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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find it strange when people are in a swinging site and they expect you to send them a pic but state that they will not share a pic with you.....
Hmmmm weird one what's people's thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a massive red flag if someone refuses to privately verify who they are, there's so many ways of doing it these days. Good luck with her all the same! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't share face pics with just anyone but would never refuse if it was someone we were chatting to and had the notion we might want to meet. There are so many ways of doing it that refusal seems shady. |
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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago
Farnborough. |
I never understand why they wont send a pic and then state its because of their job. Dont we all have jobs or have to be discreet, does make me laugh though and they are the ones that get blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it strange when people are in a swinging site and they expect you to send them a pic but state that they will not share a pic with you.....
Hmmmm weird one what's people's thoughts "
One to pass on I think. Like someone has said we all have jobs that we don't want all to know |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
under my rock cleethorpes |
I don't like when they send and expect me to send just because they did, like I'm obligated wether I'm attracted or not, I do state on my profile that I like a pic with the message but I have that for the faf messages so I can decline if I'm not attracted and save time for both of us |
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If they refused to send pics,we would stop messaging them.
I've seen quite a few profiles that state they dont swap face pics,up to them but we wouldnt even meet for a social if we hadn't seen pics and sent ours.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like when they send and expect me to send just because they did, like I'm obligated wether I'm attracted or not, I do state on my profile that I like a pic with the message but I have that for the faf messages so I can decline if I'm not attracted and save time for both of us "
I agree with this, I'm never very happy if people send an unsolicited face pic then demand one in return. In that scenario I still wouldn't refuse point blank, just say we'd want to get to know them a bit more first (unless there's no way between the pic and profile we'd consider meeting) |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
You are asking to meet them not the other way around therefore you send the face photo and if they are interested then you get to see tbeirs.They are not going to send it to you just to waste their time and yours on further correspondence if uninterested.
If they say they are interested but don't send it then they will probably be the type that will utimately waste your time anyway so don't get your hopes up. There are exceptions of course but timewasters usually give them selves away very quickly .
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Says it's because of her public job
