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Genuine FWB question from single guy....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ok so I'm new to Fab and what's blatantly obvious is that the ratio of men to women must be about 50:1!

I'm single, half decent looking and a decent enough guy I guess, looking for a bit of fun with a local lady (or maybe 2 if lucky!) So the question is... what are my chances?!

I'm not here to fuck my way through the site but are there many women on here who are after something similar? Not into clubs, couples etc just boring old Friends With Benefits sorta shite with someone I can have a bit of a laugh with.

Looking for genuine replies pls... if I'm pissing into the wind it would be nice to know as my experiences with anything online are pretty horrendous tbh!!

Cheers in advance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lots of ladies on here looking for exactly that OP, biding your time is the answer,keep trying, because it can take months

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ok so I'm new to Fab and what's blatantly obvious is that the ratio of men to women must be about 50:1!

I'm single, half decent looking and a decent enough guy I guess, looking for a bit of fun with a local lady (or maybe 2 if lucky!) So the question is... what are my chances?!

I'm not here to fuck my way through the site but are there many women on here who are after something similar? Not into clubs, couples etc just boring old Friends With Benefits sorta shite with someone I can have a bit of a laugh with.

Looking for genuine replies pls... if I'm pissing into the wind it would be nice to know as my experiences with anything online are pretty horrendous tbh!!

Cheers in advance"

Your chances are as good as your chances down the town on any weekend. These sites aren't just a requiem for the masses to try and pull, it's a lifestyle that so many embrace openly and honestly.

I personally have found clubs to be the BEST way to meet, everyone is there with the same honest intentions. If clubs aren't your thing, (which they openly aren't) then all you can do is try to persevere and take your time, after all, Rome wasn't built in a day.

Maybe drop the attitude of 'pissing in the wind', it takes time to build a relationship (yes, even FWB are built upon a trust and bonding, hence relationship). Try POF, it may be more in your mindset?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

4 weeks!

No face pic.

Minimal profile.

Unable to accommodate.

Watch out the the wind turning direction! Stale urine isnt the nicest of smells

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"4 weeks!

No face pic.

Minimal profile.

Unable to accommodate.

Watch out the the wind turning direction! Stale urine isnt the nicest of smells "

Erm pot, kettle, black!

More than happy to provide face pics on request. I'm not one for broadcasting my face to the world as I am fairly private to what I do in my spare time.

Minimal profile because I don't need War and Peace. More than happy to bore someone shitless over drinks rather than on a profile.

Live with a mate so "sexy time" isn't always easily arranged.

Oh and FYI having been on POF, Tinder etc I am more than aware (from experience) of the whole trolling/fake profile phenomenon.

Btw.. no I'm not expecting dozens of women to fall at my feet, I was asking a genuine question that a lot of guys may be able to relate to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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"Ok so I'm new to Fab and what's blatantly obvious is that the ratio of men to women must be about 50:1!

I'm single, half decent looking and a decent enough guy I guess, looking for a bit of fun with a local lady (or maybe 2 if lucky!) So the question is... what are my chances?!

I'm not here to fuck my way through the site but are there many women on here who are after something similar? Not into clubs, couples etc just boring old Friends With Benefits sorta shite with someone I can have a bit of a laugh with.

Looking for genuine replies pls... if I'm pissing into the wind it would be nice to know as my experiences with anything online are pretty horrendous tbh!!

Cheers in advance

Your chances are as good as your chances down the town on any weekend. These sites aren't just a requiem for the masses to try and pull, it's a lifestyle that so many embrace openly and honestly.

I personally have found clubs to be the BEST way to meet, everyone is there with the same honest intentions. If clubs aren't your thing, (which they openly aren't) then all you can do is try to persevere and take your time, after all, Rome wasn't built in a day.

Maybe drop the attitude of 'pissing in the wind', it takes time to build a relationship (yes, even FWB are built upon a trust and bonding, hence relationship). Try POF, it may be more in your mindset?"

Cheers for the reply. Yup tried POF & Tinder but have found them hard work. And I'm a pretty sarcastic kinda guy so the "pissing in the wind" comment was just a reflection of that.... certainly not an attempt to get people's backs up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And my response was meant with a wink and a hint of sarcasm too. Apologies if it didn't read that way x

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