that we both stick with. Honesty is a big part and the we can both veto a meet if not wanting other to .wet a certain person for whatever reason. |
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By *arygoMan
over a year ago
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!! "
I'm in an open relationship with my partner, don't hide anything from each other, happy days. |
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
Your question intrigues me as I'd like to know myself, but in my mind I have sort of answered some of it myself.
I'd assume that looking on here would be a start, at least in terms of finding a guy/girl who is open to the idea to start with. I think finding someone in the conventional way would be very hit and miss.
The other big factor would be time. Like any kind of dating/relationship, you have to connect with that person on a deeper level, this takes time.
May be all the above is very obvious and not the answer you were looking for, but I really do think that that special type of relationship would be hard to find. Not only that but both parties would have to be super assured of their commitment to the arrangement.
Well my thoughts anyway
It's tricky to meet anyone anywhere! I don't get much attention on regular dating sites when I do they're not my type either physically or just vanilla.
I'm thinking the likelihood of finding my perfect perv might be greater on here than dating sites.
Of course it takes work to make sure there is a solid foundation and love, I'm not just wanting a glorified fuckbuddy.
Guess it'll happen when it happens.. x"
Im sure it will cinnamon im looking for something similar its no fun being single regardless of what others who are in relationships say obvs not in happy ones if you ask me xx Your a stunner and very clear what your after if i was closer id date you in a heartbeat xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm in one at the moment.
I met him through his ex gf and we became really close and no I didn't split them up.
I love him more than anything and we have made plans for the future together but we both must have our own personal fun first before we leave here and settle down together.
I do let him meet other girls and do his thing and he lets me do what I want even though I personally don't want to meet men.We tell each other everything and when we spend the weekends together we just laugh and love and have the most amazing sex but as soon as Monday starts it's like we're single again.As soon as I've explored all of my bi needs then I'm gone from here and then I'm his only forever but I will always know that I won't have any regrets that I didn't fully explore my bi desires before settling down x |
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
Are you already in a relationship?
No, I'm single as fuck.
Okay. So wouldn't be better to start a relationship with someone first but say that's what you're looking for?
I'm too honest to not be upfront with that and so far not a single guy I've got on a date with has been into it..."
Oh okay. So do you think you'd be able to handle the mental pressure of it? |
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"I'm in one, she also on here. We met on here. We have some ground rules that we both stick with. Honesty is a big part and the we can both veto a meet if not wanting other to .wet a certain person for whatever reason. "
Is that just for fab or in the real world too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you had one? "
Yes several
"How has it worked for you? "
Usually well for a period of months, I've had a couple of jealous ones or ones who had feelings and wanted to become exclusive. They haven't all ended well.
Also had a few where girls have gotten in to relationships with other people
"Where did you meet your partner? "
Former colleagues (a few times)
Pubs/clubs
Friend of friends
The gym
One from tinder (when I used tinder)
"HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!! "
I suppose it depends what works for you, social interactions is my best way of meeting people but I guess tinder and pof, etc have their merits,
My only advice is to be explicitly clear about what the intentions are from the outset and set any boundaries, I'm guessing you don't want a guy fucking your best friend or that one girl who absolutely hate
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"I'm in one, she also on here. We met on here. We have some ground rules that we both stick with. Honesty is a big part and the we can both veto a meet if not wanting other to .wet a certain person for whatever reason.
Is that just for fab or in the real world too?"
Real world as well. Although not always as easy as real world more unpredictable. On fab everything is planned one way or another. Need to be flexible I suppose. We still learning as we go. |
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"I'm in one, she also on here. We met on here. We have some ground rules that we both stick with. Honesty is a big part and the we can both veto a meet if not wanting other to .wet a certain person for whatever reason. "
Yes, IMO they can only work well if there is honesty and openness, if people get into situations where there is deception and emotional bl*ckmail then it becomes stressful and ultimately unsustainable. |
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"I'm in one, she also on here. We met on here. We have some ground rules that we both stick with. Honesty is a big part and the we can both veto a meet if not wanting other to .wet a certain person for whatever reason.
Is that just for fab or in the real world too?
Real world as well. Although not always as easy as real world more unpredictable. On fab everything is planned one way or another. Need to be flexible I suppose. We still learning as we go. "
Aww cool. Is it okay if i private message you sometime?. Me and someone I'm close to have been talking about this but i'm unsure i'd be okay with it even though i've never been the jealous type. Dont know how i'd feel about her feeling a certain way like how she feels about me. I'd assume that would be very hard for most no? |
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!! "
Can't really add to this Cinnamon BUT I must ask.
Where did you get your underwear from?
They look amazing and suits you fantastically x |
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"I'm in one, she also on here. We met on here. We have some ground rules that we both stick with. Honesty is a big part and the we can both veto a meet if not wanting other to .wet a certain person for whatever reason.
Is that just for fab or in the real world too?
Real world as well. Although not always as easy as real world more unpredictable. On fab everything is planned one way or another. Need to be flexible I suppose. We still learning as we go.
Aww cool. Is it okay if i private message you sometime?. Me and someone I'm close to have been talking about this but i'm unsure i'd be okay with it even though i've never been the jealous type. Dont know how i'd feel about her feeling a certain way like how she feels about me. I'd assume that would be very hard for most no?"
Yea that would be fine. My profile is hidden at moment. But still able to do messages |
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!!
Can't really add to this Cinnamon BUT I must ask.
Where did you get your underwear from?
They look amazing and suits you fantastically x"
you look rather sexy to us also xx |
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If you look for it too hard it probably won't happen. We met 4 years ago and after a few weeks she showed me her profile on 'dating' websites. Interests included group sex, gang bangs, bi-sexuality amongst other things. For me this was a eureka moment and I vowed not to let this one get away. We are now happily married and enjoy involving others in our sex life. Good luck in your search and if you find the right man you will make him very happy! X |
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I've been single for nearly 5 years and know that my ideal relationship would be an open one. Honesty is essential. I love group sex and gangbangs and watching other guys and gals fuck her while she stays emotionally faithful to me (and me to her). |
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"Currently have what I would describe as an open relationship. Hubby and I have been married for 22 1/2 years and for the last 4ish we have had sex with other people, both as a couple and on our own. We are completely committed to each other but the sex just adds a bit of spice. However I would never have agreed to this sort of relationship had we not been together for a while. "
This exactly! We've been together 5 years and as you said completely commited, it's just the extra spice, m x |
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Hey guy's and girls, I met a great girl on here and instantly we we're having a laugh and playing like we knew each other for time. She would like this to be more than what we are, however, I wouldn't. I just don't need to be put in that bracket and would rather we just had fun and enjoy ourselves.
Now the complicated bit.
How do you go about laying down your rules. As because she never received a reply to a message from me within minutes, was out fucking a younger lad, talking to others via kik snapchat whatsapp Skype, the lot. However, I received a grilling and verbal abuse for talking to other women here? Foes that not seem like double standards? How do you go about setting out what is and isn't acceptable as FB or in a open relationship? As I don't want to loose her but also don't want to become involved in another serious relationship, but feel im having the piss taken out of me here ever so slightly, especially considering the situation she was in when I met her. I.e may say, being forced to escort due to her circumstances by a certain profile on here..
Wow rant over ha ha |
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"Hey guy's and girls, I met a great girl on here and instantly we we're having a laugh and playing like we knew each other for time. She would like this to be more than what we are, however, I wouldn't. I just don't need to be put in that bracket and would rather we just had fun and enjoy ourselves.
Now the complicated bit.
How do you go about laying down your rules. As because she never received a reply to a message from me within minutes, was out fucking a younger lad, talking to others via kik snapchat whatsapp Skype, the lot. However, I received a grilling and verbal abuse for talking to other women here? Foes that not seem like double standards? How do you go about setting out what is and isn't acceptable as FB or in a open relationship? As I don't want to loose her but also don't want to become involved in another serious relationship, but feel im having the piss taken out of me here ever so slightly, especially considering the situation she was in when I met her. I.e may say, being forced to escort due to her circumstances by a certain profile on here..
Wow rant over ha ha"
Long story short. You want completely different things. Stop seeing her. |
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I had one with my ex wife - it was brill used to love Mmf - liked it even better when she would send me a photo whilst I was in work of her sucking or riding a cock - handled well its amazing for both parties xx |
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i find it amazing that people think they can get a swinging relationship of the shelf so to speak ?? it aint going to happen unless you are totally in tune with each other and can openly talk about anything and thats just the start look how many couples on her last 5 mins as soon as theystart swinging i know plenty and most the probs have been '' we just thought it would work'' so easy to get into swinging but if you aint in tune with your other half it will destroy you too |
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"i find it amazing that people think they can get a swinging relationship of the shelf so to speak ?? it aint going to happen unless you are totally in tune with each other and can openly talk about anything and thats just the start look how many couples on her last 5 mins as soon as theystart swinging i know plenty and most the probs have been '' we just thought it would work'' so easy to get into swinging but if you aint in tune with your other half it will destroy you too"
Spot on. Good communication is key. Myself and my partner are still at an early stage of hours you have to be honest and say if something or someone bothers you. We have hidden our profiles at the moment to spend time with each other before meeting on own again. While I'm Open to the idea and want this type of relationship, the reality maybe takes a little getting used to. Any self doubts can easily become bigger issues. |
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"Have you had one?
How has it worked for you?
Where did you meet your partner?
HOW DO I GET ME ONE??!! "
if you want my advice pm, I will tell you how we done it x |
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"There may be poly groups that you can join on other sites? I know there's poly groups on fet
I'm wanting sexually open, emotionally monogamous - not poly..? Xx"
This is us. Sexually we play with whomever we like but emotionally - that’s strictly just for us. |
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"There may be poly groups that you can join on other sites? I know there's poly groups on fet
I'm wanting sexually open, emotionally monogamous - not poly..? Xx
This is us. Sexually we play with whomever we like but emotionally - that’s strictly just for us."
That's what we aiming for as well though always have the power to veto a meet the other might be considering. |
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"There may be poly groups that you can join on other sites? I know there's poly groups on fet
I'm wanting sexually open, emotionally monogamous - not poly..? Xx
This is us. Sexually we play with whomever we like but emotionally - that’s strictly just for us."
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"There may be poly groups that you can join on other sites? I know there's poly groups on fet
I'm wanting sexually open, emotionally monogamous - not poly..? Xx
This is us. Sexually we play with whomever we like but emotionally - that’s strictly just for us."
I TOTALLY subscribe to this. I can emotionally be monogamous to ONE man. Physically - not at all. To me there's a clear distinction. I'd be quite happy if my fella had sex with other women too won't bother me one bit. The problem is men get jealous inevitably so having an open relationship (or even poly relationship with several men) is very difficulty. I've tried more than once. Still holding out hope though LOL |
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I think I'm looking for a shared relationship one where the majority of the activity is undertaken together. Now it's not that I would not be happy for my partner to play without me especially if I happened to be unavailable. Openness and honesty are the key here even if you never meet the others lovers.
You just have to factor that knowledge into the relationship and reach an understanding together. |
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