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Is it so hard to find meets as a male?
Iv changed my profile so many times to listening to people's opinions on here to try and get t to work.
Iv been on here like over a year and bit now and only met two females.
It's so slow or is it just me, people just don't bother replying.
From a female point of view does my profile look ok? Would you meet me if you could? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just got to have patience man. Get involved with the community. Send out messages. Jump in the chat room. That's my advice anyhoo."
That works for me too... And patience... |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Yes fabs bollocks unless you go to the clubs and get known in the circuit"
Fab's just a web site it cant give you magic fix's. All it can give you an opportunity to communicate and engage with people. If you were to go to a bar or night club and were to chat up a 100 women, there's no guarantee your gonna have sex with any of them at the end of the night. Is that then the bars or nightclubs fault? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not as easy or friendly as it was when I was last in about five years ago. Did quite well then, very well number of meets wise. Very hard work now. A lot of egotistical over inflated egos around now. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it so hard to find meets as a male?
Iv changed my profile so many times to listening to people's opinions on here to try and get t to work.
Iv been on here like over a year and bit now and only met two females.
It's so slow or is it just me, people just don't bother replying.
From a female point of view does my profile look ok? Would you meet me if you could? "
Your profile looks and reads better than a lot on here, a couple of little spelling mistakes which I am sure the grammar police will pick up on but nothing drastic! A pet hate for me is 'looking for females'! Sounds awful, I much prefer to see the word 'ladies' but that may be just me! Your pics are not bad but I would lose the one with a pint and your tongue out, it's a very 'laddish' and immature look in my eyes, sorry!
Other than that, as others have said, you need patience! Lots of patience! Stay positive, stay polite and I am sure you will do ok! Good luck x |
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"Clubs, meet and greats, parties, try them there great.
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This and more pics...the one in the public gallery are not very imaginative and if all you have are certain cock pics in the private ones that will not help. Good luck  |
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Get yourself out there, clubs, social events and I would suggest some fresh pictures that show a bit of effort rather than a quick snap. Dark pictures are ok, if it's intentional mood lighting for example other than that they just look slapdash. |
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"It's not as easy or friendly as it was when I was last in about five years ago. Did quite well then, very well number of meets wise. Very hard work now. A lot of egotistical over inflated egos around now."
im pretty sure it's just because the site has grown alot in five years so there are far more guys for you to compete against.I don't get the whole egotistical and over inflated ego argument.while for sure they are here what way do they hampper your success as im sure you wont want to meet them anyway and there are thousands of people on here?just wondering as it sounds like an easy excuse to otheres for failing to attract the good folk.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's very hard for couples too. There may be thousands on single guys baying for pussy, but there are very few that are genuinely interested in playing with a couple. It took us absolutely ages to get started and find the right kind of men, and it didn't really kick off until we started to go to clubs and parties. So I don't think it's just men who find it hard at first.
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We don't understand why single men bother with Fab at all as the odds are so stacked against them due to the sheer numbers of single men compared to single women . Normal dating sites have a much better ratio of men and women and women on those also enjoy sex too ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't understand why single men bother with Fab at all as the odds are so stacked against them due to the sheer numbers of single men compared to single women . Normal dating sites have a much better ratio of men and women and women on those also enjoy sex too ! "
I think there is an illusion that swingers sites are full of women wanting NSA sex, where the reality is that swingers sites are swamped with men looking sex, a medium amount of couples most of which will want ladies or other couples, and a relative handful of single ladies who get hounded by everybody. Seems a bit of a pointless situation for most men.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't understand why single men bother with Fab at all as the odds are so stacked against them due to the sheer numbers of single men compared to single women . Normal dating sites have a much better ratio of men and women and women on those also enjoy sex too ! "
Just to give a perspective of someone who much prefers fab over dating sites.
I don't really like normal dating sites. A few reasons, to start, I'm not looking to date, they're geared towards me meeting people around my age and I find the profiles incredibly dull.
Fab, however has allowed me to discover a few things about myself and allowed me to meet all sorts of different people that I almost certainly wouldn't have if I was just on dating sites. |
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Well it appears you're attached to someone. You don't say you're single. Hmmmmm. You've got one verification in over a year. So you don't get out to clubs and show your face. I wonder why?
Good luck with that. |
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"Is it so hard to find meets as a male?
Iv changed my profile so many times to listening to people's opinions on here to try and get t to work.
Iv been on here like over a year and bit now and only met two females.
It's so slow or is it just me, people just don't bother replying.
From a female point of view does my profile look ok? Would you meet me if you could? "
I'll bite.
Without taking into account preferences.
There are 26 female accounts looking for men 2 years either side of your age within 5 miles of you.
There are over 300 men looking for women 2 years either side of your age range within 5 miles of you.
Only 8 of those women have been active in the last 3 months. Only 3 of those are meeting verified.
So now you build in preferences and the huge choice those 3 women have.
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"Is it so hard to find meets as a male?
Iv changed my profile so many times to listening to people's opinions on here to try and get t to work.
Iv been on here like over a year and bit now and only met two females.
It's so slow or is it just me, people just don't bother replying.
From a female point of view does my profile look ok? Would you meet me if you could?
I'll bite.
Without taking into account preferences.
There are 26 female accounts looking for men 2 years either side of your age within 5 miles of you.
There are over 300 men looking for women 2 years either side of your age range within 5 miles of you.
Only 8 of those women have been active in the last 3 months. Only 3 of those are meeting verified.
So now you build in preferences and the huge choice those 3 women have.
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fucking hell nicely put.puts things in perspective dosent it  . |
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ooh please everyone is the same gets let down lied to, blown out conned it let down even from people they know, be it couples guys females hot or not..
it's fakeswingers really online
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ou need to get out in real world . meet at clubs or events.
There maybe be in 100s of 1000s members but the actual amount that are genuine and play are about 2 percent x |
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"Is it so hard to find meets as a male?
Iv changed my profile so many times to listening to people's opinions on here to try and get t to work.
Iv been on here like over a year and bit now and only met two females.
It's so slow or is it just me, people just don't bother replying.
From a female point of view does my profile look ok? Would you meet me if you could?
I'll bite.
Without taking into account preferences.
There are 26 female accounts looking for men 2 years either side of your age within 5 miles of you.
There are over 300 men looking for women 2 years either side of your age range within 5 miles of you.
Only 8 of those women have been active in the last 3 months. Only 3 of those are meeting verified.
So now you build in preferences and the huge choice those 3 women have.
fucking hell nicely put.puts things in perspective dosent it ."
means nowt those 3 females probably dont meet either lol c |
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