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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No way. Everything about that just doesn't sound cool for a single guy.
Even if it's genuine, why can someone think about what the single guy wants and would feel comfortable with? It's 50/50 isn't it? |
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over a year ago
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I am new to this site but been on fabguys on and off for years, my general rule is that I never get in touch with anyone who isn't verified, and if they have been on the site longer than a month and haven't got verifications than I always suspect that they are just a timewaster/fantasist! |
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By *at13 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I am new to this site but been on fabguys on and off for years, my general rule is that I never get in touch with anyone who isn't verified, and if they have been on the site longer than a month and haven't got verifications than I always suspect that they are just a timewaster/fantasist!"
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Cpl been on here for over 12 months not verified cant send me any pics but want to meet me first on a car park see if we get on .would you go"
No, I wouldn't go. Most people have a phone, that they can send you photos from, sounds dodgy to me. |
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"its a Cpl who want to meet me not a single guy"
That's what they tell you, for all you know it could be a dozen nuns looking to party.
You said they're not verified, refuse to sent photos proving they're real. TBH, answer to your question is staring you in the face |
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I would not go because they are not swingers, you want an experienced friendly couple which they are obviously not, if they were experienced, they will have loads of verifications for you to see, I don't mind if they have no pictures but the verifications tells you how they operate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't go, if they want to meet they should send you a pic. It sounds like just a man to me. Probably wants to poke you up the bottom, hit you on the head and steal your wallet and phone. Be careful OP x |
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Am not keen on seeing face pictures ,body pictures and verifications are critical, from the verifications of the guys and looking at the type of women these guys meet , you can tell if the lady will be sweet or not, if 5 guys say she is absolutely beautiful then you know she is, if 3 guys mention her perfume in the verifications , you know she is a lady that looks after herself and takes her personal hygiene seriously and will look good , if one guy says she looked good in the verification and mentions she wore branded attire, forget the face picture you are on to a winner, this is how I use the verifications. What people say about someone is more important than what they say about themselves. |
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"Am not keen on seeing face pictures ,body pictures and verifications are critical, from the verifications of the guys and looking at the type of women these guys meet , you can tell if the lady will be sweet or not, if 5 guys say she is absolutely beautiful then you know she is, if 3 guys mention her perfume in the verifications , you know she is a lady that looks after herself and takes her personal hygiene seriously and will look good , if one guy says she looked good in the verification and mentions she wore branded attire, forget the face picture you are on to a winner, this is how I use the verifications. What people say about someone is more important than what they say about themselves."
Branded attire,what the heck is branded attire and why the devil would you be onto a winner? So what you're saying is if someone pays a fortune for their clothes you will find them attractive.
I've alway's told my children you don't have to pay a fortune for your clothes,if you respect your body you'll look just as good in far cheaper clothes. Or am I totally missing your point as I normally do? |
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"Am not keen on seeing face pictures ,body pictures and verifications are critical, from the verifications of the guys and looking at the type of women these guys meet , you can tell if the lady will be sweet or not, if 5 guys say she is absolutely beautiful then you know she is, if 3 guys mention her perfume in the verifications , you know she is a lady that looks after herself and takes her personal hygiene seriously and will look good , if one guy says she looked good in the verification and mentions she wore branded attire, forget the face picture you are on to a winner, this is how I use the verifications. What people say about someone is more important than what they say about themselves."
Everyone to his own, but I cannot see how anyone can judge someone's attractiveness without seeing their face. |
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I am describing how I use verifications and body pictures, without seeing a ladies face, now guys will always tell you what they see when they meet up with the ladies, so I critically read what the guys write, now if you read the verifications of many ladies, the guys don't mention the branded attire, they would just say classy lady, but when you read a ladies verifications and a guy mentions that she came branded , then he is pulling your attention to the ladies appearance, even if you dont see her face you can immediately know you are dealing with a lady who spoils herself and takes very good care of herself. This helps if you don't want to ask for face pictures, which most ladies might not want to give out until they meet you.
I don't see anything wrong with the ladies wearing quality stuff, they worked hard for it. |
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"I am describing how I use verifications and body pictures, without seeing a ladies face, now guys will always tell you what they see when they meet up with the ladies, so I critically read what the guys write, now if you read the verifications of many ladies, the guys don't mention the branded attire, they would just say classy lady, but when you read a ladies verifications and a guy mentions that she came branded , then he is pulling your attention to the ladies appearance, even if you dont see her face you can immediately know you are dealing with a lady who spoils herself and takes very good care of herself. This helps if you don't want to ask for face pictures, which most ladies might not want to give out until they meet you.
I don't see anything wrong with the ladies wearing quality stuff, they worked hard for it."
What a load of tish tosh. You do know you can get good quality clothes without being stupid enough to pay over the odds don't you!
Being classy is how a woman holds yourself and how she act's. You can put a pig in overpriced clothes it doesn't make the pig classy does it! |
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Most branded stuff are not that expensive if you know when and how to shop and combine stuff, guys will always shout to the roof top when they meet a quality lady who is physically attractive , if they speak about her appearance up to her bra and pants then you can gauge without asking for face pictures. I don't ask for face pictures , I just read what the guys are saying |
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"Most branded stuff are not that expensive if you know when and how to shop and combine stuff, guys will always shout to the roof top when they meet a quality lady who is physically attractive , if they speak about her appearance up to her bra and pants then you can gauge without asking for face pictures. I don't ask for face pictures , I just read what the guys are saying "
Ok so from what you're saying a woman's clothes is more important to you than her face? |
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Another thing is if the guys mention the ladies mind in the verification, you can tell if she is well travelled and vast, you can tell if you will enjoy her company, these are just tips I use to paint a picture of the whole lady without seeing her face and it helps me prepare for the meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another thing is if the guys mention the ladies mind in the verification, you can tell if she is well travelled and vast, you can tell if you will enjoy her company, these are just tips I use to paint a picture of the whole lady without seeing her face and it helps me prepare for the meet"
Ah yes... green arrow. Soft swing thread. I remember you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cpl been on here for over 12 months not verified cant send me any pics but want to meet me first on a car park see if we get on .would you go"
Would I hell..... unless i wanted mugged |
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"I personally don't need to see a ladies face first , I will see her face when I meet her, I always try to paint a picture of the lady from her verifications and it never fails me"
I personally prefer to make my own mind up as to whether I find someone attractive,not listen to others! |
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"Even in the clubs I look at all these things, I am not going to ask to many questions, I look at the lady from head to toe and I look at her composure then I can guage who am dealing with, the composure is key, body language is also key, I agree you can remove a man from the gutter but you cannot remove the gutter from the man, so I always look at the ladies attitude and composure despite what she is wearing."
So it's got nothing to do with how her face/body looks,you purely base your liking for a woman on her clothes/composure/body language/what other men think of her? |
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I can tell everything I need to know about a lady from her verifications, I don't need to see her face, I can tell if she is amazing from her verifications, I will rather trust the guys than her profile |
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Even in the clubs I look at all these things, I am not going too ask too many questions, I look at the lady from head to toe and I look at her composure then I can guage who am dealing with, the composure is key, body language is also key, I agree you can remove a man from the gutter but you cannot remove the gutter from the man, so I always look at the ladies attitude and composure despite what she is wearing.
A lady can send you a beautiful face picture and the meet will still be disappointing so I tend not to go with face pictures,the important things to me are body pictures and the verifications from other guy, you can even guage if the lady is improving on herself from her verifications , if a lady is beautiful her verifications will tell you, guys will say things like" her pictures don't do her justice" , in my opinion you don't need face pictures. |
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"Funny how threads can go off topic so much. The OP simply asked whether he should go or not and it's descended into chapter and verse in some people's selection processes!  "
Well the op isn't exactly posting is he  |
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"Funny how threads can go off topic so much. The OP simply asked whether he should go or not and it's descended into chapter and verse in some people's selection processes!
Well the op isn't exactly posting is he "
Let's hope that it's not because he's gone to the car park! |
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"Funny how threads can go off topic so much. The OP simply asked whether he should go or not and it's descended into chapter and verse in some people's selection processes!
Well the op isn't exactly posting is he
Let's hope that it's not because he's gone to the car park! "
Well we did warn him,so if he did and he's now in some guy's cellar and kept as a sex slave it's his own daft fault isn't it  |
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The thread is not off topic, the Op asked if he should go to the carpark and I said no in my opinion because there is no verifications and no body pictures not because there is no face pictures. I believe he has gone to the carpark and I hope he will tell us how it went |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny how threads can go off topic so much. The OP simply asked whether he should go or not and it's descended into chapter and verse in some people's selection processes! "
Eh? The selection process in this case is paramount. The OP has given quite a bit of background information. From what he has described, makes many wonder why he had selected the couple to speak and message with, he understands the alarm bells are ringing and wonders if he should go. The answer is obvious, nope. |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
Wigan |
"Funny how threads can go off topic so much. The OP simply asked whether he should go or not and it's descended into chapter and verse in some people's selection processes!
Well the op isn't exactly posting is he
Let's hope that it's not because he's gone to the car park!
Well we did warn him,so if he did and he's now in some guy's cellar and kept as a sex slave it's his own daft fault isn't it "
Ha ha - that made me chuckle, oh and the guy harping on about not needing to see a face picture to decide if a lady is his type etc
All his veris are from socials or clubs so he just turned up and spoke to people who he liked the look of - I wonder how many ladies had a bag on their head so he sussed them out from their branded clothes yeah yeah sure lol |
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I have met a lot of ladies off the site and I didn't require or request for any face picture, niether did any of the ladies ask me for any face pictures as I only have one cock picture. I just don't need it in my opinion, I only need the body pictures and verifications.
In terms branded stuff, I believe it is good for ladies to have stuff and to invest in some of these things if they can because it affects the psychology of the guys who approach you, especially if you have a great smile and an amazing attitude. The guys will step to you with full cooperation, you don't have to talk much , everything on you will be talking for you, all you need to do is smile, you will notice the guys will start saying "yes Mam" even if you are young and thats where you want them to be. |
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" I have met a lot of ladies off the site and I didn't require or request for any face picture, niether did any of the ladies ask me for any face pictures as I only have one cock picture. I just don't need it in my opinion, I only need the body pictures and verifications.
In terms branded stuff, I believe it is good for ladies to have stuff and to invest in some of these things if they can because it affects the psychology of the guys who approach you, especially if you have a great smile and an amazing attitude. The guys will step to you with full cooperation, you don't have to talk much , everything on you will be talking for you, all you need to do is smile, you will notice the guys will start saying "yes Mam" even if you are young and thats where you want them to be. "
Nope still don't agree and if someone said "yes Mam" to me I'd laugh. Clothes do not maketh the man/woman! Some people really should stop being so superficial.
I have three noses and one eye but that's ok I have designer overpriced clothes on,come get me boy's  |
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" I have met a lot of ladies off the site and I didn't require or request for any face picture, niether did any of the ladies ask me for any face pictures as I only have one cock picture. I just don't need it in my opinion, I only need the body pictures and verifications.
In terms branded stuff, I believe it is good for ladies to have stuff and to invest in some of these things if they can because it affects the psychology of the guys who approach you, especially if you have a great smile and an amazing attitude. The guys will step to you with full cooperation, you don't have to talk much , everything on you will be talking for you, all you need to do is smile, you will notice the guys will start saying "yes Mam" even if you are young and thats where you want them to be. "
Nonsensical jibber jabber |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
" I have met a lot of ladies off the site and I didn't require or request for any face picture, niether did any of the ladies ask me for any face pictures as I only have one cock picture. I just don't need it in my opinion, I only need the body pictures and verifications.
In terms branded stuff, I believe it is good for ladies to have stuff and to invest in some of these things if they can because it affects the psychology of the guys who approach you, especially if you have a great smile and an amazing attitude. The guys will step to you with full cooperation, you don't have to talk much , everything on you will be talking for you, all you need to do is smile, you will notice the guys will start saying "yes Mam" even if you are young and thats where you want them to be.
Nonsensical jibber jabber"
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I believe the attitude counts more but you cannot discount appearance no matter how you cut it, I see the reaction in the guys the way they step to the different ladies, of course I am not saying have one eye etc but I like the check it brings to the mind of the guys, there is nothing like overpriced, it is simply quality stuff and these things do something magical to the ladies that wear them in my opinion.Especially if the ladies wear them as if it were nothing.
It makes the ladies look good if the ladies know how to carry themselves now a lady who knows how to combine stuff can still look good by using different fashion tips but the branded stuff and quality accessories have their place. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Am not keen on seeing face pictures ,body pictures and verifications are critical, from the verifications of the guys and looking at the type of women these guys meet , you can tell if the lady will be sweet or not, if 5 guys say she is absolutely beautiful then you know she is, if 3 guys mention her perfume in the verifications , you know she is a lady that looks after herself and takes her personal hygiene seriously and will look good , if one guy says she looked good in the verification and mentions she wore branded attire, forget the face picture you are on to a winner, this is how I use the verifications. What people say about someone is more important than what they say about themselves.
Branded attire,what the heck is branded attire and why the devil would you be onto a winner? So what you're saying is if someone pays a fortune for their clothes you will find them attractive.
I've alway's told my children you don't have to pay a fortune for your clothes,if you respect your body you'll look just as good in far cheaper clothes. Or am I totally missing your point as I normally do?"
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Just because someone wears 'branded attire' it doesn't make them attractive. I have seen some highly attractive and elegant ladies, in 'ordinary attire', who look very confident, classy and sexy. I have also seen ladies in 'branded attire' who just don't carry it well.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe the attitude counts more but you cannot discount appearance no matter how you cut it, I see the reaction in the guys the way they step to the different ladies, of course I am not saying have one eye etc but I like the check it brings to the mind of the guys, there is nothing like overpriced, it is simply quality stuff and these things do something magical to the ladies that wear them in my opinion.Especially if the ladies wear them as if it were nothing.
It makes the ladies look good if the ladies know how to carry themselves now a lady who knows how to combine stuff can still look good by using different fashion tips but the branded stuff and quality accessories have their place."
When you say branded I assume you're talking logoed. I'm never impressed by people who think flashing brands is a positive feature. Plus I'm not keen on being a walking hoarding. Add to that the fact there are some very good copies of major brands where only tiny details give the game away. Overall I wouldn't use that as a barometer for the quality and looks of the wearer.
And back to the original thread, OP please come back and let us know you're not hogtied in a car boot somewhere! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone sent him a pm ? It would be nice to have an update after all the advice."
Just dropped him a PM, interested to hear what happened if he did go. |
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"Cpl been on here for over 12 months not verified cant send me any pics but want to meet me first on a car park see if we get on .would you go"
no harm in going.you never know they may be legit(but doubtfull).you should ask what car they will be in and lie to them which car you will be in and obsevre from afar.If they are for real just make up some excuse as to why you are in a different car.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm new and it's not hard to put few discreet pictures on and get verified .I have noticed lots of new profiles with no pictures or been verified .A lot been on days weeks and over a year .I would avoid chatting to these profiles as I would class them as pic collectors or perverts . |
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