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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter
So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .
What your opinion .
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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"Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter
So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .
What your opinion .
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I'm pretty sure that is not the expectation nowadays. There are still a lot that needs to change but it's a very prehistoric way to look at it. |
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"Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter
So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .
What your opinion .
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Have we gone back in time?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol just a question I'm Indian and have seen a lot growing up . Believe me in all society's some people are like horses with blinkers . Just look at trump lol |
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"Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter
So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .
What your opinion .
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What a load of bollocks.
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"Lol just a question I'm Indian and have seen a lot growing up . Believe me in all society's some people are like horses with blinkers . Just look at trump lol "
You're right. There are still women who feel they need to keep a perfect home, work etc and men who sit back and allow them to do it. I think(hope) its becoming less acceptable though. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I'm single and even without support I used to feel the pressure and the need to try and keep up with other people. The burden of trying to do it all, work, children, home, exercise, beauty, and still be miss sunshine and sex.
Spinning so many plates just left me empty.
Now I am far nore laid back. Sometimes my house is tidy, sometimes it isn't. Sometimes I cook healthy balanced meals for my boys, sometimes I take them for drive through in my pjs.
I'm grateful for the invention of dry shampoo. Some days I fall apart and cry in the car and I know that's ok. Oh and sometimes I have wild sex and sometimes I make him do all the work with nothing in return.
I don't feel bad about any of that stuff anymore.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm single and even without support I used to feel the pressure and the need to try and keep up with other people. The burden of trying to do it all, work, children, home, exercise, beauty, and still be miss sunshine and sex.
Spinning so many plates just left me empty.
Now I am far nore laid back. Sometimes my house is tidy, sometimes it isn't. Sometimes I cook healthy balanced meals for my boys, sometimes I take them for drive through in my pjs.
I'm grateful for the invention of dry shampoo. Some days I fall apart and cry in the car and I know that's ok. Oh and sometimes I have wild sex and sometimes I make him do all the work with nothing in return.
I don't feel bad about any of that stuff anymore.
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sometime it hard to get to not felling bad. |
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Firstly i get what you're saying OP but your sentence structure makes reading your post tricky but anyway.
I think it depends on whatever dynamic works for you as a couple and your responsibilities at the time. If a couple is lucky enough that 1 can stay at home then that person should look after homr stuff. if both busy all day then share it out with consideration. |
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I think the 99 year old has just been discovered...
BTW That;s after she's scrubbed the step, washed the nets, beat the rugs, used the mangle and tea stained her legs and drawn a line down the back to look like seemed stockings.... The final question, teeth in or out  |
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I'm a feminists worst nightmare...I love being a woman and having that responsibility..he works hard everyday at work..so yes he deserves a pornstar at the end of everyday...we are a very traditional couple and I realise not every woman would agree |
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"I'm a feminists worst nightmare...I love being a woman and having that responsibility..he works hard everyday at work..so yes he deserves a pornstar at the end of everyday...we are a very traditional couple and I realise not every woman would agree "
Feminism isn't about making women (or men)conform to a set way of behaving that to me would be defeating the object.
We've always had a fairly equal division of labour. Whoever does the least outside the home does the most in it unless one of us is ill then the other takes it all on. |
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"Is this a 1950's housewife thread thread??  .
They can feck off if that's what they expect  "
We don't honestly think it is what many people expect nowadays.
It did attract some attention though, didn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why people make such a fuss about doing housework.
It's not difficult and it doesn't take long, no matter what anyone says
They are coming for your head."
Bring it on  I've got time  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter
So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .
What your opinion .
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I don't have to do anything. If I do the above, its because I choose too.
I actually like doing housework (I'm odd) that's not to say that Mr doesn't do his fair share.
Hell, we'd hardly ever eat decent food if he didn't do alot of the cooking. |
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