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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks first for swinging. Sorry if that sounds shallow, but that's the way it is.
Might surprise a lot of people, but good looking people can have nice personalities too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nah got to be honest i go for looks first
but if they have a shit personality i will loose interest
has to be a 50/50% mix of look and personality but i go for looks first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks first for swinging. Sorry if that sounds shallow, but that's the way it is.
Might surprise a lot of people, but good looking people can have nice personalities too "
Stop talking about yourself Jack  |
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Funnily enough, we've been asked to meet a couple, but they havnt got any pics of any sort to send, even tho they want to see ours, and cos of that we won't meet, even for a social. Even if we didn't put looks over personality (which for us is 50/50 also) we wouldn't know who the hell we were meeting!!! Is that just us?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funnily enough, we've been asked to meet a couple, but they havnt got any pics of any sort to send, even tho they want to see ours, and cos of that we won't meet, even for a social. Even if we didn't put looks over personality (which for us is 50/50 also) we wouldn't know who the hell we were meeting!!! Is that just us??"
Nope, that's understandable, surely there has to be an element of attraction even if personality comes first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funnily enough, we've been asked to meet a couple, but they havnt got any pics of any sort to send, even tho they want to see ours, and cos of that we won't meet, even for a social. Even if we didn't put looks over personality (which for us is 50/50 also) we wouldn't know who the hell we were meeting!!! Is that just us??"
i wont meet without seeing people first simpy because as a working single mum my time to meet is very limited so when i do meet i wanat to know that theres at least some chance i will like them
I dont want to use a free night to go on a blind meet only to be back home a hour later because they dont take my fancy |
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depends on context, i really dont get how many ppl here only swing under such strict rules.
me i fuck ppl i'm attracted too, i can meet them on site, in clubs, on the street, what attracts me depends on where i am and what i am looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends on context, i really dont get how many ppl here only swing under such strict rules.
me i fuck ppl i'm attracted too, i can meet them on site, in clubs, on the street, what attracts me depends on where i am and what i am looking for"
street wino here...offering free drink...u know how to get it tho...ziiiiiip |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally its the fanny i check for first...then I have to taste it...maybe after that I'll think about the personality"
*of the person i meant...i know fannys dont have personalities ffs! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
there has to be a degree of both I suppose!
The way I look at it now is that looks can sometimes get your foot in the door so to speak.... but personality will always keep it there!!!
signed...
Ugly Fecker of Tyneside.... |
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If we dont know the people then looks always come first. We would never arrange a meet with people we didnt fancy. We dont really do the meet once for drinks first and then play another time, we can generally tell within an hour or two if we like them as people so are happy to play on the first meet so therefore we have to fancy the person.
Sometimes we get to know people through socials/parties etc who at first we would have said no to but their personality grows on you and we start to fancy them.
Some people kinda grow on you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yip i agree,,there need to be some sort of an attraction ?
all very good he/she having a great personality
but remember,,the yorkshire ripper and fred west were both marrried so they had some sort of personality,,ok all be it twisted lol
looks ..then if he can make me laugh,,,hes half way there lol xx
auds xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yip i agree,,there need to be some sort of an attraction ?
all very good he/she having a great personality
but remember,,the yorkshire ripper and fred west were both marrried so they had some sort of personality,,ok all be it twisted lol
looks ..then if he can make me laugh,,,hes half way there lol xx
auds xx "
tickles auds armpits with a feather...Oh dear shes just pished herself....literally!-and she never even cracked a laugh tho..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks first for swinging. Sorry if that sounds shallow, but that's the way it is.
Might surprise a lot of people, but good looking people can have nice personalities too "
Yep, same here.
Lets face it, if looks weren't important we'd all have silhouettes for avatars and no pics on our profiles.
Its looks that grab our attention, nice personality is a bonus.
However, we wouldn't have sex with someone with a terrible personality, no matter how good they looked.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yip i agree,,there need to be some sort of an attraction ?
all very good he/she having a great personality
but remember,,the yorkshire ripper and fred west were both marrried so they had some sort of personality,,ok all be it twisted lol
looks ..then if he can make me laugh,,,hes half way there lol xx
auds xx
tickles auds armpits with a feather...Oh dear shes just pished herself....literally!-and she never even cracked a laugh tho....." well you did say you wanted me wet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks first for swinging. Sorry if that sounds shallow, but that's the way it is.
Might surprise a lot of people, butt good looking people can have nice personalities too "
Nods in agreement. I never understand why it has to be either or!  |
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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago
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Totally agree. This is why most guys and some women fall short for me.
If you read the emails I got, even the pm's in chat ... you'd know what I was talking about. I'm sure many girls do.
Strangely though I'll write a nice three paragraph email responding to a person or couples profile and simply be ignored, message deleted and in some cases totally blocked.
In a couple of cases I got abusive emails back totally off the subject and personality, and in trying to reply, blocked. Why bother writing?
So I can tell you lots of below the personality standard expected profiles. No shortage of them.
What's really sad is, you can never really know someone till you meet them and as so many people who have met me will say - I'm well worth meeting Socially and otherwise!
xox
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has to be a bit of both....Would like to be able to hold a conversation but when we get down to business would like to be able to look up or down at them without getting sick at my stomach...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmm would I play with someone I found physically unattractive? Of course not. Do I want to spend time rolling about with a monosyllabic jerk? No. Of course there needs to be a combination and the same applies in reverse, otherwise the sex is boring, there's no mutuality and the guy might as well stay at home with a fleshlight |
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