Just recently when acknowledging or replying to messages we have expressed our preference for white west european males and females as we dont find men or women of West Indian or Indian sub continent extraction attractive or Japanese Thaianese and Chinese for that matter. Now that is our preference but we been have accused a number of times of being racist.
Would a native of Jamaica or the Punjab be accused of being racist if they were not attracted to a grey haired pair from the Midlands.
Your thoughts please |
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"Just recently when acknowledging or replying to messages we have expressed our preference for white west european males and females as we dont find men or women of West Indian or Indian sub continent extraction attractive or Japanese Thaianese and Chinese for that matter. Now that is our preference but we been have accused a number of times of being racist.
Would a native of Jamaica or the Punjab be accused of being racist if they were not attracted to a grey haired pair from the Midlands.
Your thoughts please"
This is fab, full of people ready to take offence on someone elses behalf. Block and move on. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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if you really don't find anyone of a particular race it does seem prejudice. but i can understand why you'd save time on having them message you by mentioning that on your profile.
i do think some people just vent when they can coz it's frustrating finding sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just recently when acknowledging or replying to messages we have expressed our preference for white west european males and females as we dont find men or women of West Indian or Indian sub continent extraction attractive or Japanese Thaianese and Chinese for that matter. Now that is our preference but we been have accused a number of times of being racist.
Would a native of Jamaica or the Punjab be accused of being racist if they were not attracted to a grey haired pair from the Midlands.
Your thoughts please"
Which country do "Thaianese" come from ? |
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"Just recently when acknowledging or replying to messages we have expressed our preference for white west european males and females as we dont find men or women of West Indian or Indian sub continent extraction attractive or Japanese Thaianese and Chinese for that matter. Now that is our preference but we been have accused a number of times of being racist.
Would a native of Jamaica or the Punjab be accused of being racist if they were not attracted to a grey haired pair from the Midlands.
Your thoughts please"
Don't acknowledge or reply unless your interested in someone or block and then you can't be accused of anything
Opening up dialogue with someone you don't want to meet is polite but opens yourself up to "why not" type replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We ALL have preferences of some sort.
Not racist in my opinion. Although Iv been accused of being racist on the forum for not wanting to fuck black men  "
Is calling a man that racist too?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" we have expressed our preference for white west european males and females
Do east Europeans look so vastly different from west Europeans you find them all unattractive?
Sally"
My guess its the high cheekbones!  |
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I don't normally comment on thisz type of thread, felt the need to though.
Ok so, in my opinion, it is slightly racist (if there is such a thing as slightly racist) and it is probably more offensive than you realise.
Does that mean you find all other races ugly, because of the colour of their skin? It's a very wide net to cast.
It doesn't make you a nazi loving racist but mainly I don't think it is something that needs to be said!
Your profile is better without it!
Would you say no Fat people or what about nobody who's tits are smaller than.... No because again you don't need to say that, it's just rude and upsetting.
A polite, "I don't think we match" or "sorry you seem lovely but your not my/our type" would suffice.
Even just delete and ignore.
Most guys especially, know this means no thanks.
I understand not every person of every race finds other races attractive, (I personally can't stand anyone from Pluto)
I knew a lovely Chinese guy who thought all causcasion women were ugly and I know two nice Nigerians who think anyone of Latino heritage is too. They didn't treat these people differently, just never dated them and certainly never directly said this to anyone's face as a reason to say no.
Yes it is a personal preference BUT!
it's just not something you should have to put out there.
If its just to stop the mails, you probably get worse ones because you state that on your profile anyway.
Hope this makes sense.
I know you probably get a lot of mails from A wide range of ethnic groups being in multicultural Birmingham, but I would just delete it from the profile anyway. |
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"Just recently when acknowledging or replying to messages we have expressed our preference for white west european males and females as we dont find men or women of West Indian or Indian sub continent extraction attractive or Japanese Thaianese and Chinese for that matter. Now that is our preference but we been have accused a number of times of being racist.
Would a native of Jamaica or the Punjab be accused of being racist if they were not attracted to a grey haired pair from the Midlands.
Your thoughts please"
I tend to agree with you ... and I shave my head so are you "baldist" ... and I am well built ... so is anyone "skinniest" .... oh and I like women more than men so am I "sexist" .. the whole world has gone PC crazy |
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(Would a native of Jamaica or the Punjab be accused of being racist if they were not attracted to a grey haired pair from the Midlands.
Your thoughts please)
Oh and only if they said no white/caucasian people. Grey haired isn't a race. |
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"(Would a native of Jamaica or the Punjab be accused of being racist if they were not attracted to a grey haired pair from the Midlands.
Your thoughts please)
Oh and only if they said no white/caucasian people. Grey haired isn't a race."
Grey haired could be a race if it's during a veterans sporting event  |
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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago
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"Just recently when acknowledging or replying to messages we have expressed our preference for white west european males and females as we dont find men or women of West Indian or Indian sub continent extraction attractive or Japanese Thaianese and Chinese for that matter. Now that is our preference but we been have accused a number of times of being racist.
Would a native of Jamaica or the Punjab be accused of being racist if they were not attracted to a grey haired pair from the Midlands.
Your thoughts please"
The way you've phrased your point is a little racist or could be construed that way. You're assuming people of colour only come from non European countries which isn't true.
Simply state on your profile quite clearly & early; since your bio is so long, that you're only interested in Caucasians from West Europe.
A quick google has concluded your parameters limits you to people from:
Belgium
France
Ireland
Luxembourg
Monaco
Netherlands
United Kingdom
Andorra
Portugal
Spain
And maybe Italy at a stretch. Everything else is northern,central,eastern or Southern and therefore doesn't meet your requirements
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