its par for the course for people to chat about the things they have done whilst swinging, either online or in person etc
do you sometimes feel that you arent keeping up with others, that people are gonna find you boring cos you havent done x, y, or z??
or do you want to do more but you hold yourself back because of fear of rejection or shyness etc? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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As a single woman on here the clubs and parties can be nerve wracking to go to alone so I do try and make a big effort, but I know that couples get more play at clubs because they tend to know people.
I try not to measure myself against others. At that rate I would be playing every night and not have any time with my daughter!  Even sex maniacs need time off.  |
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in all honesty it goes through phases with us one minute we are playing most weeks then we will go months with not a jot but i can honestly say what others do has no bearing on it whatsoever, its more a case of spare time or spare cash
what we do again is not influenced by others in the way you mean if influenced at all it may just be purely that someone talks of an experience they had and it pricks my curiosity we then chat about it and if it gets us going then we'll give it a shot too |
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We are a couple who enjoy different scenarios rather than intense one on ones. We love big events like BmfC parties in London and creating scenarios with single guys. Chams feels at home for us so we will never get bored of that, but I would get bored if I was meeting guys at home regularly as a big part of the pull for me is dressing up and exhibitionism.
But I know from the stories on here that most have indulged in more sexual athletics than I have, |
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